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Welcome to my Seventh-Annual Make It Happen Goal Setting Series! I’m so grateful for this series, and for all of you who join each year. How has it been seven years, friends? I’m so pumped for this year!!!
Want to listen to this post instead of reading? Here you go!
Let’s get right to it: what brought you here?
Maybe you feel frustrated as you look back at 2017.
Perhaps you didn’t make progress on some goals, or forgot about them completely (You are not alone! I have done that in years past!).
Maybe traditional goal setting has failed you before and you feel defeated already thinking about 2018.
Maybe you stumbled on this post because you want change to have happened yesterday.
Well, I have good news.
Really good news!
After almost a decade of studying goal setting and what motivates people to change and follow-through on their goals, here’s what I know for sure:
What causes people to change is one pivotal moment. It’s the moment where you decide that the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of change.
This moment might just be that moment for you.
Maybe your thoughts have been something like mine lately: I want my life (or an area of my life) to change/grow/be simplified. I don’t know how it will happen and the unknown is scary, but I KNOW I don’t want to stay the same any longer!
Friends, your restlessness is welcome here.
In fact, it’s a really good thing.
We’re gonna use our restlessness and frustration to propel us forward to CHANGE. Really good life-giving change!
If you’ve been craving something new, you are in the right place. And if you aren’t convinced yet that goals can be life-giving, you’re in the right place, too!
If you are new to this series, welcome—you’re in for a treat this year! Let me back up a bit and introduce myself, because we’re going to have some fun together over the next few days as we go through this 5-part series. I’m Lara. I’m a mom to three, a grateful wife, CEO of a growing company, and I love getting my hands dirty in my garden here in Chapel Hill, North Carolina.
I’ve written two books about goal setting and intentional living. (My book deal came from an editor at Thomas Nelson reading this annual series!) I’ve led a conference called Making Things Happen for 9 years. My nickname when I was a personal trainer in New York City was “Ms. Motivator.” But! This all makes me giggle a little bit because I haven’t always loved goal setting. In fact, the words “goal setting” used to give me the heebie-jeebies!
I have a lot of things to take care of in my life (like you), and I don’t have room for a whole lot more (I’m guessing that’s like you, too), and I get tense even thinking about the pressure to accomplish something beyond my current capacity (areyouwithme?).
I started seeing real results in my goals when I flipped the usual process on its head. And that’s exactly what we’re going to do together here.
This is goal setting for people who hate goal setting!
We don’t do traditional pressure-filled, do-it-all goal setting around here. We uncover intentional, less-is-more goals. I call these “cultivated goals.”
Cultivated goals are about growing what you’ve been given–what you already have: your relationships, your money, your possessions, your work, your children, your home, your health, and your time. A little intentional forethought goes a long way!
Over the last seven years that I’ve been writing this series, as my life has dramatically changed, so has this goal uncovering process. I’ve studied what makes people feel unmotivated, and I have listened to you. I’ve followed your stories and challenges and incredible successes over these years as we’ve done this together. Through it all, I’ve discovered some pretty amazing not-so-secret secrets to getting unstuck.
Uncovering cultivated goals is not about doing it all; it’s about doing what matters. Whether you’re a mom, a student, a business owner, in transition, in the wait—in any place where you are in life, we’re going to let go of guilt-filled, fleeting resolutions, and embrace a whole new way of doing this goal setting thing. For those of you like me who do not like traditional goal setting, you are in the right place.
Listen in as I tell you my story…
Cultivate: A Grace-Filled Guide to Growing an Intentional Life from Lara Casey on Vimeo.
Consider the script officially flipped!
From here on out, when I mention “goals” or “goal setting,” know that I’m talking about cultivated goals.
Here’s what cultivated GOALS are all about:
Grow what matters
One step
At a time
Little by little your
Seeds will grow
The alternative to uncovering cultivated goals is going through the motions, not feeling confident that you’re on the right path, lacking motivation, and not taking care of what you’ve been given well. (Speaking from experience here.)
Cultivated goals–the kind we are going to uncover together–give you direction and motivation. You can’t simultaneously do it all and do life well. But you can choose to cultivate what matters, right where you are.
Here’s what you can expect in this five-part series: Each day of the series, I’m going to walk through a mix of goal uncovering steps from my first book, Make it Happen (which you can sample here), insight from my new book, Cultivate, prompts from the 2018 PowerSheets, and I have some new ones that we’ve never done before!
The PowerSheets and my books have many more goal uncovering prompts than I’ve listed in this series. This is just a sampling.
A peek above at one of the new pages this year: the Break Your Identity Box page. And, yes, I love PostIts!
A word of freedom here! Do you need the PowerSheets and books to have an intentional year? No. You don’t need them to live this life well. They are powerful tools if you choose to use them, but if you only do this blog series, and use scrap paper to write your answers, that’s great, too. 🙂 Use what you have! If you are someone who has been stuck in indecision lately or feeling fear about diving into new things, practice what I call “making a mess!” Use whatever you have available to write with, and on. It doesn’t have to be perfect. Just dig in.
As we go through each step together, use the comment area here to leave your answers, or write them in your PowerSheets, a journal, or on scrap paper. Don’t just think your answers. Thinking them doesn’t count. Write them out and, if you want accountability, leave them boldly here in the comments. I want to cheer you on, and this year I’m going to leave some of my answers in the comments, too. Friends, help me out here and cheer each other on, too. You never know who how your words might change someone. If you need an extra kick in the pants to make it happen, I have a giveaway at the end that might encourage you!
Ready to dig in? Step 1, here we go!
STEP ONE: In order to leap into the new, we first must know where we are leaping from. I’m going to ask you the golden question: How are you? Really. How are you? Let’s look at each area of our lives and do a little check-in. Look at the categories below and write out how you are doing in each one:
– Health
– Friends
– Family (including your significant other, if applicable)
– Finances
– Spiritual + Personal Growth
– Work
– Recreation
Feel free to write in your own categories, too! Give each area of your life a rating between 1 and 10, along with a few thoughts on why you chose that number. 1 means you are not satisfied in this area and want to see radical change. 10 means you are happy as a bee on honeysuckle!
One of the new 2018 PowerSheets features: The Cultivated Life Evaluation. This is a simple check-in that helps you to know where you are and where you want to go in each key area of your life!
This is step one for a reason. “How are you?” seems like a simple question, but when answered from our heart of hearts, it can help set you on an entirely new path.
Knowing where you are now, mess and all, helps you to leap to where you’re going.
The soil you’re standing on right now is your growing ground.
How are you? What’s in that soil of yours right now?
Reply in the comments, or on paper right now. I’ll leave my answers in the comments too! And don’t get stuck in the negative soil. Include thoughts about what is good in each area! For instance, as for my feelings about finances: I’ve been challenged by contentment and emotional spending at times, but I have become skilled at managing money. It took ten years, but I now feel comfortable navigating Quickbooks, doing our business finances, and analyzing where we are. (A couple years ago I wouldn’t have been able to type that!) Allow yourself to write the things that may feel undone, imperfect, or hard, and write in some positive thoughts too—even if the positive feels tiny!
Now, a bonus challenge: let the dirt be dirt. Once you’ve written everything out, be still with your feelings for a moment—whatever they may be—without trying to change them or push them away immediately. Let the challenges and places you’d like to grow sink in a little. If you’re like me, I often want to fix my circumstances right away instead of letting myself feel anything at all. My instinct is to reach for a distraction when faced with something that feels hard. (Anyone tempted to go scroll Instagram right now?) But, that never brings me peace or clarity. So, let’s not do that. Maybe the soil of your life needs some fresh nutrients, or maybe there are some big rocks in the way of you planting new things. The only way you’ll know though, is to see what’s there first.
Besides…
All those rocks and weeds?
They are pockets of purpose waiting to be transformed!
STEP TWO: Watch this video (or at least the first 30-ish seconds) that some of my closest friends and I made for you…
What have you been chasing recently, or in the last year? Do you feel like you are “chasing perfect” in some ways—attempting to measure up to an impossible standard? Write or type here what you have been chasing, and how that has been making you feel. Maybe you’ve been chasing success, significance, or approval. Maybe you’ve been trying to keep up, survive, or just get through. Whatever you’ve been chasing, name it boldly and know that you are not alone. To name your chase is to destroy it.
STEP THREE: In traditional goal setting, you focus on the future, and on achieving your goals as fast as humanly possible. That is a recipe for b.u.r.n.o.u.t. I’ve done it many times in the past, and it’s no bueno. But! Uncovering really good goals means learning from the past in order to cultivate what’s next. The past has a lot to teach us! Let’s take a look back at the last year.
What good things happened in 2017? What grew well? What are you grateful for from the last twelve months?
I know this can be a challenging step. We often don’t like counting our blessings because it may feel self-indulgent or like it won’t get us anywhere fast, or perhaps you are thinking that there were no good things that happened in 2017! It’s easy to look back at an entire year and see only the hard parts, like when something happens to you at the end of the day and you automatically call it a bad day, regardless of what happened the other twenty-three hours.
Let’s do a little digging! A few tips to unearth the good stuff:
– Talk to your significant other or a close friend about your year and ask him or her to reflect some of the highlights back to you. He or she may remember some that you have forgotten! This is also a great way to celebrate the good things of the past year with others. Make it your dinner conversation tonight.
– Take a look back at your calendar, blog posts, social media updates, or photos. Those might give you a clue into some of the good things you’ve forgotten.
– If you are a PowerSheets user, read through your 2017 PowerSheets!
– Review your finances from the year. This is like reading a journal of places you went, and what some of your priorities were.
My Good Things: My word for 2017 was LIGHT, and even in the challenges, it was a year of God’s light changing me and, even in the hard things, a feeling of lightness after a heavy and hard 2016.
A little recap from the last seven years:
2011 – Our marriage is falling apart and then the impossible happens. My husband, Ari, becomes a believer and Grace is born.
2012 – We are parents and life is crazy. I go through post-partum depression and try to figure out how to be a mom and run a growing small business.
2013 – The Lara Casey Shop opens and we release the first version of the PowerSheets. Out little shop takes off faster than we expected. After reading this goal-setting series, a publisher offers me a book contract. I begin writing Make It Happen.
2014 – We try to have another baby and miscarry. Through the grief, I write and release Make it Happen. We start thinking and praying about adoption. The same night I finish our adoption paperwork, I feel a little off. I am pregnant with Josh!
2015 – I start writing Cultivate and Josh is born in August. We match with our birth mom and, with much prayer and open hearts, we say yes to two babies in the span of six months.
Photo by Nancy Ray
2016 – We adopt Sarah and I finally finish writing Cultivate in the middle of the mess. 2016 was a challenging year (I wanted to quit my business), but, I learn that good things grow out of hard things. I let my hair down, we change the name of our company and I pass the torch for my role as Editor-in-Chief of Southern Weddings.
2017 – I finally release Cultivate after two years of writing and re-writing and I begin homeschooling Grace. Our company grows like wisteria in March (a lot!) and I spend the year living what I wrote in Cultivate: ‘Getting our hands dirty in the soil–hands and heart undistracted. Celebrating sprouting seeds, golden yellow weeds, and everything in between. Rejoicing in our weakness. And receiving God’s limitless grace during the many, many, many times we mess up.’
This year, I was so grateful to see all that we teach in action in my own life and goals! I set four goals for the year and made more progress in each than I ever thought possible. A year ago, I knew I’d be so grateful I started these goals, and little by little, they happened! Did I mess up every along the way? Yes! Did I have some challenges? Definitely. But, imperfect progress is still progress and when you embrace that fact, you are far less likely to completely jump ship. 🙂
My four 2017 goals:
Goal 1: Read the whole Bible again. Yes! Read all about this goal here. I am on track to finish the Chronological reading plan on December 31 and I’m probably gonna cry when I finish I’m so grateful for this! I’ve decided to celebrate by going back through all the highlights I’ve collected in my YouVersion Bible app all year and marking them in Grace’s journaling Bible with love notes to her. I’m so excited to do this!
Goal 2: Run, and finally get back into weight training. The former personal trainer in me was a little ashamed of this at first, but you guys, I have made progress! I haven’t had a gym membership since Grace was born, and I haven’t done real weight training in just as long. I used to love being in the gym and feeling strong. But, the logistics with kids and the gym just haven’t worked out. So, I made it work! Read more here.
Goal 3: Live a year of radical gratitude and praise. After a challenging 2016, this was something I needed to cultivate. As I wrote about in Cultivate, complaints are clues. They reveal to us places in our hearts where we don’t trust in God’s goodness or His power. While cultivating gratitude is a life-long pursuit, I am so grateful for how I dug into this goal this year! From praise dance parties to practicing praising God through really hard challenges, this was really good. You can read more about how I made progress in the monthly posts I’ll share in a minute…
Goal 4: Cultivate our life-giving home. This included starting homeschool with Grace this fall, living with less, living in a life-giving space, implementing a plan for the office to semi-transition out of our house, growing our marriage, and planting a family legacy within the seemingly-mundane everyday routines of life, and the bigger celebrations of life (holidays, traditions, milestones) too. Wow, I am in awe that so much of this happened! We started homeschool and we have been loving it. It was a big transition for my work schedule and it has caused me to have to say no a lot more, but it has been worth it. We also made some much-needed home repairs this year, and I created our Cultivated Calendar for 2018. The one thing that changed here was moving the office out of the house. Instead, we made the office better (reveal coming in a few weeks) and I’m so glad we made it work! P.S. My friend Sally wrote a beautiful book about cultivating a life-giving home that I highly recommend! Also, you can catch our live broadcast together here.
You can read all the details of my 2017 goal progress in my monthly updates:
February
March
April
May
June
July
August
September
October
November
December (this month isn’t over yet–I’m still making little-by-little progress!)
My list of good things from 2017 in my PowerSheets is above. *You’ll notice I have some things covered in my PowerSheets throughout this series. If I wrote about something that had to do with another person, for their privacy, I covered those names and items. Some highlights:
- The progress I made on my four goals this year! 🙌
- Through many challenges we’ve experienced together this year, our marriage grew! We are stronger and more joy-filled because of all we have been through.
- I started homeschool with Grace.
- Our business grew in a new life-giving direction. I was invited to join C12, we added several new team members, and we are excited about the future.
- I finished writing my second book! This was a HUGE praise after two years of writing (and re-writing!).
- There’s more, but I don’t want to do all the talking! I’m sharing just a few things on my list to get your mind turning. I would love to hear from you.
Name three lessons you learned from the good things. For example, in my life there were many times last year that good things happened when I let go of control—whether getting on my knees (literally) in prayer or in looking at how I could change instead of hoping others would change. The lesson for me was a big one: let go. Surrender. Humble yourself. That’s where change begins. I continued to learn that it’s okay to grow slow, and embracing change can be good.
Your turn! Today’s Goal Uncovering Steps:
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
Then, share your answers here in the comments to encourage others. I can’t wait to personally cheer you on!
And remember this: There is no room for comparison in cultivating what matters. A page from my 2016 PowerSheets:
Whether you had one good thing happen or twenty, celebrate the good stuff and let’s help each other do the same. Let’s turn comparison into compassion and cheering on.
Okay, that’s it for today and that’s plenty to work on. I’ll be back Friday with more goal uncovering goodness!
Take your time with this and remember, cultivating what matters is about progress, not perfection. This is not about writing the perfect list of perfect goals with a perfect pen. It’s about digging into the dirt, right where you are, to grow, tend, and harvest what you’ve been given. This process will have a big payoff, but you have to commit to working through it. Let your 2018 goals bake, like a pan of homemade hot cinnamon rolls fresh out of the oven. They wouldn’t be flaky and yummy zapped quickly in the microwave, would they? They’d end up as a big pile of mushy dough. I’m not going to hand you your 2018 goals; we’re going to do this right and bake them well together, little-by-little, with some bold leaps of faith along the way. Sound good? Awesome!
Need an extra kick in the pants? How about this for motivation? Welcome to the Ultimate New Year’s Giveaway. There are lots of prizes and fun ways to enter. Most of all, though, I hope you comment with your answers from each step as we go through this series. I can’t wait to read your answers, and share mine with you too! One person who comments with answers to every step in this series will win a bonus prize: one of everything from the Cultivate Shop! Yes!!! This includes 2018 PowerSheets, the Cultivate What Matters sticker book, books, journals, art prints and so much more!
A big thank you to everyone who entered! What a joy it was to hear your responses and get to chat with you in the comments! Congratulations to our winners below! If you’re a winner, fill out this form to collect your prize!
1. 10 sets of 2018 PowerSheets! — Gail boos, Sara Baker, Carrie Condra, Cydney Levin, Melissa Kelly, Cierra LaShay, Kara Wallitsch Tydlacka, Charis K, Staci Good Bedenbaugh, and Cara Gordon
2. A Fitbit Flex — Amber Cavasoz
3. A gift card for a massage — Chris Koiro
4. The 2018 Floret wall calendar — Jen Harris
5. A 2018 Yearly prayer journal from Val Marie Paper — Heather Chollar
6. Keepsake Kitchen Diary from Lily and Val — Zulema Uscanga
7. Farmgirl Flowers bouquet — Bianca Norman
8. Our popular PowerSheets Companion Bundle — Christy S
9. 1-year membership to Thrive Market — Vanessa Wright
10. 2018 Simplified Planner — Sarah Gonzales
11. ARE YOU READY FOR THIS?! A free house cleaning! — Kara Earhart
12. 5 signed copies of Cultivate — Madelyn Smith, Emily Soroka, Julie Davis, Cortney P, and Shannon Hunsley
13. A seat at Financial Peace University — Kady Curtis
14. 5 signed copies Make It Happen — Keatyn Bergsten, Emily Montgomery, Jenna King, Samantha Hawthrone, and Kaitlyn Payne
15. Write the Word All Seasons Collection — Lacey Cabalas
16. A Meyer lemon tree – a family favorite around here! — Lindsey Abrego
17. A 6-month membership to Skillshare — Veronica Ilioi
18. A LegacyBox! (Amazing!) — Kerry Batty
19. One of everything from the Cultivate Shop! — Sarah Kemer
Why am I doing this? I want you—yes YOU—to get renewed, and to uncover a solid direction for the year ahead. Help me spread the word, and let’s get all our friends in on this! Here’s to a meaningful, intentional 2018—I am cheering you on friends.
Read Part Two of my 2018 Goal-Setting Series!
Giveaway ends January 30th. Winners will be announced on January 31st here on the blog. Hard goods are for US entrants only. If you don’t claim your prize within 48 hours, another winner will be selected, so mark your planners and stay posted! : ) Also, this post contains some Amazon affiliates links. No extra cost to you and all proceeds are donated!
Photos by Gina Zeidler
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625 Comments
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:17 am
I am so excited about setting my goals for 2018!! This is going to be my year to ROCK my life and business!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:59 pm
I am so excited for you, Jenn! Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:19 am
I can’t wait to start living my intentional life in 2018. The power sheets are so easy to do and you and your team keep me inspired to keep going! I cant’ wait to see what you have to share each day. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:59 pm
Thank you, Sarah! We are grateful to have you cheering us on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:23 am
I am SO excited about this series! 2017 has been a crazy awesome year for me – I feel like it’s the year I decided to really “own” my life.
So I’m generally good – I enjoyed doing the evaluation in my PowerSheets! I can’t wait to be intentional with goals and progress in 2018!
For me, 2017 was a giant blessing filled with good things: I went to a decision making workshop that was AMAZING, I took a leap of faith, quit my job, took a trip around the world, and decided to start a small business. God is doing amazing things in helping me trust Him and His plan, even if my life right now looks nothing like I’d imagined it a year ago!
One of the biggest blessings I’m SO excited about are the two friends who are doing PowerSheets with me! I can’t wait to work on building our lives and community!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:00 pm
I am praising Him for all 2017 brought you, Amanda! And how wonderful that you have friends to work on your goals with!
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on December 28, 2017 at 2:02 pm
Amanda – I loved your comment. Curious about your Decision Making workshop. I LOVE the power sheets but find I can’t make decisions easily and then regret them! Would love to know where you found the workshop.
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on December 29, 2017 at 2:13 am
Yes please Amanda, can you share more about this workshop?
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:31 am
Thank you for being such a huge cheerleader for us all!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:00 pm
It’s my pleasure! Thank YOU for cheering us on! : )
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:33 am
Great post to kick off the final stretch into Christmas and New Years.. As a newlywed I am looking forward to setting realistic goals that respect myself and my husband as well as our shared goals in the couples guide!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:01 pm
I hope you are blessed by the Couples Guide, Lindsey! Wishing you a wonderful first newly-married Christmas!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:38 am
Woo hoo! I’m so excited about this new-to-me process of goal-setting. This year I’m focusing on family: specifically parenting my 3 wild sons and having deeper connections with our extended family. I want to be more disciplined in my spiritual, well, disciplines and also some personal habits I’d like to cultivate. And recreation! I have 10,000 ideas for crafts and writing projects–things that I would so enjoy. I’m not going to deny myself those pleasures this year!
As to what I’ve been chasing? Well, mostly I feel like I’ve been one step behind it!!! So I think this time of slowing down and being wise about what I focus on will help me feel less breathless.
Good things from 2017: being a lot more flexible and spontaneous, lots of planning ahead, then holding those plans loosely. Using my Spanish more and not worrying so much about speaking perfectly. Not always saying what I am thinking. 🤣 Having a routine of cleaning in place so that our home is generally clean. Not being hyper about having a perfectly clean home! Having more people over–overnight guests! Dinners! Meetings! People dropping in! This was a huge area of growth for me.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:02 pm
It sounds like you made some incredible progress in 2017, Julie! Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:44 am
Encouraging my MOM to have some goals for 2018! We live with her and I want to help her accomplish some of her personal goals and do some work around the house with her. She likes to float through life 🙂 So I want to encourage her to live with more purpose!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:03 pm
Just have to say I love this goal, as well! One of the best things about the PowerSheets is the ripple effect they can create!
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on December 29, 2017 at 3:22 pm
What a wonderful Idea Julie! My mother in law is discouraged right now with life. I want her to know that God has given her a meaningful life despite all her losses. She is also a floater. 🙂
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:46 am
I found out about the Powersheets about a week ago. I’m at the lowest point of my life, and I knew something had to change. So I ordered your first book (thank you Amazon Prime!) and halfway through reading it, I knew God was calling me to come back to him. I still have no true understanding of the reasons behind my current situation, but I know I can move forward with God. Big changes were needed in my life, and I’m scared AND excited for what’s to come!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:04 pm
Wow, Linda, I am praising Him for all that He is doing, has done, and will do in your life! We are so happy to have you here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:55 am
Step One: My averaged life rating for the 8 categories listed in the PowerSheets is a 5.5. Some areas were higher and some where lower but they ALL need some radical changes to occur. My three top priorities for 2017 are health, spiritual + personal growth, and work (my work is college).
Step Two: This past year I was soley chasing SURVIVAL. My life motto became “Surviving NOT thriving.” When I stepped back and really looked at what that meant it broke my heart that I had so naively accepeted that life style over the way God created me to live. He created me to THRIVE. This step is where I realized what my word of the year needed to be. My word for 2017 seemed to accidentally be SURVIVING so my word for 2018 needed to be the opposite, THRIVING.
Step Three:
In 2017:
-I grew my relationship with my boyfriend. Now we’re engaged.
-I cultivated my prayer life.
-I got really sick, BUT I was able to tend to my helath. I now know how to take care of my body.-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:05 pm
I’m excited for all that you have already uncovered, Allie!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:56 am
I have been feeling blessed, but with some uneasiness hiding in me that flares up. My life is stable and filled with love. I think this stability makes me nervous because there was a lot of instability for some years in my life. I want to reach some goals that I have put off for no real reason. Love this post. This year will be my first powersheet year.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:05 pm
Little by little progress, friend. We are cheering you on in your first PowerSheets year!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:57 am
I have started to dig in and am grateful! This is my first year with powersheets. Hard work? Yes. Good? Yes! Looking toward the good that will continue? Yes! Thank you for the steady encouragements. (And thank you for the opportunity with the giveaway too.)
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:06 pm
I love hearing from those in their first year of PowerSheets! Cheering you on, Chris!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:59 am
I have waited to the last minute to plan my 2018 goals. I could use this to get me motivated again.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:07 pm
There is nothing magical about January 1st, friend! Today is a great day to get started!
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:00 am
So excited about this! Thank you always for your encouraging words!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:07 pm
I’m so happy to have you here, Brianna!
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:12 am
So excited about digging deeper into my good goals this week! I’ll be a first time Powersheets user in 2018, and I’m ready to get started!! Thanks, Lara, for leading us all on this journey!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:07 pm
It’s my pleasure, Kaitlyn! I’m excited for your first year with PowerSheets!
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:25 am
I am so excited to make 2018 my year! Can’t wait!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:08 pm
Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:26 am
Also, I texted my sister after I read this to encourage her and to get her involved in this too!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:08 pm
Thank you so much for sharing!
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:30 am
Thank you for offering this giveaway!what a huge blessing it would be to me and my friends 🙂
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:08 pm
It’s our pleasure, Andrea! : )
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:36 am
Reflecting on the last year is so helpful and reassuring, like giving myself a big hug and pat on the back for all the hard work I didn’t even realize I was doing each day. Looking forward to using that motivation to plan out next years goals!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:09 pm
I love this, Heather! We should all be giving ourselves hugs every day! : )
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:59 am
This is so exciting and so motivating already! Here we go 2018
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:09 pm
Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:07 am
What I would give to have had this when I was a young stay at home mom!! But I’m turning 50 in 2018 and while part of me still cringes at the thought (time sure does fly) I have decided to embrace it and be thankful God has given me so much time on this earth with my loved ones!! This is going to be my best year yet!! No matter what challenges are thrown my way I know that God has me in the palm of His hands!! My word for the year is SURRENDER! Surrender to God, surrender to the process, surrender to my goals! I’ve always been good a starting things with a bang but had poor follow through but 2018 is going to be the year to get stuff DONE!! Thanks so much to the Cultivate Team!! I’ve never been so surrounded by so much positivity, even if it is through a computer!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:10 pm
I love your perspective so much, Audra! We are so happy to have you here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:08 am
I’m so excited to kick off 2018 with my first set of Power Sheets! I’m planning to use them for my personal life and my business.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:10 pm
So happy to hear you are finding us for the first time! Cheering you on, Wendy!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:11 am
Step One: I am HOPEFUL for the year to come. 2017 was a trying year for me and my husband. But we are stronger because of it. I am thankful for the lessons learned but I am excited about 2018!
Step Two: I have been chasing what other’s dream for my life. But I am excited that I am taking control of how I let what other’s think of me determine my actions. I don’t need to let other’s view/opinions of me sway how I view myself and my life. 2018 is a new year!
Step Three:2017 brought financial hardship to our life, but choosing to rely on the LORD and lean into my husband allowed for those relationships to bloom. I took control of my physical health, and that has helped me tremendously this year. I also bloomed where I am planted, and I have seen contentment grow in my heart.-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:11 pm
What beautiful outcomes from a trying year, Rebecca! Thank you so much for sharing!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:18 am
Very thankful for what are doing to encourage others to chase their dreams and set reachable goals for themselves! This post gave me the motivation to evaluate what I really want for myself in 2018! To be continued with areas of my life I want to take control of and grow! Thank you!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:11 pm
I’m so glad, Cierra! Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:39 am
Lara! I love this series so much! I am so excited about 2018. 2017 had some GREAT things happen, but I can’t wait to build on that and make 2018 EVEN BETTER. 🙂
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:12 pm
Thank you for being here, dear friend!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:42 am
Lara, thank you so so much for all you do to encourage and lift us up! 2018 will be my third year using powersheets, and they have helped me cultivate so much peace and joy!
I really enjoyed following the goal setting steps this morning and identified health, family, and work as areas I want to focus on in 2018.
I realized that over the past few months I’ve been chasing perfection through discouragement, procrastination, and insecurity. I’ve adopted an attitude of “if I can’t do it perfectly I won’t do it at all.”
That being said, 2017 was one of my most blessed years! I became a certified health and wellness coach, moved across the country, and became a mom to beautiful baby girl! I can’t wait to cultivate some life-giving goals for 2018!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:12 pm
Amazing, Kelsey! We are so glad to have you here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:43 am
1. How am I? …I’ve had an exciting year with lots of changes – new job, new house, new marriage. I’m feeling happy about these new steps, but antsy about cultivating them well so they each have a strong foundation! The three areas I want to really focus on this year are finances, marriage, and faith.
2. What have I been chasing? …This one is hard for me to pinpoint, but I think it’s approval when I really boil it down.
3. What has worked and what have I learned from that? …a few of the things that have really worked well this year are : *My husband and I found a church and have been attending pretty consistently and getting more involved – this has taught me that connection with my faith and community give me a sense of stability and “home” that I need. *I have a running text with two of my friends and sometimes we connect daily, sometimes less, but I always know where I can go for encouragement or commiseration or a laugh – this has taught me that despite distance, cultivating deep meaningful friendships is worth the little bit of effort it takes.-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:13 pm
What strong lessons, Elizabeth! Thank you for sharing!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:45 am
Also, I texted two of my friends (the two on my running group text from my previous comment) to encourage them for the day! It opened up conversation for one of my friends to let me know about some issues she’s been struggling with. I’m glad I reached out and was able to be a sounding board!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:49 am
OK, so 2017 threw bricks at my head. From the outside, everything looked better than ever, but panic attacks, debilitating anxiety, depression, and dealing with a painful past that I’d ignored for too long made just getting through the day harder than it should have been.
However, I did make some small progress on small things last year, and that’s more than I would have done if I hadn’t been setting goals! 2017 taught me a lot. It gave me perspective. I needed 2017 before I could set good goals for 2018. 🙂
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:15 pm
Little by little progress is the theme of my life, Teish. So glad you’re here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:53 am
1. I’m ashamed of not stewarding my marriage well and not loving my husband well in the midst of being a mom with two young kiddos and working full-time. Each area of my life could absolutely use some improvement and change, good change. However, my marriage is the area I most want to improve.
2. I’ve been chasing a perfect marriage and perfect home and both have left me feeling like I’m failing.
3. Good things I’ve learned this past year:
– smile more, especially when talking to my children and husband, it makes a world of a difference.
– saving small amounts of money adds up rather quickly
– asking for help, whether that’s asking God or asking my family or friends
– reading with a friend
– being still and intentionally planning periods of rest, which sometimes might just be 10 minutes of alone time
-preparing ahead of time, whether that is meals or laying out clothes for school/work the night before-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:16 pm
We have to know where we are before we can change, and it sounds like you have done so much good work on that front, Ky. And what solid lessons you’ve learned from 2017!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:07 am
I’m so looking forward to this. I’ve been working on goals, and want to focus on my health. This year I’m going to be a good mother to myself (and my kids too! :-)).
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:24 pm
Beautiful, Katie!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:07 am
Excited to make my goals for 2018! This year seemed to rush by; I want 2018 to be the year I savor. More of some–love, laughter, family, travel, home–and less of stuff, anxiety, doubt.
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:24 pm
Yes! You will love the “yes” and “no” lists in the PowerSheets!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:14 am
Thank you so much for offering a voice recorded option for this series! I am so grateful as that is the best way for me to fit in following the series! I am so excited to start up part 2 tomorrow!
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:24 pm
So glad you are enjoying it, DeAnna!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:23 am
I’m so excited to get started on my very first set of Power Sheets!!
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:25 pm
We are excited for you, Kim!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:29 am
I am super excited about the coming year and the progress I will make on my goals. It will be the first time in a long time where I feel like I’m free from school (I graduated last Sunday), and all distractions enough to concentrate on what truly matters to me in other areas of my life. I’m also excited to have my sister with me on this journey for the first time with her powersheets as well.
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:25 pm
Congratulations on your graduation, Cortney! So glad you and your sister are on this journey together!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:39 am
I am a first time powesheets user and I have really been enjoying the prep work and goal setting! I can feel that 2018 is going to be a great year! Here are my answers to the challenges from this post.
1. How am I? 2017 was a very challenging year. We suffered a miscarriage in January and then welcomed a new baby girl just 3 weeks ago. This year has been the hardest of my life, but I am ready to tackle some life areas that I have been putting on the back burner for a long time. Specifically, my health, my spiritual life, and my career.
2. Lately I have been chasing survival. I have been in survival mode all year, mostly out of necessity, but it has caused me to neglect areas that really need tending.
3. This year was hard. But there was still good. I have a beautiful newborn daughter and the most joy filled son. My husband and I grew close in our grief. And I learned that I was strong even in the midst of horrible circumstances. I got a promotion at work and our finances are in the best place they have ever been.. I know I am capable of making progress on my 2018 goals because of the storms we weathered in 2017.
Thank you for this series. I am excited to keep going.-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:18 pm
Thank you for sharing, Jamie. I am so glad you’re here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:39 am
Dear Lara,
thanks so much for guiding us through this messy life and seeing it as purposeful! I am ready to write down some new goals and to get started really working towards them. I hope God will help me and I am sure that your work helps!-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:18 pm
I know that He will. Cheering you on, Anne!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:47 am
This is my first time using the power sheets and I’m so excited, I’m a blank canvas and willing to Grow .The past five years have been exceedingly hard for my family and I, growing pains are not easy but I’m grateful for the lessons I have learned. Rating each area of my life was a bit hard everything was so low, but it’s ok because it’s under construction my spiritual growth is most important I believe that’s how the other pieces will fall into place the way they need to. As far as what have I been chasing lately..I’m just trying to get through each day, some days it’s unbearable others I can see little God moment’s and that’s what keeps me going.My list of good things: the few friends I do have are God fearing women, Drawing closer to God to see Life through his eyes when I can’t see the good, spending more time with My daughter and My husband’s eyes being opened. Leasons To look for Joy and wake up and spend tome with God and give thanks.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:19 pm
I am excited for you, Katri! The areas we rate lower have the most opportunity for radical change. I’m cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:59 am
Super excited to get this process started and see what 2018 has to bring!!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:19 pm
Thrilled for you, Candace! Thanks for being here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:00 pm
Hi, Lara! I look forward to this series every year! I’ve been a powersheets user for quite a few years now, and it’s made such a wonderful difference in my life!
My main priorities for 2018 are health, relationships, faith, finances, and work/ministry.
2017 was one of the hardest years I’ve had in a long time. It was a season of heartbreak for me, a season of broken and redirected dreams, but I have seen His faithfulness to me in my grief, and I know He has been growing me and strengthening me through it all. I know the best is yet to come, and my story isn’t over yet.
Good Things From 2017:
New adventures (my trip to Nashville)
Learning and growing (I read and was encouraged by so many good books – including Cultivate!)
Praising through the pain (I got to worship with my sister and with some of my favorite worship artists this year: Rend Collective and Elevation Worship)
Bold prayers (even in the face of disappointment, I found God prompting me to keep praying boldly; I’m excited to see the ways He answers each of those prayers)
I went deeper in my Bible study and am so excited to continue this more in-depth study in 2018Challenges in 2017
The complete unraveling of a dream (a relationship I thought was leading to marriage)
Doubt and discouragement in God’s plan for me
ComparisonTwo of the main lessons I learned this year:
*I want to live so FULLY surrendered to Him that I trust and praise Him even when the story looks like it has gone terribly wrong.
*And I want the story that gives Him the most glory — even if it looks “different.”Thank you again for your encouragement and guidance, Lara! I’m grateful for this community you’ve created, and I’m excited to continue this year’s goal-cultivating process! 🙂
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:21 pm
I am so glad you are here, sweet friend! Thank you for sharing here so generously.
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:00 pm
My bonus “How are you?” category is “Self Talk” and is tied to many of the pain points in other categories… lack of trust in relationships, lack of confidence at work. I’m guessing my number one goal will be to address that somehow!
Looking forward to the rest of the series and powersheets!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:21 pm
There’s so much possibility for change there, Lisa! I am excited for you!
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on December 29, 2017 at 5:07 pm
I have been chasing perfection and I feel shame. “Shame” was my word of the year for 2017. Oh how I want to flip that script to “acceptance!”
Good things we’re getting engaged, going to a Spirit-filled counselor, and becoming self aware. I’ve learned a little more of how Christ loves me because of how my fiance loves me and because of how I am so much more unlovable than I ever thought and yet, He loves me still.
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:03 pm
This is a WHOLE new world for this Type B girl here!
But I’m going to do my best, cover this new adventure in prayer, and step out and be BRAVE! I think that’s my word for the year.
1. How am I? Great question. I am all over the place. Moved to ATL from NC in Feb. after I got married. Feb was a season of CHANGE, everything all at once. I haven’t felt like I’ve found my footing yet. Even in 10 months. I feel uneasy, a little lost, and out of place.
My avg 1-10 rating is about a 6. I want to improve everywhere! Haha, but I think the areas that really stand out to me that need some extra love and attention are
-my walk with God,
-exercise/health, and
-my work life/being brave with my small business.
2. I have been chasing quick fixes and temporary reliefs FOR SURE! I can so relate with reaching out for distractions when things feel too hard. I don’t like feeling lost or like I don’t know what to do. I have been chasing the need to “be the best” not just “good enough”, and chasing recognition.
This makes me feel so tired, all the time. This makes me feel dumb and uneducated, incapable, and powerless.
3. Good things I have learned:
-I got married this year, so that is such a highlight. I am continuing to learn how God designed Tyler for me.
-God is totally for me and never against me.
-Having a consistent prayer life (or not having) changes my spirit more that I know.
-I have THE most supportive and encouraging friends and family
-It’s okay to not be okay.
-God has given me talent for HIS reasons and gloryI am really looking forward to 2018 and being a part of this!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:22 pm
We are SO happy to have you, Rebecca! There is so much good ahead!
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:13 pm
I’ll be honest there is excitement, but nervous about goal planning
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:30 pm
That is a beautiful place to be, Quinn. I hope you keep pressing in to the nerves. We are grateful to have you here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:24 pm
I’m determined to actually set goals this year!! I’ve seen this done for awhile, but never taken the plunge. So here’s my leap of faith!! I’m looking forward to following this series and living a more intentional 2018!!
Step 1: Health [6] — I’ve been better about running more and consistently, but I want to get to longer distances and curb my sweet tooth!! Friends [1] — I have acquaintances at work and church, but no real close friends. I’m determined to make close friends and be a better friend. 🙂 Family [5] — My relationships with my parents and sister are good, but my brothers are more distant. I want to extend more grace to them. Finances [4] — I’m still saving, but I should do less unplanned spending. I have done well with handling a car, but I REALLY need to learn to budget. Spiritual & Personal Growth [6] — Though I’m currently in a dry season, I’ve been way more consistent this year. Who doesn’t want to grow more?! 🙂 Work [6] — My full-time job is a good learning experience, but it’s not what I want to do forever. It’s not the most fulfilling. Some days are slow, and I wish I was better most days. Part of me wants to work more (a side job?). Recreation [2] — I really want to plan more recreation (hiking, time with my sister on the weekends, accomplishing more tasks around the house). I default to movies and social media too much!
Step 2: I’ve been chasing love, success, and significance. But I feel rejected, inadequate, spinning my wheels, without purpose, empty, unfulfilled, lacking substance. There are priorities that need to be changed and goals that need to be set so that I don’t get off track.
Step 3: When I stop to think about it, I really have had so many blessings and learned so many good lessons this year. Thank you, Lara for making me take the time to reflect on these! 🙂
We completed our Senior Design Exhibition; I GRADUATED! God is faithful!! I got a hired, and I got a car; God provides! I have learned (and am still learning patience! Family vacation at the beach. I cleared some clutter out of my life (email, clothes, room). I got to celebrate my birthday with my family. God comforts in sorrow! God is enough! (Still learning!) I have a great Christian community!!-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:31 pm
There is so much opportunity in what you’ve outlined here, Sarah! I am excited to see what He will do in your life!
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:26 pm
So excited for the changes to the 2018 Powersheets! Love all the color on the worksheets.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:31 pm
Thank you so much, Kim!
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:27 pm
This is the first year I have completed powersheets! I am so thankful for your help on setting goals and excited to see what my year holds!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:32 pm
I love hearing that so much, Rebecca! Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:32 pm
Thank you Lara for sharing so much of yourself on your blog. It helps me work through my thoughts and feelings.
I have been chasing validation and approval with my website and that leaves me feeling unfulfilled and crappy. One of my goals for 2018 is to share with the intention to connect (not sell). I want to help as many people as I can tell their stories with photos and words and I can only do that from a place of vulnerability and honesty. Yay for cultivated goals!-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:32 pm
Beautiful, Diane. I’m so glad you’re here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:41 pm
This is my encourage someone comment — I asked my bff how she was doing with her powersheets prep and suggested that we get together this weekend to talk it out and support each other.
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:45 pm
I was incredibly intimidated, although excited, to use PowerSheets. However, I have dived in and am making great, purposeful goals! Thank you for using your gifts so well!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:32 pm
Bravo, Mandy!! That encourages me!
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:47 pm
Encouraging someone:
I have a friend who I introduced to Cultivate What Matters and PowerSheets. She wants to order her own PowerSheets, but hasn’t yet. I text to encourage her dive right in and set fear aside! Now is the time to take the step of faith and start living on purpose.
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:50 pm
This is a wonderful way to scaffold goal setting. I am very impressed and inspired!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:33 pm
So glad you are here, Jennifer!
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on December 20, 2017 at 12:55 pm
I’m excited, hopeful and ready to dig into 2018 intentionally and with both feet! A huge goal is to dig into daily Scripture as fuel for the rest of my day (and this means starting my day with it instead of sprinkling it at random throughout my week)!
Lately I’ve been chasing others’ perception of “success” when it comes to my job and season of life, and not listening to what the Lord would have for me. Praying my goal of more time daily in the Word will help refocus my scattered brain on what matters most!
3 good things:
-Big beautiful tomato/basil garden this summer!
-Met a huge goal of running a statewide relay and half marathon after lots of physical therapy and post-injury fears
-Growing in taking care of my body through what I’m eating/roommate meal sharing-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:34 pm
You know I love hearing about a garden success, Madelyn! Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 1:00 pm
Oh Lara! You know I love this series and I just love your heart! I took a social media and blogging break in August, and I plan to jump in at the New Year, but I’m still making time to work through my 2018 PowerSheets and this series beforehand 🙂 I always intend to answer your steps here but rarely follow through, so here we go:
1. How am I ? Honestly, a little run down but also really excited for the Christmas break and the fresh start with a new year and new semester of teaching. This year my word was SIMPLIFY. In some ways (moving in with a roommate, taking a social media break) I made big changes, and in others I over packed my schedule and over-extended myself so much that I finally realize the NEED to simplify. For 2018 I chose the word JOY, but I have also chosen a phrase of three key words that will act as vision for my goals, taken from Proverbs 31:25.
+ Strength, to prioritize physical health and strength.
+ Dignity, to prioritize financial responsibility in order to get of out debt.
+ Laughter, to prioritize doing what fires me up, fills my tank, and centers me on Jesus.Also, I’ve worked through my PowerSheets and have chosen 8 goals for the year, but as the new year approaches, I’m thinking of narrowing it down to these three.
2. What have I been chasing lately? Too much. I’ve said yes to too many things that were not necessary, wanting to feel needed and appreciated. A friend actually challenged me to say “no” to one thing every day this week, and it’s been so helpful. I’m feeling burnt out and a bit overlooked, but also determined to protect more time for myself in the future and to simplify my commitments going into the new year.
3. Good things:
+ A better awareness of what I’m feeling and what I need.
+ A growing theatre program.
+ Thriving in local community.
+ A successful fall play with my students.
+ A life-giving home and great roommate.
+ More love for the Word.
+ A year of travel and adventures.
+ Grace for the struggles in between.Lessons Learned:
+ I don’t have to do it all.
+ I can’t do it all even if I tried.
+ Just because I have the capability doesn’t mean I have the capacity.
+ Taking time to rest helps every area of my life.
+ Nothing satisfies like Jesus.
+ A relationship with the right guy at the right time is worth waiting for, rather than forcing something because it “should” work.So excited for the rest of this series! <3
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:20 pm
Yay, Bailey!! So happy to see your comment here. 🙂 I love your phrase of focus for 2018. Cheering you on, friend!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:36 pm
I missed you, Bailey! Proud of you for stepping back, stepping in, and making some firm choices. And I can’t wait to encourage you in 2018! : )
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on December 20, 2017 at 1:02 pm
So excited for this series!
1) By God’s grace, my spouse, family, friends, work, and recreation categories are rated around 8-9. These are things I worked on in 2017 and I’ve seen the results! Health, finances, and spiritual growth are my focus for 2018. I’m hoping my goal to complete the Write the Word series will increase my faith!
2) I chased a perfect home at the expense of spending time with my kids inside the home. I did chores instead of quality time. Although it makes me feel shame, I have a glimmer of hope because I can do better!
3) 2017 good things: moving, praying for my marriage, realizing my need for help with my anxiety, talking to my husband more, grace with my kids. God can redeem any marriage! God will keep you where he needs you until it is time to move, then he places you perfectly again! I can trust Him with my heart and mind – He can heal if I am willing!
I encouraged my sister Sarah with this and hopefully she joins the Cultivate community.-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:37 pm
Thank you for sharing, Laura! I love that your good progress from 2017 will energize your 2018 goals!
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on December 20, 2017 at 1:09 pm
I’m so excited for 2018! My word is Nurture and my goals are simple and close to my heart.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:37 pm
I am glad to have you here, Jessie!
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on December 20, 2017 at 1:10 pm
The three things I learned in 2017: Trusting God with His plan for my life is key. It eliminates stress and anxiety when I surrender to Him and allows me to relax in His Presence. (Isaiah 41:10) 2. Despite what the world tries to tell us, slowing down isn’t a bad thing. It provides renewal and rejuvenation especially when you’re using that time to grow spiritually. 3. Persevere and be faithful in your commitments despite the suffering you may face. No matter how difficult the race, there is peace at the finish line. (Romans 5:3-4)
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:38 pm
It is definitely okay to grow slow, Whitney. I love the verses you’ve chosen for the lessons you’ve learned.
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on December 20, 2017 at 1:15 pm
What a giveaway!! Here are my steps Im working on. I an ready for a change and this is best system I have found that will allow self reflection and growth. With being a mom of 6 and hubby busy with work, I feel like I have been stuck and stagnant, Time for goals but I have a tendency to try to work on so many goals all at the same time and then get burnout. Im hoping this system will change that for me and that I can take one step at a time in my changes.
Step 1- I did my cultivated life evaluation and I got from 3 to 8 in the different areas. Some areas to work on is family, finances and spiritual + personal growth. With my family, I am going to be working on getting to know my kids better on a one on one basis. I need to become more responsible and focused in my spending and being more intentional with the money we are earning and possibility getting a job myself and spiritually I want to improve in my prayers and scripture study. I am looking forward to learning who I am again.
2017 was a year of change with moving across country leaving sweet friends and my oldest finishing her last semester of HS. Now she is off to college and this is a new phase and change to our family. Plus with moving and new job brings changes of their own for everyone else.
Step 2- chasing perfect has a been a life long problem of mine and I am ready to stop and find me again.
Step 3- Good things that happened for us- now job for growth and joy for my hubby, new adventures in a new place, owning a home again, being closer to family and friends, feeling closer to God and my Savior, options for Healthy alternatives for my boys and their health issues, being healthy!
2018 is going to be amazing year thanks to this direction and guidance!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:39 pm
Thank you so much for sharing, Alisha! It sounds like there is much good ahead!
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on December 20, 2017 at 1:28 pm
This year was one of getting through it rather than setting goals and accomplishment. I hope 2018 will be a year of inspiring goals for me!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:39 pm
I pray it will be, Megan! We are cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 5:55 pm
Megan, my year was similar. Comforting to know I was not alone!
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on December 20, 2017 at 1:34 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
-my health needs the most work I think. We’re finally on a good track with our finances. Our relationship with friends and family are on good ground right now. I’m always working to be closer to the Lord! Work is steady for my husband and I – lots of learning and classes and training for good stuff.2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
– I’ve been chasing ease in the wrong ways. Ease in terms of idleness. I got some good stern answers from God just today about that!! I’m turning “ease” to “joy,” which requires mindful work, prayer, and a shift in attitude.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
– family always good. My kids are thriving in school and my husband and I have been communicating pretty well! I’m glad for the small moments we’ve had this year. This summer was amazing and this fall has been exhausting. We’re looking forward to the holidays and continuing in faith together.
– i got an A in my graphic design class and it feels like the right move to keep forward with it! My next class starts mid January. I’m excited.
– a HUGE work project finished up and we’ve been getting great feedback. Huge motivator.
– I have two weeks off of work now to recoup and regroup and soak up so much family I’ll be sick of them.
– i learned the difference between ease and joy. I’ve learned what diligence v idleness can bring WITHOUT the hustle and bustle. I’ve learned to turn to the Lord ALWAYS for everything, for without Him I could do none of this.-
on December 20, 2017 at 1:44 pm
OH! Hugest lesson h my writing can come in spurts and it’s still writing. I’ve been published on three platforms in a year’s time. Nothing more than 2000 words. That’s three more platforms than I’ve ever been published!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:40 pm
What beautiful lessons He has taught you, Sarah!
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on December 20, 2017 at 1:40 pm
Just encouraged my friend!! She needed a little lift. Easy to give, she’s very bright!
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on December 20, 2017 at 1:57 pm
2017 is the first year that I’ve ever set goals. I broke them down into daily, weekly, & monthly steps and guess what? I accomplished so much more than I had in years past! Not that I didn’t accomplish anything before, but this year I actually accomplished things that helped me make progress towards something (not just a clean toilet). I wanted our family to be “outdoorsy” – so our daily goal is “small” just “go outside.” That’s it. And did we do it everyday…no, but we did it much more than the previous year because I had a reason to do it. Sadly, I did not do as well with my monthly/quarterly goals.I think because they just weren’t in front of me and because I wasn’t checking in on them. The daily goals were on my “to do” list every day so I saw them. They others were easier to forget. In 2018 I want to keep even BIG goals in front of myself regularly for increased accountability. My friend also just started a monthly accountability group to sit down at the end of each month and review goals. I am excited to put my time to more efficient use and to be held to those standards by other women who are committed to doing the same!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:41 pm
I love these insights, Sarah!
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:10 pm
I was initially very intimidated by the new Cultivated Life Evaluation page, but found it to be SO eye opening and helpful this year. The concept of not being able to do it all and do it all very really reasonates with me, someone who has previously wanted to set goals for all areas of my life and then felt overwhelmed. I love being asked to consider what are the top 3 things I want to focus on this year (for me, my significant other, finances, and health/self-care). It’s not that the other things are not important (I had some guilt about not putting family on that list), but the 3 things I have choosen will positively impact my family and other areas of my life. I think this year is going to be a year of refinement–determining what should be my north star and setting all priorities to align with that pinnacle.
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:26 pm
I love these insights, Anna. So glad the Cultivated Life Evaluation page was helpful for you!
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:15 pm
SO very excited as this is my first time digging into the PowerSheets. I’ve finished my prep work and I’m almost done setting my 2018 goals. These PowerSheets have already been a game-changer for me and the New Year hasn’t even started!!
GOOD THINGS:
Joined a gym, attended a photography workshop, breastfed my son until he was 6 months old, built boundaries with my business, launched a FB Live weekly series, got pregnant (!!), simplified my home, remained debt free, and started a college savings plan for my childrenCHALLENGES:
Too much social media overload, rely too much on email communication with clients (need more of a personal touch), not allowing myself to rest, doubted myself, and felt overwhelmed by chasing perfection-
on December 21, 2017 at 4:27 pm
It sounds like you are making wonderful progress already! Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:24 pm
Step 1: I’m not going to write everything here (it’s in my PowerSheets & my journal). But I will sum up by saying that there’s room for improvement in all areas. I did the Fruitful Friendships Workbook last month, and I realized that while I have close friendships, they’re not based in the right/real things (too much gossip, etc.). There’s room for personal growth there as well. The main thing I want to share is that for recreation, or exercise, I’m training for a 24 hour run/walk for Cancer in April. The goal is to do 50 miles in 24 hours. I’m going to do it and encourage others along the way, but I need to train hard for this! And I’m just walking it by the way.
Step 2: I’ve been chasing success, but not really in a productive way. I’ve coveted others’ success, and I know that there are certain things that I want to do. I just need to start taking steps towards them.
Step 3: A lot of good happened in 2017. I helped out my parents; my dad is getting ready to retire so we signed up for Medicare and whatnot. I walked two 10ks and one 5k ( the 5k was called the Bubble Run and it was so fun). I went to some parks and the beach for time outside. I presented at a conference which was huge, and I was just notified that I was accepted to present again in 2018! I bought a new car because my finances are finally in order. I gained confidence in my work although I still I have a long way to go. My best friend got married (I was a bridesmaid), and her bachelorette winery crawl and wedding were so much fun! There’s more, but I’ll stop there.
It’s scary to be this vulnerable (although still really vague), but I appreciate this community that let’s everyone share without judgement.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:42 pm
I am so glad you’re here, Natalie! Thank you for sharing so generously.
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:26 pm
I need to go back and read this a few dozen times! It is a lot of good info that I need time to let sink in.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:42 pm
We are here for you, friend! : ) Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:30 pm
I texted two of my girlfriends and encouraged them to invest in PowerSheets for 2018!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:46 pm
This is such an awesome series – thanks for doing every year. Last year I read along and wrote in my own journal, and I’ve seen such growth that this year, I purchased the Powersheets and I love.
1. For me, Health was at a 6; I need a better balance of discipline and not obsession. Friends was an 8; I love my close intentional relationships and did much better at choosing my family over friends. Finances was an 8; this year I want to grow in generosity not just savings. Spiritual was a 7; I’d like to grow my knowledge and practice of Sabbath. Spouse was 8; I loved the marriage class we took this year and I’m loving our new level of intentionality. Family, sadly a 5; am I ever going to feel like I’m doing great here, or is feeling like you could do more, play more dress up with my kids, etc always exist/? I don’t work, so I ranked my leadership in my MOPS group as a 9; I’ve released so much control. Recreation; a 1 – ouch. Although sadly not something I crave much of. I love your idea of #runliftpraise that you get moving to worship music – I’ve been doing with Christmas music and I like the change so far.
I want to grow most with my family (including deeper relationship with my parents), spouse (it’s so easy to become like ‘roommates’ again with little dis), and spiritual.
2. I’ve been chasing perception. This perception giving people that I can do it all, that I”m not weak — but I’ve been challenged that my living that lie I’m stealing from the gospel. If I could do it all, then I wouldn’t need Christ, and I never want to communicate that to my kids, family, and friends.
3. Good things: saying ‘no’ to obligations that add stress; reading great books that challenge me; staying home to raise my girls; marriage matters class; decision to definitely homeschool; being more aware of our budget to live well; planning home days to ease the stress of busy weeks; birthday trip away with my mom; continuing with Bible Study Fellowship.
Lessons learned: I”m an introvert and need downtime; intentionality is key with my marriage; State expectations early, I set the tone in my home – make it good; I enjoy creative cooking; bookclub isn’t for me; The power of the Armor of God – use it!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:44 pm
I’m so glad you’re here, Rachel! Thank you for sharing!
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on December 20, 2017 at 2:57 pm
So thankful for the recording!! I got to listen while I worked!
Step One: On average for all the groups, I am a 6.5. It was so fun doing this part because I was able to think about the items I had on my tending lists throughout the year and how they have helped me grow on these! One in particular that I was excited to see growth on was work and finances. I’m better at managing my work so I have weekends/nights off and I’m getting so much better at managing my finances, but there is definitely still room for growth there!
Step Two: I’ve been chasing having a “popular” business rather than a successful business. Something that I didn’t realize until the last couple of months. I’ve also been chasing well-planned family time by thinking our time together had to be doing something new or going somewhere rather than focusing on little bits of family time during the normal day.
Step Three: Things I watched grow in 2017 and what I learned – I watched my son grow from a baby to a toddler (getting to see him walk for the first time, weaning him from nursing, finding out his personality) which has taught me patience haha. My family has grown and experienced things as a family of three and my husband and I learned how to function in public with a baby! And finally, I have watched my business grow and I’ve learned what should be a no-brainer, but I’ve learned it takes hard work and consistency.
I just started my power sheet prep last night, and I realized what a better place I’m at mentally this year than last year, and it is so exciting and makes me so grateful!!-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:46 pm
I’m so glad you loved the recording, Erin! Thank you so much for sharing!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:09 pm
Been looking forward to this for weeks!!! Thank Lara for investing your time, energy, and heart into this goal-setting series.
1. Life evaluation. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve? I want to improve my health and fitness, my marriage, and our business most.
Health – 5, have made progress here and have been working with a personal trainer leading into 2018. I have a ways to go! So 50/50.
Friends – 8, I had a goal every month last year to cultivate relationships with my friends and the ladies on our team. But I can get better!
Spouse – 7, I’ve made some great progress here in the past year, especially in my own self-image so that I don’t look to him as my source and then get offended. But I still have some areas I need to work on.
Family – 5, I really let time get away from me with my family. I could be more intentional here.
Finances – 7, we’ve made progress, but still have some big goals to accomplish here.
Spiritual/personal growth – 7, 2017 was a year of growth in this area for me, but it’s time to kick it to the next level. I’m doing the chronological Bible plan daily as we head into 2018. And want to keep working on growing me. It’s time to go out on faith, trust God, and surrender.
Our business (aka work) – 6, we’ve made progress, but we’ve also fallen short in a lot of areas. It’s time to take our business to the next level and move on once and for all.
Recreation – 8, we’ve done a lot more exploring and had new experiences together this year, but I could be more adventurous and spontaneous, that’s how I see this category for me personal.2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel? I’ve been chasing control. My word for the year is Surrender because of this. It’s time to let go and breathe easy again, trusting my God to go before me and move this year.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
#1 good thing – powersheets!! 🙂
I’ve grown greatly in my personal discipline and have made a lot of progress in my personal growth.
My self-image grew
Spent more time in the Word
Realized how much more I am capable of and that I DO KNOW WHAT I’M DOING as it relates to our business.
Made progress in my weight and health and fitness, although a bit of a ways to go.-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:47 pm
I’m so glad you’re here! Thank you for sharing!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:11 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
I really need to improve in the areas of Health, Friends, Spiritual Growth and Recreation. I eat well, but don’t have a regular workout routine. I haven’t been hanging out with my friends much due to work and just being a homebody. I can always grow more in my relationship with the Lord! Need a new study to do. Any suggestions would be great! I don’t tend to go out and have fun. I need to stop focusing on the tasks at home so much and enjoy life!2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
Lately, I’ve been chasing comparison. It makes me feel unfulfilled. I need to keep my eyes on my life and not everyone else’s.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
I learned my house doesn’t have to be perfectly clean to be able to rest in it. I’ve learned I don’t need to scroll through Instagram constantly or I start having negative thoughts. I’ve learned it’s okay to stop the tasks and sit down a read a book or nap instead of constantly going (but still learning this too!).-
on December 20, 2017 at 3:47 pm
Such wonderful lessons to build on in 2018, Angel!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:19 pm
Thank you for this opportunity!!
Step One: I actually feel really healthy but know I need to work out consistently – 5. I really worked on opening myself up to friends this year, and would like to continue that journey as I tend to be closed off from new people – 4. I love my family and progress I am making to build my own – 9. Always trying to have a better relationship with finances – 3. Spiritual and personal growth has both soared and stalled this year. This journey needs to continue! – 2. I changed my entire career to a passion and I am so excited cultivating this insane opportunity! -7. Recreation this year has been amazing and I am so grateful for all the time I’ve been given to spend with the people I love -10.
Step Two – I have been chasing a dream career that isn’t fully formed and trying to action towards it each day. I always chase money – stress about it and let it run my life. I am trying not to do that anymore.
Step Three: I have so much to be grateful for 2017!! I left a job I hated for one that I LOVE. I got engaged and married! I took so many risks and really felt true to myself this year. I have really high hopes for 2018 and I really look forward to what the future brings! Thank you!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:48 pm
It sounds like 2017 was an amazing year, Angela! I’m so glad you’re here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:30 pm
1) How am I? Health (6)- I do my best to eat well, but pregnancy + perpetual sickness + sleeping difficulty has been trying. Sleep has become more of a priority, however. Family (8)- We have grown so much this year has a family. Our marriage feels more grounded, we’ve grown in communication and handling conflict with grace. It’s been great to see growth in our almost 2 year old. We do want to invest well in him and help him adjust to new things. Spiritual Growth (8)- this was a big focus for 2017. So grateful for morning and evening rhythms, spiritual direction and cultivating a liturgically sensitive life. Recreation (1)- what’s this? Re-termed self care. Mental health hardships, I don’t even know where to start …………….. 2) I’ve chasing trying to be everything to everyone. I choose to get overwhelmed, I choose to compare. …………..3) What went well? *living liturgically, *welcoming a new baby, *reaching a savings goal, *starting spiritual direction/daily mass rhythms, *practicing contentment, *morning and evening routines as a family. I’ve learned that I need help. and can’t be it all.
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:49 pm
Thank you for sharing, Kate!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:40 pm
I’m so grateful for you and your team and all that you ladies do to help women live well!
1. How am I?
Health – 5
Friends – 5
Family – 5
Finances – 6
Spiritual – 7
Work – 3
Recreation – 10 (I get to go to London during the time of the Royal Wedding next year and I am sooo excited!!)2. What have I been chasing?
I have to agree with you and the ladies from the video. Perfection. I feel so behind sometimes. Overwhelmed. Less than. All because I’m not measuring up to my own expectations of myself. Or the expectations I’ve created because of overly consuming social media. This coming year I hope to let go of perfection and grab on to purpose.3. What good things happened in 2017/What am I grateful for?
-My word for this year was Overcomer. I think that fit in a lot of ways. There was a lot of emotional baggage that I let go of. I really feel so different and much more healthy in that respect.
-I’ve been on a very long journey of trying to finish up my undergrad degree and just this month I was accepted to UF to finish my degree in Psychology. I start next month and I couldnt be more excited for God’s faithfulness in this area!
-I’ve found contentment, gratefulness, and courage as a stay at home mom. I fought this title and season of life for a while. Complained, made excuses, and was ready to just give up and get a job and send the kids to daycare because I felt like a total failure. This is probably my biggest testimony of the year. I pursued God so much in this area. Time after time, he was faithful. He grew me and helped me. He taught me how to keep going, how to just simply love my kids and let go of the need to be “perfect mom.”Thank you for doing this giveaway. Praying for you, your family, and your staff. God Bless and Merry Christmas!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:50 pm
Thank you for sharing, Shantell! I loved reading your thoughts here, especially how He has been faithful to you!
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on December 20, 2017 at 3:54 pm
Step 1: This year has been a whirlwind. We miscarried in January quite a few weeks into the second trimester with what would have been our third baby. I’m now pregnant again and having our sweet third girl in less than two months! Through all of this, God has showed us time and time again that his plan is bigger and better than ours. I can’t control everything (though I’d like to). The one area I really wish was better was my fitness/health. As a previous personal trainer and regular exerciser through my last two pregnancies, I’ve let that fall on the back burner this year.
Step 2: I’ve been chasing success this year. After our miscarriage, I threw myself into my photography work and my business increased by so many new and returning clients. It was a beautiful blessing in a very hard time, but I also realized I didn’t have the measures in place to make sure that it didn’t take over my life since I stay home with my girls on top of it. I reached complete burnout on top of going through an unexpectedly difficult pregnancy. I want to just be still in 2018 when I feel the need to. Not looking to meet others’ expectations, but truly sit where I am and see what God wants. Set clear client goals and politely say no to anything outside of that. My family & my sanity deserves it.
Step 3: I’m so grateful for the growth in my photography business in 2017. It was a welcome surprise and helped affirm that leaving my previous career to stay home was the right decision. Growing this new little one in my womb has reignited my faith in so many ways. I’ve also learned that superwoman is so overrated. I’ve known this for a long time, but for some reason always reach for that unattainable status. I’ve come to dislike it enough to want to change it. I’m looking forward to resting next year and focusing on my family.
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:28 pm
Thank you for sharing so generously, Elizabeth!
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:01 pm
The only area in my life right now that’s higher than a 5 was Work. Everything else was a 5 or below so I’ve got work to do. I too chase perfection , mostly the idea in my head of being a perfect mom, having a perfectly clean out, etc . It’s exhausting and i don’t want to chase that anymore. I’ve got work to do there as well. Finally I will share that I excitedly bought a 2017 PowerSheets, worked through the setup and then never used it so this year I’m DETERMINED to use it to follow through on some very worthy goals and aspirations. Thank you!
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:28 pm
It sounds like you have lots of room to grow, Elizabeth – I am excited for you!
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:05 pm
I worked through the PowerSheets Prep section and found it awesomely eye opening – so many tears! But a new question that Lara has brought up in this post is what have I been chasing? I’ve been chasing being everything to everyone. And it makes me feel exhausted, defeated, empty and resentful. Time to let that go!
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:29 pm
So glad the extra question resonated with you! : )
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:08 pm
I always seem to be pointed this direction when I’m struggling, and I’m grateful I stopped by here today; I needed to hear your inspirational words once again.
1. I feel like I’m always treading water, with my head bobbing right at the point of going under. Honestly, I think I’ve been a failure at it all this year. I want to improve my relationship with my little family, each and every one, and grow stronger in the Lord.
2. I feel like I’ve been chasing a fulfilling bond with God. I struggle with wanting approval, yet being so far from the perfectionist I want to be. From God, my husband, my kids, perfect strangers, everyone. I’m lost and hopeful at the same time.
3. I know God, I have a great family. I am so blessed to be alive in this world, with everything I have been given. It’s all about perception right now:
The most important is we have been blessed with another little (surprise) bundle of joy, due next year. At first, I was upset, because I wasn’t “ready” to accept His gift to us. Then, a few weeks ago, we found out the baby has some serious problems, some that could be incompatible with life. All those other things immediately fell to the wayside. We were given this baby, no matter her complications. I have found peace with it. Every single moment I have with her, every tiny movement I feel, God has chosen me to be her mother. I am grateful for everything about her, even the possibility of losing her.
So 2017 has been extremely challenging. 2018 is going to test us in different ways, but we are blessed. Thank you, as always, for your inspiring words.
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:29 pm
I am so grateful you’re here, Amanda. Praying for you right now.
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:09 pm
2017 has been an incredibly hard year. My daughter had her second open heart surgery, my husband started the process of recovery and went to rehab for 30 days, and I gave birth to my third baby. I could FULL STOP there (and throw a pity party), but I’m so thankful that you asked that we dig up the good stuff. I was reminded that God is faithful to answer prayers and change life courses. I was able to see the lavish love of my church and my community and understand why its so vital. I learned that my children and my time with them is borrowed and a sweet gift. I learned that I AM NOT STRONG, it is only God within me. I need Him like I need water. Lately I having being chasing purpose and fulfillment. I seek it through perfection and escapism. Its left me empty and feeling stuff and not enough. I’m looking forward to this next year of seeking JOY. The deep abiding kind that stays alive through hard things and tastes even sweeter through good times.
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:30 pm
What beautiful reflections, Summer! Thank you for sharing.
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:14 pm
Oh my goodness!!! This series is EXACTLY what I need!!!
I love goal setting….but by the end of the year….I always end up basically discouraged because I don’t feel that I have accomplished anything.1. Here is where I stand in the following areas:
Health (5): I’m not overweight, but I could eat healthier and exercise more
Friends (6): I have friends, but I don’t do much with my friends.
Family (9): This year I lost my mother in law. It caused me to be so much more intentional in this area! I’ve done more with my family this year than I have in a long time.
Marriage (8): My husband and I have a strong marriage, but we don’t spend much one on one time with each other. Date nights and a getaway are definitely in order!
Finances (6): We aren’t in debt and we don’t live check to check….but we do NOT have a budget. BIG goal for the coming year.
Spiritual Growth (8): I would love to lead a Bible study this year. My prayer life and quiet time have been more consistent this year, but have room for improvement.
Personal Growth (8): This year, I started a blog which was my 2017 goal. I have learned so much, but would like to learn more. I would also love to start a Foster/Adoptive Parent support group in our county.
WORK: Stay at Home Mom(6): I LOVE staying at home with my boys….but I feel completely out of sync most of the time. I just need some kind of schedule….the house stays a mess….I need to meal plan….etc.
Recreation (2) : Recreation? I don’t think I even know what this is. LOL2. I have been chasing perfection….my life nemesis. I want my blog to be perfect. I want my house to be perfect. I want my meals to be perfect. The list could go on and on and on….. This such a discouraging place to be because everything always comes up short. I feel like I can never get ahead because everything could always be better.
3. Good things: I spent more time with family;took a huge step of faith and I started a blog; I have a new network of blogging friends; staying home with my boys; my oldest son accepted Christ; stayed focused on contentment (my word for the year)
Lessons learned: I can’t do EVERYTHING; my relationship with Christ has to be #1; it isn’t about ME…it is about HIM; God calls me to be faithful in the ordinary; most people don’t pay attention to the very things I fret over most
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:31 pm
So glad you are here, Emily! Thank you for sharing!
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:15 pm
Loving this series and so excited about working on my goals for 2018! Lara- you and team have been such a huge inspiration to me already and I’m just getting started. I feel like I’ve found my “tribe” among your team, these women and others connected to you. So excited for 2018!
Oh! And I sent a text to encourage a friend who is in a really difficult season of transition. Aaaaaand I’m coming back for more to answer all the questions after I get off work!! 🙂
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:15 pm
Back for more…
1. I’ve been learning that I’m not as “OK“ as I think I am. I tend to put my head down, work through all my todos, get it all done, and then realize on the back end that I haven’t cared well for my heart in the process. And I haven’t stopped to just “be” while I’ve been so busy “doing.” So that’s my focus on 2018. I want to learn how to BE.
Going through this page in my power sheets made me realize how many things I have to work on in every area of my life (overwhelming!)… But it also made me realize that while there are certainly some areas I’m really struggling with, there are several where I feel really confident as well. Thus, In 2018 I really want to focus on my health, my spouse, and my spiritual development.
2. What I’ve been chasing…Survival. I’ve spent this year pregnant with baby #2 and with a newborn since August, so Life is all about survival. Surviving as a working mom of 2…surviving physically with pregnancy, recovery and lack of sleep..surviving at work after taking 3 months off…surviving in my marriage as we adjust with this big transition. It makes me feel tired just thinking about it…and I SO desire to Thrive, not just survive going forward.
3. Good things: had a healthy baby boy in August, gave more than ever to kingdom causes- practicing extravagant generosity, took big steps in spiritual development through an intense course on Freedom in Christ, the team I lead at work was the #1 team in North America in my division this year!
Through these things i learned that you truly do reap what you sow. We sowed seeds financially this year and Prayed specific prayers and God delivered above and beyond in blessings back to us. I also learned that Freedom is possible from things that have weighed me down for years. (And excited to keep pursuing that in 2018) Oh and of course I’ve learned that despite the craziness and the struggles and the survival mode- my husband is the best. He’s always been my rock and I plan to spend 2018 intentionally pursuing his heart!
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:32 pm
I am excited for you, Staci! We are so glad you are here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:16 pm
Encouraging others: I sent a message to let my best friend know how strong she is as she fights a tough health battle.
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:17 pm
1. This was great for me to separate into different areas. Health, significant other, and spiritual growth were high areas (much thanks to your books for that!) Areas of growth are friends/family (putting in the effort!) finances and work.
2. I have been chasing success and that feeling like I accomplished someting.
3. Lessons from the good things:
-Selfish and earthly goals do not lead to success or motivate me.
-When I pay attention and am intentional, things grow.
-It’s okay to grow slow
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:33 pm
Thank you for sharing, Kim!
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:26 pm
I just moved from CA to CO, and I started 2 new jobs. In so many ways this Goal Setting is the perfect thing for me to focus my energy without getting overwhelmed because if I’m going to be honest, I’m really overwhelmed. So, how am I doing? Health-8 I’m really stressed right now, learning to manage my time and learn new processes for my 2 jobs. Friends- 5 I don’t have any friends in our new town, which is kind of lonely even though I text my best friend and sister in a group text everyday back in Texas. Family- 4 I lost my grandfather to Lung Cancer in February since then my grandmother has become bitter and angry, I’m having a hard time being compassionate when it should be the obvious reaction. Finances- 2 Another thing taking it’s toll on my health, the expenses of moving, the holidays, and only one of my jobs pays regularly. Spiritual & Personal Growth- 6 I could have given myself a higher score on this one, I’ve grown so much in the last year and I’m challenged daily by my work in a good & exciting way. Work- 7 I LOVE one of my jobs, it’s where my heart & skills & passion collide and I’m in love but it doesn’t pay me consistently. My other job is easy but stressful as I haven’t worked outside my home in 3 years. Recreation- 4 I now live in this beautiful place but I’m so busy juggling work, and home life I’m not doing a lot of hiking or exploring. What have you been chasing? success in my career & with that the approval of my parents- I feel like I’ll never live up to what they expect of me since my path has been very non-linear so to speak. I’m also chasing financial security, which I fear is far far away and unlikely given how much it costs to live in our new place. My 2017 Good List: I was given the Styling Love award from my previous employer in January, I joined a new committee outside my comfort zone at church- it wasn’t a good fit for me but I wanted to try, hosted an ethical fashion party in March with a few friends and was a fun experience, emailed a start up on a whim & now I work for them, moved to Colorado- this was a very good but expensive thing.
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on December 20, 2017 at 6:43 pm
My answer to „What are you chasing“ was very similar as yours. I feel you, friend! Cheering you on as you navigate this new season in your life!
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:34 pm
Wow, Shelby! It sounds like you have had quite a year. Excited to see what 2018 will hold for you!
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:29 pm
Loved the video!!! LOVED it!! I sent encouraging messages to several dear friends in my life!!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:41 pm
Lara, thank you for posting this! I’ve never been much of a goal-setter, but this year, I want to try it.
Step 1: I averaged between 6-8 in these categories. There was always at least a few good things I could point to. I’ve had a lot of change happen right at the end of the year, so some things feel up in the air, but I know they will settle after the holidays.
Step 2: Honestly, I don’t feel like I’m chasing much of anything. I’m too okay with leaving things undone, and, like I mentioned, I haven’t set many goals. This year, I want to find something meaningful to chase after.
Step 3: I celebrated the marriages of four different couples this year, and I learned how much hope there is in every wedding, even when the styles and the couples are completely different. My husband and I took our longest road trip yet together, driving from Dallas, Texas, to Orlando, Florida, and we didn’t fight at all (at least, not that I remember…it was in January!). I also learned to quit books I’m not enjoying reading, which allowed me to achieve my goal of reading 100 books this year early—I’m on book 119 now! And I learned that presence is powerful by spending a lot of time with family in the hospital and while recuperating at home.
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:34 pm
We’re so glad to have you, Kinsey!
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on December 20, 2017 at 4:44 pm
I took my business full time in 2017 and that made life a little crazy. I want to intentionally grow my business while simplifying my life. I am learning that I can simplify a lot of areas of my life while making great progress in others. My Power Sheets have me pumped for 2018. I can’t wait to see what I can accomplish for the Lord in the new year!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:50 am
He is with you, Sarah! Excited for you as you dig in!
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on December 20, 2017 at 5:05 pm
I seem to get stuck at the goal part! I feel like every time I get ready to write down my goals for 2018 I have none. Or at least I can’t figure out what they should be. This tends to keep me from moving forward and not doing the power sheets!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:51 am
My advice is to just start with one area where you want to see change! You can always add more later!
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on December 20, 2017 at 5:20 pm
Loving this series, Lara! I finished my PowerSheets Prep about two weeks ago and then moved… and needed some recharge to dive into the goal-setting phase. Thanks for the encouragement and pep-talk and grace and fun! So looking forward to a new year of purpose and direction in the midst of the mess and beauty of life.
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:51 am
So glad we could provide it! : )
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on December 20, 2017 at 5:46 pm
Lara! I love this series so much. I have been a Powersheets user since 2014. Down the line I always tend to get side tracked and forget about them. 2017 was better, but I am so ready to fully conquer them this year!
This year was so tough for me. Like really really tough. But so many good things are on the horizon! So much good still happened that I am beyond thankful for.
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:52 am
I’m so grateful you’ve been with us for so long, Mackenzie! Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 5:49 pm
Love this! So excited to follow along.
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:52 am
We’re excited to have you!
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on December 20, 2017 at 6:16 pm
So excited to dig into PowerSheets. Even more excited to share this with my sister and encourage her to do this with me this year! Thanks for the inspiration!!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:52 am
It’s our pleasure, Ally!
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on December 20, 2017 at 6:28 pm
I.am so excited for 2018. I started powersheets for the first time in June of 2017. Little by little, I am making progress on my goals.
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:52 am
I’m so glad to hear that, Jessica!
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on December 20, 2017 at 6:32 pm
Thank you so much for this series – loved day 1 and for a change i did not put it off to get to another time. i am committed for 2018 (my word is “integrity”) and am already living my word xx
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:52 am
Beautiful, Debra! I’m glad you’re here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 6:38 pm
It‘s past midnight here in Germany but I just felt an urge to start with the series write away. I used the blank back pages in my powersheets because they were within reach on my nightstand. Make a mess, right?! 😉
1) I am actually doing rather good (compared to years past) in most of these areas. But finances and health got a low rating because I didn‘t reach my 2017 goals in these areas and want to do better next year.
2) I have been chasing approval from family and friends forgetting that the only One whose approval I need already loves me unconditionally.
3) I need purpose-filled work in a life giving environment to thrive at my job.
There is a season for everything and not every friendship is meant to last for multiple seasons – it‘s ok to let go.
Change might be hard but is so good!Thank you, Lara, for doing the recording. I loved listening to you and cannot wait for part 2!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:53 am
I’m so glad you loved the recording, Kristina! Thank you for sharing!
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on December 20, 2017 at 7:01 pm
I’ve been mulling over my intentions and goals for 2018 for a few weeks now, and your goal setting guide came out at the perfect time! I just received my first set of PowerSheets and I’m looking forward to digging in. 2017 was a year of personal growth for me (I really had to explore my heart and wrestle with some tough things like anxiety and work-related stress). But once I started making time for myself and growing myself, I noticed a change. Less stress. More energy. Being present for all of the amazing people in my life. And what was even one of the best gifts of all was that my boss told me today how much he has seen me grown, both personally and professionally. I guess when you focus on slow growth, it really does add up. Every journal entry. Every chapter read in an inspiring book. It all matters. I’m really looking forward to using the PowerSheets to grow more in 2018 and use 2017 as my teacher. I don’t know what the new year brings, but I think the PowerSheets will help me uncover that! Thank you for all that you do Lara and the community you have built – you’re really touching the lives of so many people.
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:54 am
Wow, Olivia, thank you so much for your encouragement! It is most definitely okay to grow slow!
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on December 20, 2017 at 7:30 pm
1. I am content! The last year has felt like a transition and shift in focus in areas I am focusing on cultivating! From my relationship with my man (which is going incredibly well, thanks to all the cultivating!) to more meaningful friendships. From focusing on simplifying our business and focusing on the foundations to taking things to a bigger level!
2. I’ve been chasing this idea of where I ‘should’ be now. It’s a little tiring, and very discouraging! I’m ready to let it go (whew!) and embrace cultivating what matters to me exactly where I am – with what I have!
3. I loved doing this part of my Powersheets! It helped me realise that there were more good things (than I thought I had experienced) in 2017: We travelled, made incredible new friends, grew our business… I learnt so much on letting go of the past this year, and I discovered that I had much more room to improve when it comes to my faith. I’m excited for these in 2018!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:55 am
What an amazing update! So happy to have you here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 7:56 pm
1) I feel like I’m eh in all areas of my life except for family. I am looking forward to focusing on finances, work and health in 2018.
2) I have been chasing the past. I live in what went wrong and regret instead of focusing on the present and the future.
3) Good things:
— Spent time with family
— Brother was married
— Became more aware of my finances
— Enjoyed time with my friend’s kidsLesson learned: sometimes, we’re in the waiting period and we have to do just that…wait. I started power sheets during the summer but don’t feel like I made ‘real progress’. But, I’ve realized there’s been a lot of resting and waiting which I think has been preparing me for what is to come.
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:55 am
It sounds like there is exciting room for progress, Ashely! Excited for you!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:16 pm
I love this Lara!!! Thank you for taking the time to invest in us and empower us at the same time. You are amazing!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:27 pm
Step one: I ranged 4-8 in the categories. The ones I am really trying to hone in 2018 is health, finances, and my marriage. I have been dealing with some health issues lately and I want to devote time to truly loving myself and seeking the right methods to recover properly. Finances were rocky in 2017 so I want to stabilize those. And my marriage has had a tough year with communication, I want to communicate better and love even when it’s hard.
Step two: I feel like I’ve been chasing purpose lately. I really want to be walking in my purpose and pursuing what God has for me to do. I want to work in a position that is purpose filled and gives me a creative outlet.
Step three: I was able to step out of my comfort zone this year and do things that I thought I couldn’t do. It was empowering to really trust the Lord and allow him to help me through my anxious thoughts. I got some much needed rest this year. Started volunteering for an amazing non profit, and made precious memories with my husband. My husband and I are both registered to finish our degrees and we are super excited for that milestone as well.
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:56 am
Purpose is a beautiful thing to chase, Kayla! Excited for you!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:33 pm
This will be my first year using Power Sheets and I am so very excited. My order arrives tomorrow and after reading this poist, I know what to expect and how to get started. Looking forward to CHOOSING PURPOSE OVER PERFECT!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:57 am
I am excited for you, Jenn!!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:37 pm
I am so excited about this coming year and the changes God is going to do in our family. My word for the year is “Abide,” which will remind me to abide in Christ and keep my heart abiding at home instead of chasing stuff and other things outside of our home and family. I am so pumped and have thoroughly loved what my Powersheets have uncovered so far!!!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:57 am
I’m so glad, Bethany!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:41 pm
Step 1: Mostly 5-7’s. I’m doing quite well in general. I have gone through some MAJOR changes (mostly internal) this year and it has been so hard and so good. This has been my best year yet and I cannot wait to see what is next!
Step 2: Control. I cannot do anything well on my own. BUT I am not alone! I MUST pray and let GOD have control over my life on a daily basis. I’ve taken leaps and bounds in this area but there is always so much growth (and release) to happen in this!
Step 3: I am so grateful for 2017!!! I have purged my home and that alone is such an amazing success but God did so much more. I have started living with purpose and intention. I am a better mother. I am a better wife.
I am cultivating BRAVE friendships by reaching out and MAKING IT HAPPEN. Kids make it so easy to start friendship. It’s like “Hey, your people and my people: the park, let’s go.”Lessons: 1.Less is MORE is MORE is MORE is MORE!!!
2. Being in relationship with God doesn’t have to be complicated. Heck, nothing has to be complicated
3. I can change. God’s love is so big and I can do all things with HIS POWER!!<3<3<3<3<3<3<3<3
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:58 am
It sounds like you have a great foundation to build on in 2018, Baylie!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:55 pm
1. So tired! but pushing through the holidays to our big move to California! For the first part of the year at least, my focus will be simplifying (also my word for 2018). Focusing on the here and now, building relationships with my young children, deepening my connection to my husband, and building a home filled with love and joy.
2. I chase EVERYTHING. That’s why my word is simplify! It’s overwhelming and I compare my failure to others’ successes. Not fair to me!
3. So many good things! Good foundation building with our little family, started a write the word – habit that I’m hoping to keep up. Starting to focus and see what actually brings me joy. And starting Powersheets! I’m so excited to see how this is going to help me with my goals!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:59 am
I am excited for you, Barbara! Praying for your move!
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on December 20, 2017 at 8:59 pm
From doing the Life Evaluation, I came up with 2 goals –1. Stop chasing a ministry/purpose and just be who I am. 2. For recreation, have fun! It has been kind of repetitive and boring. Change that!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:59 am
I love your focus, Janet!
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:06 pm
Love this giveaway
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:09 pm
The biggest thing I’ve realised “already” thanks to this series is seeing how I actually HAVE made progress from last year. Some areas have been slow progress, others have had huge achievements. So I want to thank you, Lara, for taking time each year to write this series, because I am truly grateful for the grace and faith-filled way in which you guide us through these steps.
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:59 am
Yes!! So glad!
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:50 pm
Still working through my answers over here but I know I’m leaving 2017 feeling solidly ‘good’ in many areas, and so ready to focus in finances, my relationship (we’re getting married!) and getting visible with my work in 2018. I’m so grateful for all that 2017 taught me about myself – especially in terms of being an introvert who still *needs* connection and collaboration to feel like my best self. That revelation was so huge. So excited to keep going with this series!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:00 am
So exciting, Michelle!
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on December 20, 2017 at 9:53 pm
Happy to report I also just sat down with my fiance and encouraged him to think about how to bring some serious intentionality into 2018, and make space for more of the experiences he really values – because he deserves it. <3
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:10 pm
I am so happy I stumbled upon your work, Lara. I only just heard of you in the last week or so, thanks to an Instagram ad for the 2018 powersheets workbook. I looked into it and I just couldn’t justify the cost for us right now. But let me tell you, it was SO freeing to listen to this and hear you say to just go through this with you with what I have now, that THAT is ENOUGH. I don’t need the fancy pretty tools (of course I’d love them) but just as I am now is ENOUGH. So when I realized there is a book and my local Barnes and Noble had ONE copy left, I gave in to my need for instant gratification and drove across town TONIGHT to spend my last $20 of my birthday money on Cultivate (paperback) and a coffee. Just the intro had me nodding and in tears. I truly hope this is the day everything changes, because I have “started over” so many times before. I get super excited in the beginning and then just kind of fizzle out in those in between stages. I hope that is no more!
So here goes:
1) How am I? I am sick of survival mode. I am ready to THRIVE. But I want all the thriving and blooming to happen right freakin’ now, and I am so tired. I feel like every area of my life needs attention NOW and I have no idea what I’m doing. I’m a mess. I love my life, don’t get me wrong, I just feel like I’m just here, just treading water and floating through instead of taking the reigns and owning it. I feel like it’s all going so fast and I can’t catch my breath to even enjoy the ride.2) I am definitely not chasing some idea of perfection, but I guess you could say I am chasing my purpose. My ultimate goal is Heaven, for myself, and for my family. But that seems so abstract and so hard to break into the things of everyday life and the here and now. I’m frustrated because I’ve been living the opposite of a purposeful life, I’ve been aimless, lost at sea. I feel like I should know what needs to be done and when and how to do it by now, but every day just seems to get away from me.
3) Good things that happened in 2017 and what I learned from them:
-We sold our house and moved back to live near friends, currently renting my parents’ house while they travel. I’ve learned that I am not content anywhere, and I need to work on that. But it has helped me figure out what I DON’T want in a home and place to live, so that is getting us closer to figuring out what we do want. It’s also been a little sad, but I’m learning that you don’t get joy without the sadness, no new beginnings without other endings.
-I’ve been enjoying the little joys of just being home with my girls, which is all I’ve ever wanted to do. I’ve learned it’s a blessing, but that blessings are still WORK, and we find purpose in our work, and that is GOOD.
-I’ve been watching my girls grow and change and get bigger, and it keeps reminding me that I need to quit worrying about the future and just BE. Just enjoy where we are right now before it’s gone. Because I don’t want to look back with regret.I am so looking forward to going through this journey. It came along at just the right time for me, and I know it was the Holy Spirit. And oy vey was this long, so if you read all of this, God bless you! And thanks!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:02 am
I am SO glad you’re here, Amy! Thank you for sharing so generously! I trust good things are ahead in 2018!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:14 pm
I’m still thinking over specific goals for 2018, but I feel as if my word for the year should be Joy. Thank you so much for this series!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:02 am
It’s my pleasure, Jennifer!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:20 pm
So excited for this goal setting series and to be a first time power sheets user in 2018. I can already tell that this is going to be such a good thing.
For my the answers to my questions are:
1) I think overall I’m doing pretty well. The main areas I want to cultivate in 2018 are my faith, relationships, and my work.
2) I am a nurse by degree but have a passion writing. I think I am constantly having to remind myself to stop chasing someone else’s goal or dream. I feel like I need to start a business or build a platform, but really my only job is to be faithful in my writing and point people to Jesus.
3) Two of my favorite takeaways from last year were: You can’t change people, you can only love them. And It is easy to get distracted. We must WORK to stay focused on what is important.-
on December 22, 2017 at 10:03 am
So excited you’re using PowerSheets for the first time, Anna! Cheering you on!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:25 pm
From step 2 – I am naming my chase tonight to destroy it. I have been chasing surviving. I am looking forward to using power sheets in 2018. It’s time to flourish.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:03 am
Beautiful, Angela!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:55 pm
The main areas I want to improve in 2018 are health, spouse/significant other, and health. The only two things I rated above a 5 on my Life Evaluation were spouse/significant other and family (and I later revised my family rating to a 5), and I feel like there’s so much more I could be doing to make those relationships wonderful. As for health, I need to be doing much more.
Three lessons I learned this year:
1) It’s okay to be limited.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:04 am
It sounds like there is great room for growth there, Hannah! I am excited for you!
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on December 20, 2017 at 10:59 pm
1. How am I? I’m struggling. This is a season of waiting for me- after a long season of the pain of being in the wrong place. The Lord asked me to take a leap of faith and I did. Now I’m waiting for the next step. What I want to work on most in 2018 is Work, Health and Finances. 2. I’ve been chasing the next step- I need to wait for His time not mine. 3. The sum of my long list of lessons is that the Lord will provide. Trust Him.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:04 am
He will. Praying you will hear the next steps He has for you!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:03 pm
This is my encouragement comment- I lifted up my husband. He has been struggling to find a job. I’m praying for him- for us- but also I’m encouraging him.
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:11 pm
I am excited to follow along with this series. I want to start goal setting in 2018 because I am starting a new job and I want a fresh start in every area of my life (financially, physical health, spiritual health, and mental health). I can’t wait to learn about how to set positive goals and actually reach them.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:05 am
I am excited for you, Jessica! So glad you’re here!
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on December 20, 2017 at 11:39 pm
I am just getting started – so happy to find this!! I’ll post again when I’ve completed the first few steps!!
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on December 21, 2017 at 12:15 am
I think I’m a little weary. I’m looking forward to a break in January. The holidays can be extra hard when you have sensory kids and this year has been harder than years past due to travel and family stuff beyond our control. Add to that a messed up shoulder for mom and I’m ready for our normal schedule and January 1. I feel like I’m wishing the holidays away and like I did a terrible job protecting our downtime this year, but I also know that some of it could not be helped. I’m trying to extend grace to myself and praying for lots of extra grace to share with the people who are guaranteed to see my kids acting out over the next week. My PowerSheets are my quiet time and reprieve right now.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:06 am
Praying you will find joy and peace in this season, friend! So grateful for you!
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on December 21, 2017 at 12:18 am
I am beyond excited to have my 2018 power sheets and to be working through the goal setting with you. I stumbled on your page on Instagram, read the reviews and was determined to get one for myself. Got my power sheets in the mail today and I haven’t been the same.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:06 am
How exciting, Idunnu! So happy to have you here!
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on December 21, 2017 at 12:31 am
Hi Lara,
This is my first year doing the power sheets and I don’t know if I should be excited or scared. See I have a problem with writing out goals because if I don’t accomplish them, then I feel like I’ve wasted time and energy. So we will see what 2018 will bring. Here are the results of my evaluation.
Health – 6
Friends – 2
Spouse – 4
Family – 10
Finances – 6
Spiritual – 1
Work – 1
Recreation – 1I hope and pray that doing the power sheets will help me in these areas. Thanks for creating the power sheet. Wish me luck.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:07 am
It sounds like there is exciting ground for growth, Latricia! Cheering you on!
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on December 21, 2017 at 1:22 am
I loved the cultivated life page in this year’s Powersheets! It made me realize some goals and desires I have for recreation as a family. I’ve got 4 boys that are 6 and under. With an infant recreation tends to slow down in the winter months and I was envy to find creative ways to play and stay engaged together as a family. I love it in the summer and it’s so bonding for our boys’ relationships. I think it’s a love language of theirs!
I was also encouraged that I met my goal of reading through the Bible in a year! My first time ever!!! Im praising God for that and thankful for you version during nursing sessions.
I have been changing simplicity and less and freedom from stuff and the busyness and it feels wonderful.
I’ve learned to 1) abide – in God’s presence, 2) dwell in His word, 3) trust Him in my prayers.
Thanks for this series. I’m so excited for 2018!! I’m still mulling over ideas for my word. Embrace is one of them. We’ll see.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:08 am
So glad you loved the Cultivated Life page, Amy!
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on December 21, 2017 at 1:25 am
I encouraged someone by writing a letter in a card and put that on their present (which just happened to be Powersheets!!) rather than just a name tag.
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on December 21, 2017 at 1:39 am
Step One: everywhere from 1 to 9. Lots of lows, but some highs. It’s good to know that it’s not all bad. Sometimes the bad brings some good with it. There are always things to be thankful about.
Step Two: I tried do hard to be the perfect wife and yet that didn’t keep my husband from cheating on me. What I learned is that no matter how hard we try to be perfect, if we don’t do it for ourselves, then it’s worth nothing. We can’t change other people. That’s God’s territory.
Step Three: Ohmigosh, so many things learned. So much good stuff inspire of the terrible lows. The short list: 1. I learned I’m stronger than I thought I was. I can rise up from a huge fall, and be strong and wade through fear and pain, and be okay with the unknown. 2. I learned that only by trusting everything, and I mean EVERYTHING to God, can things change. I’m early in this process, but i’m excited about what’s ahead. 3. I learned that I have a gift that can be shared! So I’m applying to get a MS in Counseling. God has shown me a life that has a purpose – serving and helping others.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:08 am
Beautiful, Linda. Thank you for sharing so generously.
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on December 21, 2017 at 2:31 am
1. Some areas rank higher than others. Finances and Work ranked low, as my husband lost his job a few weeks ago (it was our only source of income). But we will weather through this somehow – we have to! Family, recreation, and health ranked high – I invested in these areas, and can’t wait to see more growth there!
2. I’ve been in a coding boot camp, chasing my return to work. With the loss of income, it’s become even more important to get that job, and I have to admit, I’m anxious and stressed. What was supposed to be a slow pursuit has been elevated to MUST COMPLETE ASAP status.3. We did SO much this year. We went on a long, epic road trip. We renovated our kitchen. I finished a coding boot camp and can’t wait to get my hands dirty with web development. My little girls are thriving at school. My husband has a break from an extremely stressful job situation. Despite the life-changing event of my husband’s job loss, it was a good year, and we are extremely blessed.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:09 am
Wow, Jen, what a beautiful perspective and recognition of the good in the midst of the hard! Cheering you on!
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:28 am
Thank you for the giveaway! I love your saying, “The soil you’re standing on right now is your growing ground” and I think it would make a wonderful print in your shop. A simple reminder to live in the mess and cultivate the beauty He’s given us!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:10 am
Thank you so much, Pam! : )
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on December 21, 2017 at 5:01 am
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
I can happily say I’m a little sprout. 🌱 It’s been a little over 3 months since I’ve have made major changes in my life and I just continue to grow in things that matter. I definitely want to keep growing personally and spiritually. I recently read the Miricale Morning by Hal Elrod (HIGHLY RECCOMEND!) and it made this statement that is so powerful: “you must first dedicate time each day to becoming the person you need to be, one who is qualified and capable of consistently attracting, creating, and sustaining the levels of success you want.” So before my family, health, friends, and so on can improve, I have to first start within.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I was chasing the world’s definition of success: busy, big paycheck, perfect Instagram feed, and many material possessions. This made me feel so empty and depressed. But not anymore, because I started making changes. Little by little and that little by little has added up to a me that’s busy in the important things and is giving grace to myself for the times I fall short.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
Like seeds that you plant in a garden once you cover them with dirt you can’t see them! Likewise I learned you must start within (personal/spiritual growth) before anything else in your life can change. So I had made huge changes in the way I think of myself and circumstances. I strived hard to shift my thinking into a more positive light and this has helped me even in the more difficult situations that I had to endure through. (Phil 4:8) I have been learning to take advantage of the gift of prayer and it has helped me immensely by giving me peace in this season of waiting I’m in. (Phil. 4:6) This has resulted in finding true contentment and joy.This turned into a mini essay so I’ll stop here and I look forward to what you have in store for the next parts in this series. Thank you and your team for all that you do. (Heb 6:10)
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:11 am
It sounds like you have learned so much already, Mhay! I am so proud of you!
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on December 21, 2017 at 7:08 am
Well this year was one of surviving not thriving. I’ve already done this part of my Powrrsheets but it was nice to go back thru them as I’m working on my goals. This year was one of surviving, my husband was working full time and doing a cross continent MBA which meant lots of travel and school work. So I was home with our 3 kiddos oh and did I mention that we live in the Middle East. It was a year that things happened but more by chance then on purpose. I had some goad but because I didn’t receive them frequently they were often forgotten. I’m really looking forward to being more intentional with my husband, kids, and friends this next year. And doing things with more purpose! Thanks for alll your encouragement!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:11 am
I am glad you’re here, Heather! 2018 can be a fresh start!
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on December 21, 2017 at 7:11 am
1. How am I? I’ve been asking myself this a lot lately. I feel torn between wonderful and horrible. We are in the process of moving back to the USA after almost 2 years in China and looking back on all that we’ve done and the plans that I had for our time here, I am thrilled at some things and utterly disappointed in others. We have traveled and gotten closer as a family and my faith and relationship with God has flourished! On the other side, my physical health is not much better and I still feel like I am floundering on my life calling. Overall, I am so happy that this last year was more good than bad! Next year I would really like to put a lot of focus on my health and my work because I’ll be going back to a full-time position and I’d like to make sure my life is still in balance with the changes coming up.
2. I feel like that as people in the technology era, we can’t help but chase perfect sometimes. I definitely have tried to be “perfect” in the past and sometimes still find myself playing the comparison game. When I do that, I am not the only one that suffers. I’m tired of chasing things that just aren’t me.
3. Good things in 2017: Trip to Italy, Cruise to Japan, Trip to Beijing, lots of trips to Shanghai, dinners with family and friends, visits from our family to China, a wonderful 2-week visit to the states, and finding out that we are going home in February! I read the entire bible this year! My daughter turned 3 and is more amazing every day. My husband and I are much better at communicating. I learned to cook and eat a lot of great new foods. I read a lot of good books that allowed me to make plans and set goals for my life (and I feel like they are within my reach). Lots of music, singing and dance parties. Love. 🙂
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:13 am
It sounds like there was so much good in 2017! So glad you are here!
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on December 21, 2017 at 7:46 am
I’m only a few weeks into Powersheets and it’s feeling life changing already! There have been boulders buried deep in my soil that, instead of removing, I’ve just been placing more soil on top of them. While some things flourished simply because of how much dirt has been on top, there’s still a mighty weight pulling me down.
One of the big things I’ve been chasing this year (and previous years) is the finish line. I want to be at the end right now. A lot of your goals sound similar to mine, and I’m not going to lie, I grew bitter reading your successes, because I just wanted to be there, I just want it to be over. I want all of the rewards and to fast forward through the work. This is not giving myself the opportunity to grow slow, and those words have been my mantra over the past couple of weeks. I need to grow slow. A plant that bursts from the ground quickly doesn’t live as long as one that takes its time to become firmly rooted in the soil. I’ve realized that I’m a plant dangerously close to being toppled by the storm.
I seriously thank you so much for this series, for Powersheets, for it all. I am really hoping to make PROGRESS on removing the boulders from my life and laying down new roots (Progress, not completion!! I will not rush to the finish line! This is a marathon, not a 5K!).
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:13 am
Wow, Victoria! Thank you so much for sharing! We love little by little progress around here and will be cheering you on!
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on December 21, 2017 at 8:04 am
For the better part of 2017 I have been chasing the idea of perfection, knowing it isn’t what I want. desire what I think I should, so I set goals then so often I would get stuck in the middle of wanting and doing. Never making true change or progress. I looked forward to getting the goal or task over with and not enjoying how I got there or what God was teaching me through it.
BUT GOD Y’ALL!… In the later parts of 2017 God has been so so faithful, revealing truths I didn’t know I desired. Calling me to a life of “middle joy.” One that thrives in the process. I was a collegiate athlete and my goal setting never had to last more than a season (August – March). I set my goal, trained for it, and accomplished it, physically, tangibly accomplished what I set out to do. Life isn’t like that, some things are tangible, but many are not. I am in a season of growing and I know 2018 will bring much growth. My word of the year is PERSIT, in seasons of struggle, persist. In seasons of lack, persist. In seasons of abundance, persist. When I am lost and don’t know what’s next, persist. My God is writing my story, if I try to skip to the ending I miss the best parts.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:14 am
Beautiful, Paige! Thank you for sharing!
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on December 21, 2017 at 8:13 am
I had a pretty good 2017. God is moving me out of my desire for easy, and bringing me into a season of doing the hard work of making changes. Changes to improve my health, marriage, and family time. So, my goals for 2018 are to keep digging in the dirt in those areas, continuing to exercise regularly for fitness and energy, date nights and growing in my marriage , and connecting better with my two teenage sons, whom I homeschool, doing things to talk to them about and do with them that don’t revolve around school.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:15 am
I am excited for you, Melissa!
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on December 21, 2017 at 8:15 am
Would love to win any one of these things! Ordered my power sheets yesterday, can’t wait!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:15 am
Excited for you, Jenny!
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on December 21, 2017 at 8:21 am
Thank you for sharing your amazing process for living your goals. I just had a baby myself and I’m excited to find a new rhythm for my life using your system. Thank you again!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:15 am
Congratulations, Melissa! So glad to have you here!
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on December 21, 2017 at 8:35 am
I’m so excited to be starting this! Your story has really inspired me.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:16 am
Thank you so much for the encouragement, Gin. It’s my pleasure to share!
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on December 21, 2017 at 9:09 am
Hi Lara,
I am doing fairly well, but really wanting to make the leap for a new job, kick the weight off for good, and tend to my very best friends.
Step 2. I’ve been chasing perfection at work and it is not working at all. Things are going horribly wrong.
Step 3. Good things. I experienced growth that I didn’t know was possible.at my job. It came from a hard place..like being tested.
I learned that grace is a wonderful thing and it’s where I feel a little magic inside me. I extend it whenever given the chance.. Writing that I realize that I do this with strangers (like while driving) but I don’t give it as freely to those close to me.-
on December 22, 2017 at 10:16 am
It sounds like you’re learning some great lessons, Cynthia, and that there is much room for growth! I’m excited for you!
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on December 21, 2017 at 9:23 am
I am so excited that so many people use powersheets for their goalsetting. I also love getting to dive in on my own goals each year – in 2018 I am focused on finding a functional work life balance.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:17 am
So happy you’re here, Dannie!
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on December 21, 2017 at 9:43 am
I am so grateful this process. It has been beneficial for me to do my prep work BEFORE Christmas so that I could come out of the frenzy of the holiday (even though we’re doing really simple this year) with intentional next steps. It’s not a brag, but a confirmation for me knowing that I am more able to keep the focus on Christ going into Christmas knowing that it isn’t all getting ready for one day. Thank you for sharing your past years. I haven’t had BIG years or a lot of outward progress, but think that with doing Powersheets for the 4th year in a row now, that I am clear why. And that’s a win!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:17 am
So grateful you have been with us for so long, Regina!
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on December 21, 2017 at 9:52 am
I can’t wait to get started on the Goal Setting Series for 2018! I’m excited to set intentional and realistic goals for the year.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:17 am
We are excited for you, Jessica!
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on December 21, 2017 at 10:37 am
I’ve come to really look forward to this series each year. It always helps me get back focused and even has another positive effect that you may not even have thought it; it makes me read more! Everything is so short this days. These blog posts are meaty and long and it forces me to sit still and really READ! Not listen on my audible while I walk around doing a million other things, but READ. 🙂
xoxo
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:18 am
I love that, Ashley! So grateful for you! : )
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on December 21, 2017 at 10:47 am
So excited to give this an honest try this year. I’ve been watching from the sidelines for over a year and this is the year to Make It Happen!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:18 am
We’re glad to have you on the field, Alison! 🙂
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on December 21, 2017 at 10:51 am
I want to spend the year being more intentional about achieving my goals and growing
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:18 am
Cheering you on, Beth!
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on December 21, 2017 at 11:05 am
I can’t wait to get goals on paper for 2018! I’ve almost completed all of my PowerSheets prep and the first part of the Goal Setting Series has really helped! As far as where I am right now, I feel like overall wellness needs to be my focus for 2018. Wellness in mind, body, spirit – all relationships, finances, health – every aspect needs me to be active and present. I think my Word for 2018 is going to be ACTIVE. Not in the sense of physically running and doing, but of being present and an active participant in my life; not just sitting on the sidelines.
As for what I’ve been chasing…it’s not perfect so much as that I’ve been chasing an unrealistic set of expectations. When those were going unmet, I felt inadequate and defeated which led to me just “getting by” and letting everything spiral out of control. Basically, just sitting on the sidelines and letting life happen without making life happen.
Good things from 2017…well, we bought our first house! 🙂 From that I really focused our budget and finances and made it work when it looked like an impossibility before. We also raised a happy, healthy, almost 1 year old and I am excited to say we are going to make it out of the first year of parenthood mostly unscathed. I found a new job in a career field I didn’t know about before and absolutely love it! I also really learned a lot about myself and learned to stand up for my decisions. It was a year of crazy growth, with a lot of setbacks, but I know I can only go up from here.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:19 am
I love your word of the year, Sara!
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on December 21, 2017 at 11:11 am
This is so exciting! One of favorite things to do is goal setting for the New Year!
1. I have grown so much this last year. My word for 2017 was BRAVE and I can honestly say it was lived out well and I grew so much as a woman, wife, mom, in my business, health and more! I found my voice and confidence that has been pushed down so many times before and I stood and spoke even when my voice was shaking. I didn’t see the scale move as much as I wanted to with weight but I found freedom and more understanding in battling an autoimmune disease. I saw my business grow and God answer show me this is where I am supposed to be!
2. For some of the year I felt I was chasing lies that were spoken to me about who I am when I was a child. But after much prayer, personal growth and learning- I am breaking free of those and speaking life into myself.
3. Good things that happened in 2017- freedom in finding a homeschool rhythm and plan that works for our family. Growing our side hustle business more this year as a family. Camping as a family in the fall. Finding support and effective health tools for my oldest son’s anxiety. Seeing my youngest son become more confident in himself. Watching my husband find joy in coaching others and take charge of his health. Seeing my oldest brother get married. Watching my youngest brother become a parent for the first time. cultivating a homeschool community in our local city.
3 lessons I learned from the good things: Knowing that is truly is okay to grow slow- just keep cultivating and you will see growth. Speaking life to those around you and smiling more are key parts to each day. Be happy in the moment.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:20 am
So happy to have you here, Elisha! Thank you so much for sharing!
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on December 21, 2017 at 11:31 am
My new set of powersheets came in the mail the same day this series started! I am so excited to follow along in my new powersheets!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:20 am
I’m excited for you, Cindy!
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on December 21, 2017 at 11:52 am
Hi Lara! This is my first year on this journey with you. I am ready to set some cultivated goals and 2018 is going to rock. PS. Thank you for doing this – all of your hard work leads others to their own hard work and, well, that’s *hard* work! In case you don’t hear it enough – I appreciate you.
How are you? On average I am a 6 when looking at my Cultivated Life Evaluation. Overall, I am a happy + positive spirit but I feel like I can experience huge growth when I focus. I am looking forward to this year being a year for me to grow in Spiritual & Personal Growth, Finances, Work & Family.
What have you been chasing recently, or in the last year? Freedom. I have been chasing the freedom to set my own schedule. To be a mom when I need to be a mom. This year is the year that changes!
What good things happened in 2017? What grew well? What are you grateful for from the last twelve months? Lots of great things happened! I am thoroughly blessed by God’s grace. I experienced new things with my two boys, we camped, we went on trips, I built a better relationship with my significant other, I discovered God’s grace for the first time in my life, I met my monthly goals at work, serve on a board with my professional peers, started a new business, wrote a new business plan, traveled to Italy, started praying, read more books than ever. Wow!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:21 am
Wow is right, Sarabeth! So glad you are here and excited for all that is to come!
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on December 21, 2017 at 12:18 pm
My word for 2017 was Grow. At first, I thought that I failed at it, but upon further reflection, I saw that I did grow, even if it was slow. I had a baby this year, and the pregnancy and birth were a time of growing in dependence on God. (I grew both physically and spiritually.) We joined a new church, which placed me out of my comfort zone, and caused me to grow and stretch. For 2018, I want my life to consist of more love, less judgment. I want to be an encourager rather than a pessimist. I want to deepen my walk with God. Some practical ways include: reading through the Life Principles Bible, using my Val Marie Prayer journal to pray, doing a nightly Examen (thanking God for the blessings of the day, confessing my sin, and praising God), and meditating on His word throughout the day. I want to be healthy. My practical steps for that are sleeping more (which is challenging with a young baby), and limiting my sugar intake. I want to be an encourager to my husband and children.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:22 am
I’m so glad this series has helped you see the fruit, Christine! It sounds like there was a lot of good in 2017!
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on December 21, 2017 at 12:40 pm
I’m so excited to start goal setting for 2018 and this article has helped me feel motivated and not so overwhelmed with the process.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:22 am
I’m so glad, Leah!
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on December 21, 2017 at 12:42 pm
2018 will be my third year doing powersheets and it’s been life changing! So glad to be part of this with you and so thankful for you for creating such a useful tool!!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:22 am
Thank you SO much for the encouragement, Ginger! We’re so glad to have you!
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on December 21, 2017 at 12:42 pm
I simply reached out to two friends today! Nothing fancy or special, but I made it happen
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on December 21, 2017 at 12:44 pm
Just ordered my powersheets and I’m so excited! This is my first time with this program and can’t wait to get my goals accomplished this year! Thanks ❤
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:23 am
Thrilled for you, Maribel!
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on December 21, 2017 at 1:03 pm
1. I am in a season of massive transition (got married about 9 months ago, received my undergrad degree this month, looking to relocate in the months to come, and am on the search for a full time job). So thankful for the power sheets and this preparation time to dig up purpose and clarity and seek direction from this Lord in this time of change. The areas I most want to improve the year are: Health, Spouse, Spiritual Growth, and Work.
2. As a new wife and recent graduate I have been chasing to meet the standards set by everyone around me. This has left me feeling like I am not enough and can never measure up. That video was so perfect for me right now as I have been leaning towards “purpose” to be my word for the year. Trusting that the Lord has a purpose in this season of transition and unknown. And that my purpose is unique, not the same as anyone else’s, so no need for comparison.
3. So many good things this year! The Lord is so good to us. Marriage, making our new house a life giving home for ourselves and many friends who enter, finishing college, being financially stable and able to give generously, and so many more! I have learned that the Lord will fulfill the promises he makes, he never lets us down. I have learned the importance of having a few close friends whom I can share burdens with. I have learned a whole lot about marriage and Christlikeness in this honeymoon season of marriage—knowing there is so much more to learn over the rest of our lifetime together.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:23 am
Beautiful, Carrie! I am excited about all that is ahead for you!
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on December 21, 2017 at 1:22 pm
So excited to set good goals and make what matters happen!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:24 am
I’m excited for you! : )
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on December 21, 2017 at 1:37 pm
Can’t wait to get started!
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on December 21, 2017 at 1:54 pm
i would love to enhance goal setting this year! Such life giving products!
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on December 21, 2017 at 2:35 pm
2017 was quite a sad year. Nothing major, husband and kids are loved, living and healthy, but I lost my job, and went through a burn out before that, despite some serious goal setting at the beginning of the year.
I can’t wait for 2017 to be over, and I really hope I can turn the table for 2018. Feeling a bit desperate right now, but I hope I’ll make it thanks to this series and other tools . anyway thank you so much for what you share here and in your books.-
on December 22, 2017 at 10:24 am
2018 can be your fresh start, Jessica. I am cheering you on!
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on December 21, 2017 at 3:29 pm
Oh my word. I am so overwhelmed already. I have so much to work on how do I choose what’s most important? I bought my powersheets shortly after they were launched and I’ve looked at them twice. I want 2018 to be a radical change for me, especially my perspective. Staying positive isn’t easy for me. But I gotta try. Lara you are so upbeat and have much wisdom and experience to offer. So excited for these next 4 blogs. Keep bringing on the encouragement!!!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:25 am
Just start somewhere, Alicia, with one area where you want to see change! You can add on from there : )
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:53 am
Okay!
I did sit down yesterday and begin filling in some pages of the powersheets. That made me feel better!
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on December 21, 2017 at 3:30 pm
Excited to live a more intently year for 2018!
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on December 21, 2017 at 3:33 pm
I reached out to a friend. Don’t know how encouraging I am when I feel I’m floundering ( lol) but I have to think beyond myself.
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:08 pm
2018 will be my first year using Powersheets, and I have never been more excited for the new year. I never set goals, and I’ve realized lately that I need to live more intentionally if I want to love God, my family, and my friends better. I started the prep work in November and I can already tell that 2018 is going to be my best year yet. Thank you for creating such an incredible product, Lara!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:26 am
It is our pleasure, Caitlin! So glad to have you here!
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:16 pm
So excited for my first year of PowerSheets! The prep work was hard for me because I realized quickly how hard and dark 2017 has been for me. My life evaluations range from 2-8 which really helped me see the 3 areas I need to focus on: spouse, health/spiritual growth, and finances. My biggest area of improvement to work on will most definitely be my relationship with my husband.
I have been chasing the perfect, quick fix to all the problem areas in our marriage. Instead of being grateful for progress (even though small), I continued to try to cover up, fix immediately, or not give gratitude when needed. This makes me EXHAUSTED.
One thing off of my list of Good Things: I started reading my Bible, digging into His word, and praying daily. Back in August when it seemed like my life turned for the worst, instead of going down that horrible path and making poor decisions for myself and family, I chose to turn to the Lord and give it all to him. This has taught me to turn my anger and frustrations into gratitude, all though very difficult at times, I could not be more happy with this life choice.That felt so good to share with complete strangers 🙂 Happy goal planning!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:26 am
Wow, Brittany. I am grateful for your generous sharing and wisdom! We will be cheering you on!
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on December 21, 2017 at 4:38 pm
I’m so grateful for finding you on Instagram. You have truly been a blessing in my journey through some very difficult times this year. you seemed to always pop into my feed with exactly what I needed so for that I say thank you Lara.
1. I’M GRATEFUL that friends 7, family 7 and spiritual and personal growth 8 are doing well. I need to put more time into health 6, work 6, finances 4, and recreation 3. I’ve spent time this year reconnecting with loved ones and building up my spiritual self but did not always make the best choices when it came to putting others before myself. circumstances outside of my control have wreaked havoc on finances which have left little time for recreation and led to more time working unfulfilling jobs. I look forward to creating a better balance.
2.I’VE BEEN CHASING perfection, but more specifically the perfect time. Its been a never-ending battle with using excuse of Ill start my business after i do this or right after this happens. I now know the perfect time is now. the longer i put something off the less likely I am to reach that goal.
3.I LEARNED
a. that sometimes a negative situation is a lesson/blessing in disguise.
b. sometimes you have to just let go and let God.
c. to be careful with your energy. It is a precious commodity and should be treated as such. My energy is always best served on something positive.
d. saying no and taking time for myself is not mean or selfish; its love.This has been very insightful experience so far. id like to thank you again for doing this. I couldnt afford your book or the powersheets but i am more than willing to get messy and fill up an old sketchbook with all the lessons that i know i will learn with this goal setting series. Thank you Lara
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:27 am
I’m so glad you’re here, Desembra! Thank you for digging in and sharing!
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on December 21, 2017 at 5:00 pm
Today I encouraged my husband as he plans the year ahead: church planting work, seminary classes, teaching, and our family spending a summer in Mexico improving our Spanish.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:28 am
Beautiful, Julie!
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on December 21, 2017 at 5:12 pm
So excited for my first year of PowerSheets! I’m not so good at planning and I hope to get better at it in 2018!!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:28 am
We are cheering you on!!
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on December 21, 2017 at 7:49 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
I am content, weary, ready, conflicted, tired. I want to understand and know myself better. I want to be able to give into the sweet spots but know my boundaries. I want to understand the tangled web of my heart and learn its purpose. I want to channel that overwhelming flow of love into something good and positive. I want to live for God!
HEALTH – (3) I need to drink more water, make healthier choices, move my body!
FRIENDS – (8) I cling to one person at a time, I give too much of myself, I have friends who love me
SPOUSE/SIGNIFICANT OTHER – (1) I don’t have one, I need to wait openly, God’s in control
FAMILY – (5) Help my mom more, call/visit my Nanny more, call/visit my Uncle Marc more
FINANCES – (5) I made progress on debt in 2017, I need to save money this year!
WORK – (7) I love my job, I care about the people, I need to learn to chill, I need to learn to deal with difficult people
SPIRITUAL + PERSONAL GROWTH – (5) I’m getting there, need to say no more, need to PRAY more, need more time with Jesus and His word
RECREATION – (3) focus on something for meI most want to improve finances, spiritual + personal growth, work.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I have been chasing control and always being right and comparison. It never gets me where I want to go and it just makes me seem like an angry, miserable person. I need and WANT to CHANGE all of this!
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
GOOD THINGS
*Learning boundaries – Medium Gina
*Spending time with my niece and nephews
*Focusing more on GOD
*Books that mean something
*Working in an office again
*Therapy
*Focusing on my goals
*Learning from others/listening
*New friends/old friends
*Continuing to move forward
*Paying down/off debt
*Finishing college!!!
*Speaking my mind
*RoutinesLESSONS I LEARNED
*ALWAYS lean in God
*Take time for self care
*Keep going – you’ve got this
*Love but guard your heart
*Life with ALWAYS change
*Stop overthinking so much
*Keep loving on people
*Gratitude ALWAYS!
*I can’t control everything
*I can’t do everything
*God can renew you
*You will have bad days – keep going
*Budgets work if you do
*I need people
*Therapy is good for me
*Breath!!!-
on December 22, 2017 at 10:29 am
Thank you for sharing so generously, Gina!
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on December 21, 2017 at 8:00 pm
Love this series…
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:29 am
So happy to have you here!
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on December 21, 2017 at 10:20 pm
Just got my Powersheets in the mail and love working through these questions and recording them in there. 2017 felt like a giant tizzy where I was chasing everything and really doing nothing. 2018 I was more calm, more joy, and I feel like the powersheets and these series is defintley going to help.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:30 am
It absolutely can, Becca! I am excited for you!
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on December 21, 2017 at 10:27 pm
I encouraged someone by sending them one of my favorite quotes “Hard is not the same as bad.” It’s always fun to get a little surprise in the mail.
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on December 21, 2017 at 10:35 pm
Lara, I’m so grateful that the Lord led me to your business this past year. I’m making progress towards reading Cultivate and Make It Happen.. I’m also journaling thru Write the Word- Renew. I bought the 2018 Powersheets and am working thru the prep work! I’m already experiencing the fruit of cultivating what matters and all that you teach….and I’m just getting started! So excited for the coming year! Thank you!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:30 am
Wow, Casey, thank you for that encouragement! I am excited FOR you!
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on December 22, 2017 at 12:30 am
Thank you for all you and the team do to point us towards cultivating what truly matters. I see life starting to flourish in areas that were once dry and your tools have been hugely instrumental in this journey for me.
1. I rated myself as growing in many areas. Love the reminder to focus on little by little progress instead of bailing myself for where I fell short. Such a life giving perspective shift. The area I want to see more growth in is in my relationship with my spouse. I think one of the big weeds is my attitude towards something he truly loves and that is my area that I need boldness to let go of and love in hard places in 2018.
2. I think what I have been truly chasing is others approval: my parents, my spouse, my inlaws, my friends. Chasing others approval (even if it is to make them comfortable) will always let you down. It has made me feel unworthy and unloved when I fail.
3. The biggest lesson I learned in 2017 and wrote in my first ever year long powersheets for 2018 (Woohoo!!) is that His opinion is the only one that matters.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:31 am
Thank you for that encouragement, Angelise! So glad you are here!
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on December 22, 2017 at 1:28 am
I was pleasantly surprised by my life evaluation. Going into it, I really felt like I would score each area pretty low, but I decided to answer instinctively without overthinking it & ended up scoring an average of around 7! I realized that I’ve made a lot of progress in this area over the last couple of years and that while I tend to bring the negative things to mind first, overall, I really am pretty happy with my life. Still have plenty of room for improvement though 🙂
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:32 am
So glad to hear it, Mere!
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on December 22, 2017 at 1:36 am
So what am I chasing….going through the prep work has made one thing very apparent to me. Even though I’m pleased with how I instinctively feel about my life evaluation, I chase the negative tendrils that seeking perfectionism tempts me with FAR too often. I’m better at responding to my negative self-talk, but the negative self-talk is still happening far too frequently. I start lots of fantastic projects, then never finish them because I’m afraid that I might not follow through with the changes I’m seeing in my life as a result of the projects I’ve started. I let my desire for perfectionism paralyze me with fear and my chase becomes the haphazard drifting of my purposelessness in the current of my own life. BUT….I AM READY FOR CHANGE!!!
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on December 22, 2017 at 1:49 am
Good things and the lessons I’ve learned from them this last year?
1) I actually planned monthly budgets several times in 2017. When I do this, I find that I don’t worry about money as much and all the doubts about not being a good money manager don’t have as tight a grip on me. Lesson: Budget EVERY month in 2018!
2) Spending time with God and getting regular exercise. Again, the mental health aspects are tremendous! Lesson: I really enjoyed my “Walk & Talk” time as I called them & felt much closer to God during the two months that I was deeply committed to this. When my company’s fiscal year end came, I wasn’t purposeful about continuing this habit and now, two months later, I haven’t been doing it.
3) Along with number one above, I actually set aside money for Christmas/birthday gifts for my children ahead of time & there was so much less stress and anxiety and it felt really good to be able to provide a little extra for them when they needed it this year. Also, planned specific donation giving & even though I didn’t have a budget in place every month, this commitment stuck & I was able to give more than I ever have in the past and it feels WONDERFUL to be able to give ! -
on December 22, 2017 at 2:01 am
This year has been a one-of-a-kind for my family and I. After 11 years of living overseas serving the US military we have moved to California ( home) for one year. It has been a years of tremendous adjustments for all of us. Our diet has taken a huge hit, from almost no processed food to a world full of it ( even in healthy stores) . That is not all that is new, church, school, friends, routines and recreational activities are all new! I knew that I needed to ‘fight for joy’ through prayer and we truly have. The adjustments to this new way of living has not been easy but we have been able to see the good in it and we have clearly seen God’s hand in all of it.
1. How am I? Tired from all the adjusting but I’m so grateful for a mostly smooth transition. I want to be still this next year and get back to simplicity .
2. The really good things that happen are too many to list but here’s a few.. a new neighborhood that we love, neighbors that are amazing, my children all have new friends, I have a tight group of friends in my Bible journaling group. Yes, all this in 6 months!!! We knew God was sending us back to CA for a year to shine Christ to our family and we have done that which makes me so happy. The military has stationed us in Monterey so we have been driving on the weekends 2-3 hours to visit family just to live on them. Being gone so long has made us really appreciate family.I think my word for 2018 will be still or simplify. I just want to be Mary and sit at the feet of Jesus and from there do what He wants me to do.
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:33 am
Beautiful, Kristen. Thank you so much for sharing. It sounds like you are doing so much good!
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on December 22, 2017 at 4:25 am
First, I tell everyone I know about you, Lara, and your Team. In the 3 or 4 short months that I’ve known you (I really feel I do), I feel like I’ve been given a new lease on life; a new understanding and new motivation — and I’m (only) 23 years old!!
1. My life Check In:
*Health 8/10. I’ve made tremendous progress in this area this year, but a little more balance would go a long way.
*Friends 8/10. I’ve made extra effort to connect with friends and I really feel they are there for me, as I for them.
*Spouse UNRATED. I left this section unrated because this a new adventure for me. I got married 10 months ago and my biggest goal for this year is to cultivate and nurture my relationship with my husband.
*Family 7/10. I’ve felt the closest I ever had in my adult life to my family, but I do feel the room for growth and need for more precise and individual connection.
*Finances UNRATED. I left this section unrated as well because maintaining a home and managing finances is completely new for me. I’m hoping to learn and study all about finances and money this coming year.
*Spiritual and personal growth 4/10. This section, specifically the spiritual growth is my area of greatest need. I feel a strong connection to G-d but my goal for the next year is to pray regularly.
*Work 7/10. As a new nurse, I love what I do. However, my current job isn’t allowing me to nurture and cultivate my other goals like I dream of. Which means I’ll be looking for a new job that can serve me and my family well!
*Recreation 5/10. Honestly, I haven’t paid much attention to recreation recently, it kinda fell off my radar as my life got busier. I don’t really know where to start to incorporate this back into my life.So that’s my LIFE EVAL in a nutshell.
2. What am I chasing that is draining me?
I feel like I’ve been chasing to do the max and the best all the time in everything I do. I keep forgetting to breathe and the lack of oxygen (metaphorically) is causing me to miss out on real living. I feel drained and no more happy because even when I do perfect in one area, “I cannot do it all and do it well,” so I’m left feeling inadequate and exhausted. In other words, I’m chasing my imaginary tail. I need to focus on the things that truly matter to me, do my best in those areas, and let the rest go.3. Highlights of 2017 🙂
LOTS. So much GOOD. And I’m so grateful.
*Marrying and loving my husband
*Cultivating gratitude
*Becoming an Registered Nurse
*Starting a job
*Recovery and cultivating wellness and balance
*Preparing to be a mother
*Traveling to Israel
*Discovering Lara Casey and Cultivate What Matters
*Discovering Emily Ley and The Simplified Planner4. Lessons I learned in 2017
*Hard work pays off
*Working hard on what matters is what matters
*Its okay to not know and its okay to let go and let God.
*Rest and restoration is essential for progress and growth.
*Practice makes permanence
*Its okay to grow slow. The best change happens over time.Wow, so I didn’t think I’d be able to share all that, but I did because I hope that if I’ve helped even one person by writing all of this for the public, it was definitely worth it. One of my absolute passions is helping others. It makes me feel the most alive. I hope this has helped someone.
And again, Thank you Lara and Jess!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:35 am
What generous encouragement, Toby! We are so glad you are here! Your sharing absolutely helps others!!
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on December 22, 2017 at 8:23 am
Ok this was not the easiest thing for me to face my how am I ? Who am I? I have some things to work on OK a lot of things to work on! I am going to crush my identity box and move forward, like a newborn baby! As I cultivated my life evaluation I see areas that are more important to me and that I will be focusing on first! Letting go is very important to me as I grow in this! My fears are hard for me and will take steps to conquer them, let them go! I have so many things to be grateful for in 2017 selling our home and downsizing has been wonderful! My son has completed an 18 month recovery program is working towards this as a life long theme. I am grateful he is alive and well! I am grateful for my newest granddaughter! I am grateful for an engagement that has taken place last year! I could go on and on but I won;t for now have to save some for later!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:35 am
Thank you so much for being here, Kathy! : )
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on December 22, 2017 at 8:54 am
Not so many things to say yet, but the exciting thing is that 2017 is the year I stumbled on intentional goal planning using the powersheets and got hooked!
This has birthed my decision to CULTIVATE DESTINY & CALLING every single year for the rest of my life and this is gradually unfolding a number of things God wants me to do for others and His kingdom that I have been ignoring.
I am also celebrating progress, although little at the moment.
I know in 2018, I will be more deliberate in making things happen.
Imaging God telling me to “Make it Happen” one early morning as I was praying & meditating. That book is a close companion to me now
Thank you Lara for giving to the Lord-
on December 22, 2017 at 10:36 am
Thank you for your encouragement, Ade! So glad you are here!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:47 am
Traveling across the country right now with my daughter and we have talked about goal setting especially as she heads off to college. Chatted about my Cultivate power sheets with friends in Indiana. I am pumped about this program!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:36 am
Thank you for spreading our mission Alisha! I am excited for you!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:21 am
I’m behind in answering the questions, sorry!
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
I feel like I’m doing well, but that there’s room for improvement! I specifically want to focus on growing myself and cultivating my heart so that God can use me. Also, I want to focus on my little family and the budding friendships I’ve made. <3
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
Perfection, definitely. It's making me feel tired, overwhlemed, and never good enough. I set the bar for myself way too high, and I know I need to change.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
Good things:
a. Lived more intentionally! (Yay, social media free weekends!)
b. Family Vacations.
c. Moving home!
d. Welcoming baby boy #2. <3Lessons learned:
a. I'm stronger than I know.
b. God will ALWAYS provide.
c. Our marriage has a strong foundation.
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on December 23, 2017 at 10:55 am
Your timing is perfect, Rosie! So glad you are here!
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on December 22, 2017 at 10:40 am
Step 1: How am I? To most people, I am fine. But in my soul, I am standing on a precipice – I am either going to make a big leap and radically change my modus operandi, or I am going to fall back into habits I have unknowingly spent years “cultivating”. I think I am finally coming out of a long season of changes and I want to refocus myself and jump start my life again.
Step 2: What have I been chasing? I can’t even say I’ve been chasing anything. I feel more like I’m being chased: by time, by money, by circumstances. I have definitely been living “life by accident.”
Step 3: Good things:
I can cook!
Going out with friends
Steady job
Girls each taking big steps (into college and high school)Lessons learned:
Like Rosie above, I am stronger than I know
I am a good mom
Life goes on but it doesn’t leave you behind – it will drag you kicking and screaming and if that happens, you miss so much
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on December 22, 2017 at 2:10 pm
Ann, I just want you to know that I feel you on Step 2. I have felt like I was just reacting to everything instead of making decisions about anything. “living life by accident” – I totally get it.
Sending you a cyber hug!
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on December 23, 2017 at 10:56 am
Thank you so much for sharing, Ann! There are good things ahead!
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on December 22, 2017 at 11:13 am
I am so excited about this series. This year, it was such a fulfilling process doing my Powersheets. I’m ready for 2018. My three areas of focus this year are my friends, health, and finances. These are all areas where I have not put a ton of focus in and I want to be an amazing friend. I want the ones I value most to know that I care about them After dealing with an IBS diagnosis this year, I just want to become more in tune with what I’m putting in my body and staying active. My finances has always been scary for me. With a mound of student loans and just the scared feeling of owning my finances it’s been tough. I am happy to know that this will be changing this year.
Lately I’ve been chasing TOO MUCH! I’ve been trying to do it all and that’s my nature. I have lost sight of enjoying moments and just enjoying the journey. I’ve let comparison dictate who I should proceed in my life and that stops. I’m still going to do a ton but I’m hoping to create a balance and know that it’s ok if I don’t conquer everything….that wouldn’t be normal lol.
Good things I learned this year…hmmm definitely the journey, the uncertainty, and the struggle is worth it. God always has a greater plan for us. I learned that I am a pretty amazing woman and that I can do anything I set my mind to. I was always so negative and down on myself and I ‘ve learned to look on the bright side because things always work out.
Lara, thank you for creating such an amazing series, product, and business! It’s such a joy to be part of the movement!-
on December 23, 2017 at 10:57 am
It’s a joy to have you here, Tatiana! There is so much good growing ground ahead!
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on December 22, 2017 at 12:10 pm
I just discovered you and Powersheets this past week and I am so excited to learn more! All of this came into my life at the exact right time and I’m remember that God is so good and mindful of us!
Step One: On average for all of the things listed, plus a few that I added (including ‘home’) I’m at a 5. Some areas I’m doing really well in, but I was able to clearly see some of the things that I can focus more on in 2018. Specifically family, finances, and my spiritual health.
Step Two: I’ve definitely been chasing SURVIVAL this year (and reading through the comments helped me see that I’m not alone in this) but this is not the way that I want to be living.
Step Three: Good things from 2017:
– My husband and I are now expecting our first baby, a girl, who’s due in February.
– I realized/recognized God’s hand more in my life and decided to turn to Him more fully.
– My progress in learning how to cope with my anxiety and PTSD this year has been amazing and I’m proud of all the work I’ve accomplished there.
– I’m grateful that my husband graduated and that he found a job, and even though it’s in a different city, we get a new start!Thank you for this amazing series, I can’t wait to read the rest and to set intentional goals that will help me grow and change my life!
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on December 23, 2017 at 10:57 am
So happy you are here, Taylor!!
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on December 22, 2017 at 12:49 pm
1. I am tired and feel like I focus too much on the hard things that go on around me rather than enjoying the positive and finding the daily joys that are present. I have been better this last year about communicating with the people closest to me as well as spending time doing things I want to do rather than what everyone else wants. I am enjoying making new friends and cultivating the relationships I already have. I want to improve this next year my personal habits and my family relationships. I want to spend more intentional and quality time with my husband and two boys and I want to keep my expectations for myself realistic.
2. I have been chasing perfection and high personal expectations which leaves me feeling less than and like I am failing when I know I am not. I notice I am trying to take care of everyone else without taking care of myself first. I want to start doing more things for myself and having God fill me up so that I can love on others well.
3. My amazing husband who helps me so much and always points me to truth. my 2 healthy boys and my own personal health. I am thankful for new friendships and growing and deepening friendships that were already in place. What I have learned this year is that I cannot do it all, and I need God’s help to do what He is asking me. I need to communicate better even when it is hard. and I need to manage my own expectations and not expect too much from myself and to ask God for direction with what He wants me to do and what He requires.-
on December 23, 2017 at 10:58 am
Thank you so much for sharing, Ashley!
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on December 22, 2017 at 1:11 pm
Thank you so much for this series! Here are my answers.
Step one: Health – 6 Started weight lifting and saw muscle gains. Still need to work on the eating part.m Friends – 4 Feel somewhat disconnected and needing more intentional interaction. Family – 8 Loving it! But I do want to see my marriage grow more. My husband and I are often so busy and tired that we get the leftovers. Finances – 10. I’m just extremely grat ful! Spiritual – 8 I’ve had more quiet and space with just Jesus. Work – 5 Homeschool has gone well, but I need to bring more fun and joy and encouragement to the table to nourish my little people. Recreation – 4 What is this? I need to carve time for this.Step Two: I’ve been trying to keep all the various plates spinning. It’s hard to say no often, and I guess to put a name to it, I’ve been chasing – Doing it all. And you can’t.
Step Three- Good things- We moved! Did lots of home projects. I’m making a new home. I’m grateful for more space, specifically my screened in porch and trees and woods! I’m grateful for the peace and spiritual refreshment it has given. I started lifting weights and can dead lift 175 pounds. I’m making progress. I’m grateful for this opportunity to grow physical strength. I’m grateful for connections with new neighbors and being closer to our church to be more of a community.
Grateful for a chance to win the giveaway, too 😊
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on December 23, 2017 at 10:59 am
It sounds like you have seen great little by little progress, Lori! I am excited for you!
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on December 22, 2017 at 1:15 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
— I made *great* progress in the last 7 months of 2017 on the things which matter to me. My “scores” are in the 5-8 range, and the area I most want to improve is my “family”. We are in the middle of a giant homestead project and I need to be sure that in the middle of it all, I spend time and energy cultivating my relationship with my husband and two boys.2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel? — I have made great strides in learning not to chase things. Surprisingly, this is a slow time for me (professionally and personally) and I find myself chasing whatever I can to fill up some time and help me feel like I’m actually getting somewhere. That’s looked like a little too much time checking the internet or feeling a little down. My time would be better spent chasing those things that actually fuel me and give me direction!
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned. — My good things include my homemaking rhythm; external accountability; after-schooling; saying “no” to e-courses, a nd family read-alouds. In the last 7 months, I’ve learned that my oldest boy’s heart and sleep benefit from some 1:1 time at bedtime; tracking habits works for me; adding color to my planner is actually kinda fun; and “things go smoother when I go slower”.
Thanks for this series, Lara! Good things are going to happen in 2018.
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:00 am
Cheering you on in all this progress, Melissa!
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on December 22, 2017 at 1:51 pm
It’s my first year with Power Sheets. I’m excited, and a little nervous to dive in. Lara, your posts are inspiring, as are the comments from so many who follow you. Here’s to making 2018 more intentional and less perfect!
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:00 am
So glad you are here, Natalie!
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on December 22, 2017 at 2:04 pm
Step 1: I’m mostly 3s, some 7s or 8s. I have some small things to work on & some larger issues. Mostly the category I’m most committed to is Spiritual + Personal Growth. Feeling very low in that one.
Step 2: I think I have been seeking approval & validation through perfection. Feel more like a mess for the effort and what I was really doing was chasing my tail. Life is messy. So am I sometimes. Letting that go.
Step 3: Some big stuff happened this year!
*I saved a lot of money this year. Enough to pay our property taxes in full. My daughters college account is healthy as our our retirement accounts.*We complete rebuilt our house & it’s finally finished. 2+ years later but it’s habitable…more than that actually it’s beautiful.
*Our daughter is developing into a very healthy, delightful person. Not all 2 year olds get invited to people’s houses who don’t have kids, but ours does. People genuinely enjoy her company. She started pre-school this year and is THRIVING there.
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:01 am
There is so much good here, Kerry! I am excited for you!
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on December 22, 2017 at 2:06 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
2017 has been a hard, difficult year. My dad passed away in September after a 4 year battle with cancer. Things have also been very unsure with jobs and my oldest son’s hit a sort of crisis of identity as he looks at changing his major and we had to rehaul my younger son’s diet to get rid of gluten when his health issues reached a crisis point. Add to that so much upheaval in the world in general, and 2017 has been kind of difficult. With that said, there are several things I really want to focus on this year. The first is my health. The second is my writing (started my middle grade fiction novel and even though the last few months have been crazy, I keep trying to chip away at it – little by little). And finally, I want to work to grow my relationships.2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel? Security and control – even though I’ve never thought of myself as someone who is controlling or even all that caught up in security. I’ve been trying to do all the things, and when I get to the nitty gritty of why, it has a lot to do with security and control.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned. God is faithful. He was faithful when my brother committed suicide in 2015 and He has been faithful as I’ve walked through the loss of my dad. God is showing me that I can trust Him – no matter what happens or what things I thought were firm foundations are really unreliable.
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:02 am
Thank you so much for sharing, Roseanne!
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on December 22, 2017 at 2:08 pm
I forgot! Super excited to approach goal setting differently this year.
I’ve read this series before but never participated. I don’t know why…but I felt this last year and a half have meant big changes for me that I didn’t see coming, that have rocked me in some ways & thrown me off my usual self. I need a change, to approach 2018 differently and with a different sense of purpose than before.
Thanks for the opportunity to do that with help! One of my goals (resolutions???) for 2018 is to ask for more help & it feels good to already be starting that now.
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:02 am
So glad you are here, Kerry!
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on December 22, 2017 at 2:15 pm
I am doing ok. I seem to need change in my life in order to achieve the things that mean the most. Health is number 1 right now and i struggle with taking the first step. I am continually in awe of people who achieve the impossible and I would like to be one of those people! I am ready for this and power sheets wil help me!
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:03 am
I believe you can be one of those people, Rachael! Cheering you on!
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on December 22, 2017 at 2:31 pm
This is my first time using powersheets and I’m so excited! I’m so thankful God helped me discover it, your books, blog, etc. Such an answer to prayer for how I’ve been feeling/living the last couple years.
Step one: I average around a 5. I want to make changes in so many areas! I’d say family, health, spiritual life, finances are my top ones.
Step 2: I feel like I’ve been chasing perfect and chasing survival. Every day I just try to get through the day with young kids. I feel like I’m surviving, not thriving. I also spend too much time trying to have the perfectly clean home, and organized to-do lists, that I’m not cultivating the things that matter – like investing in the lives of my kids.
Step 3: My son was born. (Now I have 3 kids!)
I discovered powersheets!-
on December 23, 2017 at 11:03 am
I’m so glad you’re here, Laura!
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on December 22, 2017 at 3:04 pm
Step One: I’m tired. Across the areas in my life listed I average a 6. I most want to improve our home/schedule. It will impact the other areas I want to improve.
Step Two: I’ve been chasing everything (and acceptance is part of the issue, the other is a special needs kid with lots of demands to keep up with). Trying to do WAY too much and feeling I’m failing at it all. I’m tired.
Step Three: Good things- grew a bit in my relationship with God, had more family fun this year, lost a little weight, three successful surgeries on 3 people in our family, lots of God providing what we need when we needed it. Lessons learned – I need more help. We all do better when we pay to have some of my load done by someone else, I don’t need to feel guilty for it. I know my kids best and my instinct is right. Life is better for the whole family when I say no to many things I want to say yes too.
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:04 am
It sounds like you have seen little by little progress, Amanda! Cheering you on!
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on December 22, 2017 at 3:06 pm
Very hopeful and encouraged to start 2018. Started using Powersheets the second half of 2017 and my Type A heart was so fulfilled. Even when I didn’t fully complete a task or goal, seeing the progress and focusing on small steps helped me not quit and I can’t wait to see how much good work is done in the new year.
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:04 am
Beautiful, Ashley! Thankful for you!
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on December 22, 2017 at 3:52 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
Until. a traumatic event i. September, I would have been an 8 in a lot of areas, but now I would say a 5-6 in many. In 2018, I will invest more in recreation and finances in terms of stewardship.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I am not sure about this one. Maybe friendship… I want to focus on it not being an idol in my life.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
I am still working on this step!
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:04 am
Cheering you on, Emily!
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on December 22, 2017 at 4:29 pm
Thank you, thank you, thank you for all the amazing work you do!!! Lara you have inspired me to start the next chapter in my life. I was feeling lost, uninspired, overwhelmed, and sad with life. I first starting following you via Instastories, and now I am here loving everything you are saying!!! This last half of the year has felt extremely hard and lonely. I slowly feel like I’m stepping out of this fog I have been walking in, and thanks to you I am feeling better. Not 100% like myself, and a work in progress. ¡Mil gracias!
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:05 am
Wow, Christina, thank you so much for that encouragement! It means so much! It sounds like there is great good ahead for you!
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on December 22, 2017 at 4:45 pm
I wrote a friend a card and I will mail it to her tomorrow morning! 🙂
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on December 22, 2017 at 4:56 pm
Thanks so much for recording this series Lara! It makes it SO easy for me to access the content much quicker than if I planned on reading it. Yay!
My answers to your prompts:
1. I am feeling a little discouraged I didn’t make as much progress as I would have hoped in 2017 (my 1st year using PowerSheets!). I am trying to remind myself that little by little progress adds up, but feeling frustrated with myself that I didn’t make more movement in some of my goals. In 2018, I plan on making progress in my relationship with my husband, improving my health and giving some extra love to my friendships. 🙂
2. Lately I have been chasing other people. Seeking for my motherhood to look like hers, or my gifts to be exhibited like hers, my house to look like hers, etc. This has left me feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, inadequate and depressed.
3. My most exciting good thing (because God has blessed me so much!) is sticking to a budget for the entire year- the first time in my life!!! Major praise!! I have learned that margin is key (leave some unscheduled days) and when I try to take control from God, He lovingly yet definitively shows me I have no control. Thank you Jesus!
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:06 am
So glad you loved the recording, Elisabeth!
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on December 22, 2017 at 7:38 pm
Lara, I needed to find this so badly today – the timing is impeccable! I love this time of year, especially because I get into goal setting mode and your series always serves as an amazing thought starter for me. So thank you in advance for everything you’re about to share!
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve? –> To be brutally honest, tired. Which is why I’m thrilled to have spent my afternoon working through this today! Looking back on those life categories, it’s clear where I’ve invested the majority of my time….and not enough time. Relationships are definitely an area I want to improve most, as well as some work/career-related things. I feel great about my health and fitness, as well as personal development and progress made in these areas this year.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel? Success, approval (self and others), belonging…. big ones. Yikes!
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned. I came up with a big list for this (yay!) but some top learnings were 1) When I want something badly enough, I commit 110%; 2) When I’m doing work that I love, it doesn’t feel like work; 3) I feel best when my mind, body and spirit are being nourished, not just my body in the form of exercise and food – the area I’ve always focused most on in my endurance athlete past.
Can’t wait to get into the next post!
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:06 am
So glad you are here, Angela! 🙂
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on December 22, 2017 at 8:49 pm
The first half of this year was hard. I lost both my parents this summer after a long term illness.
Step 1: It has been a mixed year for me. I lost my parents, gained some weight, and started a at home advertising sales job that is ever so challenging me.
Step 2: chasing?
Success, sales, the phone. It’s very hard to get ahold of businesses. I’ve made some good sales, actual money, but it is a number game. It Requires patience, time & much energy!
Contentment
Courage
Step 3: This year was rough . Full of many challenges yet full of many cherished memories.
I started a blog ministry which I’m working on.
The word that God gave me for 2017 was: Dreams Becoming Reality. I am actually making money from home, working on putting together a blog ministry that God has placed on my heart for sometime. This year I was to begin. I-This year was the beginning of dreams becoming reality
God truely has been in the midst of me & and I wasn’t moved !
I am looking forward to what God has in store for me in 2018!
My verse for next year: 1 Cor. 2:9-
on December 23, 2017 at 11:07 am
Thank you so much for sharing, Elizabeth!
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on December 22, 2017 at 9:09 pm
I think my initial (much longer comment) didn’t post 🙁 🙁 🙁 and of course, I didn’t save it. bummer!
regardless, I’ll give a shortened version, just in case it didn’t post.
step1: how are you? feeling defeated. there are SO many things I want to do to live a simplified, more meaningful life. BUT I’m very hopeful for what these Powersheets will bring for 2018. and I’m confident I willllll make some changes in the new year!
step2: what have I been chasing? I don’t feel as though I’m chasing anything. perfection probably. that video really hit home. I think I’m chasing the idea that everything has to be and look perfect in life that a lot of the time I miss some of the good and great right in front of me.
step3: there is SO much good in my life. my husband. my children. our HEALTH. 2017 has taught me to be thankful and grateful for all the little things. not to be so hard on myself. to give grace. a lot of the times I need to give myself more grace. I can’t do it all. and I should expect to accomplish EVERYthing. and that’s okay. there’s a season for everything.
my first post was better. ha! looking forward to what Powersheets help me to accomplish in 2018. thank you Lara and your team for this amazing tool!-
on December 23, 2017 at 11:07 am
So grateful you are here, Courtney! Thank you for your encouragement, too!
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on December 23, 2017 at 9:31 am
Yes Please! I love this giveaway and Lara Casey! Thank you for all you do to help so many.
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:08 am
It’s my pleasure, Liz! : )
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on December 23, 2017 at 11:13 am
Step One: My life rating in those categories averages out to about a 5/6. I think the perfectionist in me thinks I could be doing better at everything. So, to narrow it down, my three top priorities for 2017 are health, spiritual + personal growth, and work (I am praying about making a job change this summer).
Step Two: This past year I was chasing myself and what would make ME happy in this moment (which is not always a bad thing). However, I want my life to be pleasing to Christ and to be a witness to others. I don’t want to be chasing after what the world provides, only to be left empty when it doesn’t satisfy.
Step Three:
In 2017:
-I began a relationship with my boyfriend and it’s grown to be really great (I want to keep working on this in 2018!)
-I worked on being healthier by picking up running and doing the Whole30 twice. I learned that meal prepping is a lifesaver and that I can meet small goals that I put my mind to!
-I read 100 books! I made a goal to read more and watch less and this was a very tangible way for me to see that I met it. And, I loved tracking my progress on Goodreads! -
on December 23, 2017 at 1:55 pm
Step One: my life rating varies depending on the area it is. I think on average (some being a 10 and some being on the low side) my life evaluation is about a 5 or a 6. With very specific areas I know I need to work on. my top priorities this year are Finishing my architecture exams, friendships, and paying down debt.
Step two: this past year I have been chasing perfection. this has been a difficult year but a happy one. happy because of my family but difficult because my boys and I married into a family for which I am now the step-mom and it is hard to be the step-mom and have no say in how your stepchildren are raised. I pray a lot on this subject and God has really helped to take away my anxiety and help fill me with joy and to not seek perfection within my family.
Step Three:
In 2017 I married my Fiance on New years eve, I gained a loving family.
I got motivated to find a way to pass my exams
My faith has grown by leaps and bounds
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on December 23, 2017 at 1:58 pm
I just got my book and am looking forward to setting my goals. 🙂 one of them is a goal that is on my list every year. And each year I do not make it happen. that is to pass my architecture exams. there are 7 long and intimidating exams that I need to spend 6 weeks studying for each. my hang up is that I am afraid of failure. I think I struggle with confidence because I have taken all and passed them once. But I missed the deadline by 3 months and had to start over so essentially I failed them. This has really affected me emotionally and has made me afraid to try again. my inner voice says “Who do you think you are? You have failed once, so you will fail again.” but I need to say to myself “You have passed once, so you can pass again.” this is the goal that has been on my list the longest (18 years to be exact) and each year that goes by I do not get it done due to intimidation and being afraid of failure. I decided that I have to do something different, even radical from what I normally do. I have to take the “bull by the horns” so to speak and really get past these exams and get them off my yearly to-do list. And the power sheets is what I am trying to see if that helps me write out my limitations, my fears, and think about what it looks like to move past these exams. I have never done that before and I am hoping it helps me to be able to take my career to the next level. Thank you, Lara!
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on December 23, 2017 at 3:09 pm
Lara, I have been using powersheets for about 3 years now and they have truly been life changing for me as I’ve cultivated goals that have pulled my life forward in more ways than I could have imagined!
I started going through the 2018 powersheets today and am feeling so motivated for the new year. I’m so grateful for what you and your team do each day to bring this work into the world. You are serving so many in their lives and callings!!! Thank you 🙂
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on December 23, 2017 at 6:40 pm
I encouraged others by posting a reminder on my personal fb page that this time of year can be tough on people and bring about extra pain or frustration, and to offer others (and ourselves) extra kindness and grace.
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on December 24, 2017 at 6:55 am
Lara,
I listened to your Crowdcast “Powersheet Prep” and I cried almost the entire time! The Holy Spirit was using what you said at just the right time in my heart and mind! I am thankful for you and how He is using you in the life of others! Merry Christmas 🎄🎁 -
on December 24, 2017 at 11:07 am
1. My health is a 2. I need to commit to eating 3 meals a day, take care of my skin and exercise more.
My friends are a 7. I have a few close and precious friends that I should be more present with them this coming year.
My spouse/significant other is an 8. Although I am single, I am happy with myself and waiting openly and confidently, knowing that Mr. Right will come at the right time.
My family is also an 8. I need to show up more, love them all, love better and not loose my termper.
My finances are a 9. I didn’t expect this raise I got this past year. I still need to save more and not buy silly useless things.
My spiritual + personal growth is a 6. Forgiveness and Praise!
My work is a 6. I need to be more productive. This is the year to LEARN!
My recreation is a 4. I need a hobby, yoga would help me as well as seeing more nature.
2. I have been trying to chase Perfect too but instead I got uncompleted tasks, goals and fullfillments. I am lucky having good coe friends, a good job that pays well and a loving family. But all I need is to take care of myself to be able to take care of them.
3. A lot of good things: I met my friend Tom for the first time in person. I got a raise. I made some precious friends at work. I made some Apps that I am proud to put on my resume as a Software Engineer. I attended some Women in Tech conferences. I created @PlasTinkers with Mom.
4. Some lessons I learned: Motivate yourself, only you can do it, and if you can’t ask God for help. Love your future self. Everything is easy if I dare to try and learn.
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on December 24, 2017 at 12:44 pm
My husband and I have been married for almost 6 years, and we’ve been through more than most couples do in a life time. It might seem small to some, but one of things I want to cultivate is joyfulness in the difficult times. In the past I’ve reacted with negative emotions due to our circumstances, and not being able to do things that normal families get to do. (It’s not a financial issue. We are a ‘sandwich’ family and it’s very difficult to say the least). Not sure how to cultivate this, but I’m sure it will come to me. Thanks Lara for all you do!
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on December 24, 2017 at 3:00 pm
So exciting!
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on December 24, 2017 at 4:26 pm
Wow Lara, this is so powerful! I try to have some reflecting time every day and decided to journal on these questions as a prompt for my day yesterday. A couple of sentences in, when thinking about all of the good things from the past year, the rain started to pour. I was stunned at the power of these questions! It’s not very often we think of our lives in years and distill our messy lives into pithy bulletpoints. I had to dig to find some of my highlights from year, like great moments of living out my faith and mentoring others – moments that were burried by the past couple of months. I saw a pattern of running full speed in so many different directions. Maybe I am too willing to adapt to the requests and expectations of others. There must be another way, and I feel blessed to have found your instagram, read this page, and sat with this encouragement for an afternoon.
Like so many humans, I am chasing a sense of purpose and place – in a new place this year! – while trying to stay flexible to meet different obligations. Just writing that down allowed me to see the opposition in those two concepts of place and flexibility.
How are you? A marvelously simple question that requires a sharp focus into areas of our lives. I paused on each question to really think about what a perfect 10 would be, and saw that things I thought were going well, like growing new friendships and making time for exploring in a new city, are only on the 4-7 range. I also loved the encouragement to take ownership over my environment. Even though it doesn’t come from within, our environments shape us and we need to participate as we can! Your post encouraged me to reach-out to long beloved friends and share my heart with them, because we are all so quick to just say “I’m great!”
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on December 24, 2017 at 10:30 pm
Hi, Kathy and Jenny here. We are cousins, sisters in the Lord, and now PowerSheets companions.
I (Jenny) am a Chinese living in the states since 1999, and started my “cultivate what matters” journey when I discovered book “make it happen” this July. I introduced Kathy to CWM when her family came from China and stayed with me for a 3-week vacation in August. Kathy’s heart got so touched by what she read in “meet your fear”, a chapter in “make it happen”, that she decided to join me as companions in using PowerSheets to help cultivate what matters for year 2018. It was a huge leap of faith for Kathy because of the well-known difference and barrier in language, culture, ways of thinking, lifestyle, etc.
We bought our 2018 PowerSheets on its launch day. While Kathy was eagerly waiting for it to arrive on Dec. 9 (China time), I got busy planning on walking her through the PowerSheets till Jan. 2018 tending list as my Dec. top priority tending item. Though we could not keep up with the online PowerSheets prep week, we did the similar at a much needed slower pace, i.e., 3 days for each of 5 parts in the first 33 pages. Almost every day we shared ideas/resources, asked/answered questions, encouraged/supported one another, and had a joyful summary phone call for each part.
I have been thinking of logging our process as much as possible for future reference, and the 2018 goal setting series sounds like a wonderful platform to do that. Besides the purpose of bookkeeping, we would love to give Lara and her team some raw and firsthand inputs from a team of CWM freshmen deeply rooted in Chinese culture and way of thinking, hoping to shed some lights on how to adapt CWM methods and/or PowerSheets for reaching out more Chinese users one day, which we know (from what our family/friends and church sisters’ feedback already) and feel (from our observations) in tremendous need.
With the above two purposes in heart (let’s practice commenting blog posts on purpose here 🙂 ), we will share Kathy’s answers to every step in 2018 goal setting series (followed by my translation) , and some of our key reflections on how Chinese would take on that step of CMW methods and PowerSheets.
2018 goal setting, part 1 –
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
[Kathy] https://photos.google.com/u/1/share/AF1QipNPrQRzfwi1EM9Y72JmYauOqsJ5wtXu-FFIZQ–y5c9Yt4G6pzGVsUXwlGzMgo_FA/photo/AF1QipO-zBmGnMOu2jbrJ5doc5FQ5E2uua2K7QRKj7IZ?key=QW9rZmJPM1VlcTZTWXJrblVwY0ZVem5xc0lZS3JBhttps://photos.google.com/u/1/share/AF1QipNPrQRzfwi1EM9Y72JmYauOqsJ5wtXu-FFIZQ–y5c9Yt4G6pzGVsUXwlGzMgo_FA/photo/AF1QipPHl0jisqD2zRm2l22uPNF4Q8M-6p1wA2PKO7as?key=QW9rZmJPM1VlcTZTWXJrblVwY0ZVem5xc0lZS3JB
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Health: God healed me, as my base line (scored 9), now: stay up late and get up early, feel tired and prone to sickness, making some adjustments (scored 6)
Friends: absolutely no time for friends, but thank God, we easily connect whenever we feel the need (scored 3)
Spouse/significant other: we need more time together (scored 5)
Family: need more father-daughter and mother-son time (scored 7)
Finances: At least I became more aware that I can make effort in this area. My growth here will make good influence on my family (scored 1)
Spiritual/personal growth: need more time to be with God (scored 6)
Work: As a full time housewife, I am improving in time management, cooking, caring for family. (scored 8)
Recreation: question mark (scored 1)[reflections]
Kathy – My first thought at this PowerSheets page is that my life can be viewed as composition of these areas! Then came the impression that I have never carefully examined these life areas, and I don’t know myself and my life as well as I thought. I am grateful for this new start. I sincerely hope more Chinese people may have access to this tool! I felt discouraged at these scores I gave to each area out of first impression. My hope is to become that “happy bee on honeysuckle” at end of year 2018.
Jenny – I can see how shocked a Chinese may feel on this approach to life. We may reflect on where we are momentarily at best, then hurry forward, thanks to much louder and busier Chinese lifestyle. We may have an overall blurry impression, but digging in every life area with a score is nearly unheard of. Planning on finances, spiritual growth, or recreation can be specially difficult, since we have little concepts/resources. Full-time housewife is hardly considered as a job title as contributive to the family as a breadwinner. I shared with Kathy how working as a housewife may contribute to family finance. Chinese tend to be hard on ourselves by overemphasizing on the negative, so we feel grateful and very helpful for the tip of “write in some positive thoughts too”. Kathy so loves lively expressions such as “happy bee on honeysuckle” that she literally giggled quite a while! We dreamed and laughed at some possible literal translations of this expression in the future Chinese version PowerSheets, and finally we decided to settle with ideas of free translation.2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
[Kathy] 过去几个月我好像一直在跟时间赛跑，结果就是累的半死可身后仍是一堆没有做完的事。
[translation] In past months, I seemed to have been racing against time. I felt exhausted, but there were still tons left to do.[reflections]
Jenny – I would say most Chinese get so used to busyness out of pressure of life that we would probably feel lost and don’t know what to do if we are told to be still for hours. Some may not know how to point out clearly what he/she is chasing. Acknowledging and then expressing our feelings can be very hard and strange. I expect some may get stuck here for loooog time.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
[Kathy] https://photos.google.com/u/1/share/AF1QipNPrQRzfwi1EM9Y72JmYauOqsJ5wtXu-FFIZQ–y5c9Yt4G6pzGVsUXwlGzMgo_FA/photo/AF1QipP8VEUd1ndq9KfdMuNe0sUxgx8Cv0DsEpls9m7a?key=QW9rZmJPM1VlcTZTWXJrblVwY0ZVem5xc0lZS3JB[translation]
1) Going to bed at 10:30pm and getting up on 5:30am helped me start well the next morning/day. Read bible in the morning.
2) On-time communicating with my husband and daughter worked better than finding a separate communication time later.
3) Simple, clean and orderly environment benefited whole being of my kids.
4) Gentle and friend-like communication style touched heart of my daughter, better than direct teaching.
5) Encouraging and supporting my daughter nurtured our relation.
6) Simple yet nutritious diet is the most needed in my family.
7) Weekly meal planning helped decrease cooking/shopping time, which made me happy.
8) Dining twice on weekend was appreciated by my kids, and it functioned as quality family time.
9) this is a private item, so I am skipping 🙂
10) Immediately responding to spontaneous thoughts (e.g. thinking of texting someone, taking notes of new ideas) was a good habit, and led to good results. Don’t wait.
11) Little by little, make a mess, love more, no need to be perfect – I’m impressed by such great ideas!
12) A good try on reduce family expenses, though the result was not clear yet. Worth keeping trying.
13) Clear family responsibilities for everyone, so that everyone knew what to do next.
14) Blocking social media alerts resulted in less distractions and interruptions.[reflections]
Kathy – I love this part. I was so thankful when writing the list. I feel I need more space here! Maybe we Chinese are good at making a summary. Jenny complimented me on my more specific descriptions and my starting to use stickers!
Jenny – This is where I see Kathy started to really get the key principles of “cultivate what matters”, as she wrote point 11 in English (Again we had fun trying to translate these to Chinese). She enjoyed putting good things down in writing, something she can see and feel refreshed and strengthened to look forward to the best yet to come. I hope more Chinese friends have such chance of appreciating and celebrating the good things before pressing self to make more progress.-
on December 26, 2017 at 4:03 pm
I found all links in the original comment are broken, because commenting system improperly replace any — (two dashes) in urls to –
To access online pictures of Kathy’s original answers, please copy the url link to your browser url address, replace FFIZQ– with FFIZQ–, and press enter.
I forgot to translate lessons Kathy learned from list of the good things. Here they are:
Lessons Kathy learned from the good things (preceded by a star):
1) More detailed a project is divided, more smooth it proceeds forward.
2) Fine food and travel are favorites of all my family members.
3) taking notes of ideas/inspirations is a good habit.
4) summarizing and communicating after each family activities helps make improvement next time.
5) blocking social media alerts helps.
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on December 26, 2017 at 4:19 pm
OK. looks like there is a consistent bug in this commenting system that has to deal with two dash letters. I am doing some experiments here trying to find a solution.
1. two consecutive dash letters: —
2. two dash letters, with a backslash letter in between, trying to compensate the system’s improper processing
3. add a backslash letter between every two dash letters in a url: https://photos.google.com/u/1/share/AF1QipNPrQRzfwi1EM9Y72JmYauOqsJ5wtXu-FFIZQ-\-y5c9Yt4G6pzGVsUXwlGzMgo_FA/photo/AF1QipO-zBmGnMOu2jbrJ5doc5FQ5E2uua2K7QRKj7IZ?key=QW9rZmJPM1VlcTZTWXJrblVwY0ZVem5xc0lZS3JB -
on December 26, 2017 at 4:42 pm
Yay! adding a backslash letter between two dash letters in a url fixed the bug!
OK. Here are all the right links to pictures of Kathy’s answers to part 1:
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
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3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
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on December 24, 2017 at 10:37 pm
1. Overall I am doing okay with most areas, but definitely need to improve in the area of friends, finances, work and having fun.
2. I am chasing doing it all and doing it perfectly. Frankly, I’m exhausted and get frustrated with myself when I compare my progress to others.
3. Good things: read 17 books this past year, made progress on fixing our home, healthier, found church home, made some great friends, got rid of excess.
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on December 25, 2017 at 1:46 pm
Hi Everyone!!
I am SO thankful for this series — especially the audio!! I have listened to the first parts a couple of times and now I am sitting down to write. I like letting this stuff soak in.
1. I feel like most areas rate between 5 and 7; they’re ok, but not as good as I would like. Really, what I am dissatisfied with is my own effort. I know I can give more to the areas of parenting, marriage, and health. I really need more discipline and less distraction.
2. I guess that ties right in with my chase. It is definitely perfection for me. I have a hard time staying in a place of grace where I’m neither trying to make everything perfect nor beating myself up about the imperfections. I think I’m getting better although it’s been slow growth, and that includes learning to be OK with slow growth itself. I tend to want an all-at-once-transformation but I realize it is because I often haven’t had the patience for baby steps.
3. I feel embarrassed that it was hard for me to think of my good things off the top of my head. I know there is plenty to be thankful for but my mind was simply blank at first!
Ok, for one, we had to evacuate for Hurricane Irma and we really didn’t know what to expect when we came home, but our little community was totally unscathed. That was HUGE. We have several friends who suffered some level of loss. I made a decision to start the process of transitioning out of graphic design and preparing to pursue other artistic business goals. Just making that official and saying it out loud was also big… and so freeing! (I’ve wanted this for a long time.) I started learning some Hebrew and growing in my understanding of the Bible, which has been life-changing. My husband and I had some very important breakthroughs in an area where we were starting to struggle. I finally have a working sewing machine and it’s like riding a bike! I know that I am growing in good ways. 🙂
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on December 25, 2017 at 1:47 pm
Step 1: I’ve really struggled this last year in all areas. I’m hoping for a more intentional 2018. I decided to take a leap of faith and ordered the Powersheets. The prep work has been very helpful and uncovered things I need to focus on. The three areas I’m going to cultivate this year are spouse, family and recreation.
Step 2: I’m also chasing trying to do it all and gain the approval of others. As a stay at home/homeschool mom, I’ve been trying to do so many things and I’m not doing any of them well. I’m overwhelmed and burned out.
Step 3: Good things – Reading good books with the kids and praying together, completed a Whole 30, have a wonderful husband who helps, supports, and encourages me. I learned alot this year about what doesn’t work. I work best with a plan and direction and I’m hoping to cultivate that this year and live with more intention!
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on December 25, 2017 at 6:43 pm
Lara, will you please delete my comments? After posting them I decided I would rather keep them private and simply continue with your wonderfully-helpful goal-setting challenges personally. I initially commented to be entered in the give-away but when I saw all of the extra things that would be helpful to do aside from following the 5-day challenges, I have decided to continue privately. Thank you so much for your fabulous work!!
Blessings,
Marian 🙂-
on December 26, 2017 at 9:30 am
Absolutely, Marian! 🙂
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on December 25, 2017 at 7:33 pm
– Health 6 I am fairly happy a to where I am but wat to lose a good 15lb and build muscles to gave energy to keep yo with my husband and children,eat healthy,know my why to being fit!!
– Friends 4 though I have moved forward a lot I still struggle being transparent and just being there for friends,making new friends.
– Family (including your significant other, if applicable) I struggle being a supportive wife and mother. I want to be a more engaged wife ,momma ,to encourage them !!
– Finances 6 I want to use discernment in my wants vs needs in the moment,be frugal, too stay on too of it daily/weekly.
– Spiritual + Personal Growth 5 daily time with my Father, listening to Him
– Work 4 do diligent housework so that I can be comfortable hosting friends and strangers
– Recreation using my voice, hosting parties, writing, photography
Step2 Step 2 what have you been chasing?
Perfectionist, comparison, people pleasing,jealousy
Trying to appeal to what I think needs to be a perfect life, comparing myself to other people when we are all uniquely different just the way God made us. Trying to please people in doing what they say and having a fear of people or displaying them. I declare God’s abundant live over me and boldness and discernment. Not fear of men. I see myself getting jealous of others especially when I compare myself to them.
Step 3.I am grateful for my husband and all his hard work and love for me, his children and God. I lost a good amount of weight.
I am grateful that I have been learning to be transparent, learning what my voice is and that it is valued, that my voice is to be heard!! thankful that we have a house, thankful for our garden we had, thankful for my friendships,my children thankful that I have a relationship with God my true Father! Abba Father I belong to you!!! -
on December 25, 2017 at 8:23 pm
I forgot to share my lessons learned! Well, some of the good things I did not mention were actually hard things at the time. There were several things I was anxious about and that felt really huge but ultimately they worked out.
I feel like the biggest lesson in all that was that even when I feel like no one can speak to what I’m feeling, I should resist isolation. Even if they can’t solve it, just being heard is still valuable, and I should not assume what someone else could have to say about what I’m feeling. I don’t know what is silently happening in other’s minds that God might use to help me.
Also, that isolation so easily creeps into marriage and “space” can become toxic when you let it happen too much. I learned that my trust issues are even deeper than I have realized and I need to be more deliberate about trusting my husband with whatever I’m carrying inside. The whole point of two becoming one is to walk together! I also learned when discouragement comes, there is always already an answer lined up for me, and I just need to be determined to keep my peace and protect my contentment in the “middle.”
I’m also learning that feeling insecure about the timing of my life is useless and only hinders me moving forward and making the changes I need. I’ve learned that I am tired of allowing fear and insecurity to steal from me. I also realized that writing down “sort of” goals year after year has not worked because I need to keep them in front of me to stay focused and I need to have courage to be specific and clear. I haven’t done that because my fear has caused me to be indecisive and to lose faith in my ability to make things happen. But resources like this are coming along to help me change my approach in great ways. I am becoming so encouraged and hopeful for the next 12 months!
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on December 25, 2017 at 10:04 pm
How am I? I feel like my 2017 lacked intentionality. I felt like I was constantly in a state of trying to catch up or keep up with the responsibilities of life and home. Here are my scores from my CWM evaluation: Health- 7; Proud that I was able to stay away from a lot of sugar during this holiday season but need to always strive for moderation in this area. Also, would love to be consistently exercising! Friends- 7; Grateful that I’ve been cultivating some friendships lately that have been meaningful. Alway need to be more intentional in reaching out to my friends and deepening those relationships. Spouse/Significant Other- 2; There are many days where I feel like my husband is just not a priority. This is the area of my life where I need to devote the most focus. My marriage often becomes a “last thing”, rather than what it should be, a “first thing”. Even though I feel like I need to work on myself in my marriage, I am so grateful for my husband who loves me well and who is willing to talk things out and voice his concerns with how things are going. Family- 4; This one ties into my marriage. Overall, I feel like these two areas need the most attention and a little bit of TLC (or maybe a lot!). Finances- 6; I say a 6 because I’m not drowning in debt or unable to save– However, I feel like I begin each year planning to be more intentional with tracking our spending and give up sooner than what I should. Spiritual/Personal Growth- 6; I feel like I have a sensitive heart towards God and his word and His leading in my life, yet don’t always make time for personal bible study. I gave myself a 6 because I know the word of God and time in it fuels the rest of my life. Work= 5; Here, again, there needs to be more intentionality on how I organize and manage my work. Recreation- 4; I don’t typically take a lot of time for rest or commit a lot of time to hobbies right now.
Step 2– As I reflect on 2017, I see someone who was chasing after perfect a lot. If I’m totally honest, it’s because I’m concerned with what others might think of me.
3. Good Things– Raising and showing a goat with my son and gaining a good friend through that, What I learned? Goats are incredibly stubborn and my boy is a hard worker. My middle child started kindergarten and loved it. Not knowing how the transition would go I was pleased. I watched my sister and husband commit to loving their friends well through an extremely trying time. What I learned? That friendship is important and takes commitment, dedication and lots of love.
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on December 26, 2017 at 12:33 pm
So excited to dig into my powersheets
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on December 26, 2017 at 2:39 pm
1. 2018 is definitely going to be focused on health & spiritual/personal growth. By allowing myself to grow, I hope it helps me define my purpose and motivate me to work towards pursuing the things I love.
Health-3. I picked 3 because I haven’t been on top of it like I should and know I can be. I haven’t been to the gym consistently but I have been there and had some pretty awesome workouts.
Friends-5. We had one friends get together this year and we’d like a few more to really show how important they are to us.
Family-8. I’ve been in really good communication with my family despite how far we are from each other. My siblings and I started a group message to keep each other updated. My relationship with Dustin is full of growth.
Finances-6. I’ve been guilty of emotional spending and being lazy about making meals, but I’ve managed to balance a checkbook again to see where my money is going!
Spiritual/Personal Growth-6. This one has come a long ways the last few months of the year. I am beginning to build routine because that seems to keep me sane.
Work-4. I’m hoping 2018 will allow me to take the steps to pursue what I’m passionate about and leave my current job.
Recreation-6. Concerts fill my well. We’ve been to a couple this year and have a couple scheduled for 2018 and I can’t wait.
2. I have been chasing ideas, unintentional goals, & a false sense of community that I’m scared to create. It leaves me feeling less than, anxious, and unhappy.
3. Good things-
Lessons learned-
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on December 26, 2017 at 2:41 pm
3. Good things – traveling to see family this year, more time with the kids, more conversations about growth with Dustin
Lessons learned- don’t just talk about doing or finishing things, simplifying allows space for things I love!!
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on December 26, 2017 at 3:11 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
**I’m overwhelmed with what I need to do to get life ‘back in order’ like I think it should be. But my *think it should be* is a bit unrealistic for a mom with 3 (youngest is 4 months). I feel like I’m maintaining most of my areas of life, with only two just plain drowning. I mostly want to improve finances, family (we also homeschool, and I have a husband who is a pilot and comes and goes) & my relationship with God2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I’ve been chasing calm. But not from God. From having new clothes, a clean house, pretty pictures, cookies. And it’s not working out too well….3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
Good things – I sat for two weeks straight with our new baby while my husband kept the house afloat. I learned that resting is always good & it’s ok if the floors are not mopped!
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on December 26, 2017 at 3:27 pm
1. I am treading water in a busy season. I have spent the past few months studying goals/planning/intentionality, listening to podcasts, audiobooks on the subject. Reading. I’m ready to put things into practice, but I’m only finding snippets of time. I have 3 young kids, and I have a hard time coming back to the reflection multiple times as I try and journal and think. I am excited to be getting some time away soon–and to have time to really flesh out these questions!
2. I’ve been chasing perfection. I’m finally seeing ways through the perfection. I’m loving Lara’s metaphor of garden + dirt. I’m understanding how getting dirty is the way through perfection to accomplishing goals. I’m excited to continue to build on that in 2018!
3. I’m grateful for so much. that in 2016 we worked on our marriage so it could be strong enough to withstand the last few months of busyness. (and I’m looking forward to more intentionality again in marriage in 2018!) I’m grateful for how much my husband supports and serves me and our kids and our home. I’m grateful for the opportunity to homeschool my children and how that process is growing me into a stronger mom. I’m also grateful for all of the ways God has given me to cultivate an identity outside of my house/family/homeschool. It’s tricky to balance those things, but my husband and I both agree it’s important.
Lessons Learned: my biggest lesson is that all the work I had done to get rid of that “inner voice” that would berate me–well, it didn’t really go away–it just hid in my children. As in, every time they whined/complained/asked me to meet their needs, I heard it as criticism of myself as a mom. HUGE realization for me. It’s natural that my kids will come to me to ask for things, it’s a good thing even. Yet, it wasn’t how I heard (or even now hear) it. I’m working through that and letting it go. It’s a work in progress for sure. But I’m thankful I saw it. -
on December 26, 2017 at 3:34 pm
2017 really was a happy year, and I’m looking forward to so much more growth in 2018!
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on December 26, 2017 at 4:28 pm
I am so excited for this Goal Planning Series!! Below are answers to the questions.
1. I am doing well, and using PowerSheets last year really helped me really cultivate joy in my life throughout the year. Last year at this time I felt liked I was going through the motions and to be honest I wasn’t really enjoying life. However, after really digging in and working at it, I can truly say that I am leaving 2017 with a full heart, a lot of peace, and incredible memories throughout the year.
2. Lately I’ve been finding myself chasing significance and approval through my accomplishments at work, versus finding my worth in Christ. This makes me feel like I am always trying to earn acceptance, instead of trusting where He will lead me and knowing He will give me the knowledge, wisdom, and skills to achieve all that He calls me to do.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
My Relationship with my husband – Celebrating 10 years of marriage and all the amazing lessons I’ve learned over the past 10 years on how to love unselfishlessly.
My Career – My role in my career keeps getting more established, and leadership opportunities continue to grow.
Making our house a home – working to make our house a place of rest, encouragement, and joy.
Family Time with Parents and In-Laws – Making Time each week for family dinners to catch up on life.
Building New Friendships – Being open to building new friendships has brought so many great memories to 2017.
Celebrating the arrival of my niece – Perfect way to end this year.
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on December 26, 2017 at 5:11 pm
1. I feel like some areas of my life are doing really, really great, but maybe at the expense of the other areas. Friends and spouse and family rated really high but recreation and health were extremely low.
2. I think I’ve been chasing one more, one more. One more fun Christmas activity with the girls, one more cookie will give me the oomph to get them there, one more errand to run before nap time and it’s all too much for my family.
3. Good things:
Getting to stay home w my girls
Visiting my Mimi
Small group
New home in the perfect place for us
Playhouse for the girls
Getting to know my neighbors
Lessons learned:
Quiet is good
Hurricane Irma allowed us to serve and meet our neighbors
The girls love to stay home
Sometimes you need help to organize!
Prioritize friendships, they’re not all equal
Jesus doesn’t want us to live in shame and fear
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on December 26, 2017 at 7:33 pm
Can’t wait to get started. Encouraged a close friend.
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on December 26, 2017 at 7:41 pm
Hello everybody! I am excited to be getting intentional with you all this season!
1. This season I am definitely overwhelmed and tired. This year’s highlight was move to a different state, changing schools and helping a recovering member of family by welcoming her in our home and getting a blue heeler puppy. 2017 was also a year I have been emotionally invested into facilitating a better family culture and relationship between my husband’s side of the family. I want to see them all communicating and happy, but there is only so much I can do. However God is all powerful and I believe He will shine His light in this situation.
The areas in life I need to tend to this year are my health (I have lupus), growing stronger in faith as a family with my husband, make friends and become a great friend myself(just moved to a different state) and live by a principle “less is more” this year (less things, less clothes, less commitments).
Good things in 2017:
1. Worked a lot on patience. I always considered myself patient, up till we got the blue heeler puppy. This ball of energy definitely made me re-thing a lot, get into being a good doggy trainer and generally to become more patient and focused.
2. My husband changed careers, which was a great thing for our family. He no longer has to be absent for half of a month each month, and it helps us to be closer and communicate better. -
on December 26, 2017 at 8:12 pm
Im so excited to be doing this early this year . Setting my intentional goals for the year . Living on less and simplifying my life . I can’t wait to share my journey .
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on December 26, 2017 at 9:24 pm
Thanks so much for this amazing series, Lara! I can’t wait to go through each of the blog posts and get a head start on making 2018 my best year yet! God bless!
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on December 26, 2017 at 9:32 pm
I noticed that most of my good things from the year involve connecting with others. Specifically, connecting with family. I am really looking forward to more of that in the coming year.
I most want to improve health and home, though spiritual growth will always be a priority, too.
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on December 26, 2017 at 9:33 pm
I’m definitely tired & overwhelmed this year. My husband has a business which I help with in many areas. All the areas I’m below a 4. I’ve been chasing staying alive. The good things this year are my daughters are growing & the best kids. My husband’s business is growing & I’ve figured out a working schedule being a nurse to be more present with his business. I’m excited to use the powersheets & praying I will be above a 5.
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on December 26, 2017 at 9:41 pm
1) Health is a 6 because I’m generally healthy, but I’ve gained 10-15 lbs this year because of bad eating habits and lack of exercise. I know how to do better, I’m just never motivated to stick with anything.
Friends is a 6 as well because I’m finally beginning to see some friendships bear fruit. At church, I’m met some truly wonderful friends who I connect with on a deeper level and I’m letting go of fruitless relationships of my past. I just need to get better at giving as much as I am receiving.
Family is a 5. I live with my family but I often feel disconnected from them (I live with my parents and sister). Other family relationships are strained due to difference in beliefs/lifestyles.
Finances is a 1. I’m in tons of debt out of grad school and I do not yet have a job. I’m totally dependent upon my parents for financial help right now.
Spiritual/Personal Growth is a 3. I’ve been “yo-yoing” with my faith and obedience to God lately. I keep falling back into bad habits that I need to let go of in order to grow closer to God and work toward more personal development.
Work is a 1 because I’m unemployed right now. I need a job, but I’m jaded by the challenges and responsibilities that come with it.
Recreation is a 2. I go through hobbies like water…I never stick to anything long enough to consider it a fruitful hobby. I say I want to try lots of things but rarely follow through. I need to be more intentional with how I spend my free time.
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on December 26, 2017 at 9:48 pm
2) I’ve been chasing perfection in school and internships. I tried so hard to be the perfect intern and often compared myself to my classmates out of worry that I didn’t measure up. This often left me feeling inadequate, dumb, and unfulfilled. I felt empty in other areas of my life if things weren’t going well with school or work. So much of my self-image and self-worth were wrapped up in how others saw me and I am still wrestling with this now.
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on December 26, 2017 at 9:56 pm
3) There were a few really good things that happened in 2017. I graduated with my Master’s in Clinical Nutrition and I became much closer to my bible study group and leaders at church. My family also got tons of help from my church during an unexpected move into our new home and they didn’t charge us a penny for it. These things have taught me these 3 lessons:
1) God does not bless me based on how much I deserve to be blessed. It is because of His goodness, grace, love, and mercy that He blesses me…all of this in spite of my mistakes and failures.
2) I have learned not to be afraid to ask for help when I really need it. If I hadn’t shared my family’s need for prayer and financial help at church, no one would have come to help us.
3) I’ve also learned that I have so much more growing to do. I may now have my degree, but I still need to work toward using my God-given gifts practically, both with professional work and my endeavors to help and serve others. -
on December 26, 2017 at 10:28 pm
Step 1 and Step 2: My biggest area of struggle right now is health. In my “chasing perfect” for my family (see Step 2), I completely lost myself and ended up overweight, out of shape, unhealthy, totally stressed, and left sitting with a lot of worry, fear and regret.
Step 3: I am grateful for God who hasn’t given up on me or my family. I made a greater commitment the last three months to let him be in charge and listen for his guidance instead of me constantly bargaining and telling him what I need him to do. I am choosing to trust him more.
So grateful I found your blog and the power sheets and excited to grow -
on December 27, 2017 at 10:09 am
I am so happy I stumbled upon your article! I have been really working on my well-being and goals since October and some of them worked out while other didn’t but i felt awesome for completing one of them! I am excited and looking forward to 2018 with a renewed drive.
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on December 27, 2017 at 10:45 am
Lara, I’m so inspired by your journey and all you share . I picked JOY as my word for 2018 because your Joyfullness was always so apparent and I want more of that in my life. But now rethinking and wondering if Light is the word….thank you for all you do!
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on December 27, 2017 at 10:50 am
A little late for commenting, I will be honest, at first I didn’t jump into leaving a comment because I am an extremely private person with my goals, business, family; well everything. It is hard for me to open up in a transparent way and share myself with others, something I am working on little by little. Step 1& 2 I am struggling with health and overworking and overmommin that I don’t leave time for myself and I don’t focus on my health, red bull, coffee, and soda all day long keeping me going. Step 3 I am grateful that I have a healthy family, it’s generic but SO true in this season, as many mothers I hear from are dealing with severe health issues with one or more of their children. Thankful for health for my boys and now I need to focus on that for myself
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on December 27, 2017 at 10:54 am
The biggest lessons I have learned in 2017 is that God has a plan and I need to trust it. Every time something doesnt make sense, I stress out and get anxious I find that God already had it planned out. I need to be patient, trust in His plan, and worry about what I can control while He works it out.
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on December 27, 2017 at 11:02 am
Hi Lara! As a first timer, I’m so glad to be here in this positive and inspiring space! I just listened to your message, and can’t wait to get my Powersheets! So far my favorite “take away” has been to not stress on the actual planning of my day/life. It doesn’t matter what I’ve crossed off the list, but instead how I’m being more present in my life. No more doing things to just do them, but to be more awake and alive in this beautiful life God has given me! Thank you! I can’t wait to learn more and grow in 2018!
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on December 27, 2017 at 11:23 am
Here we go – last year when I was doing my prep work I was lost! I was about to have a baby in March and couldn’t think about anything else but the tidal wave of change that was coming my (our) way. After reading Cultivate I should have just put that down as my number 1 goal – embrace parenthood and love myself in the process. I am hoping this year will be more settled so here are my answers to the first few questions:
1) When filling this out I was expecting to score low in most areas (I’m pretty hard on myself) but have found that I’m actually doing relatively ok…… so I need to give myself a break! I picked a top three: Recreation (I have no hobbies to speak of…. so I need to find something for myself!), Finances (insert weekly daycare payments and we’ve got to get serious about saving now), and Work/PhD program (how to balance it all with a little guy at home). Health and Spiritual growth were hard not to put in the top 3. So I would just say I have have a top 5. I’ve been using the cultivate faith journal and getting more connected with our church – so I’m most excited about this currently!2) I am chasing perfection. Unrealistic expectations of myself and what my life should be – what my CAPACITY IS. I am chasing validation and love from others and using that as a foundation for my life. This is not ok. I am feeling tired, overwhelmed and out of time.
3)There were so many more good things than I realized! I worked as a team with my husband to parent our little guy. I BIRTHED A HUMAN and made it through some mental and physical health challenges by reaching out for support and asking for help. My family has grown in our community at church and the scary part of “putting yourself out there” has lead to good relationships with new friends in the church community. I’ve taken steps to reclaim my health and body post baby and I’ve been working on my internship (on top of my 40/50 hour a week job) for my doctoral program. Most importantly I’ve loved the HECK out of this little boy who is already 9 months old.
Thank you for giving of yourself and sharing your story so that others can learn and grow. Your work is in the process of changing my life – I can’t wait to continue to grow with all of these wonderful women!
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on December 27, 2017 at 11:49 am
better late than never for me havent been feeling so great and now better and excited to start my goals for 2018… and your doing an AMAZING giveaway
Today GOALS and STEPS
Step 1
Health-7 … Goal- get healthier, more orgnaic eating, more walking,clean up products around the house and what i use
Friends-7 … Goal – talk more. Keeping in touch with my friends far away
Family-7…Goal – Making our family bigger. Its just hubby and i and we want a baby and have been trying for 2 years and taking next steps to making a baby.
Finances-6…Goal.. Save more, husband making work changes to make it easier to be a one income house hold….and me….start blogging like ive always wanted to..also go back to knitting and selling to help out.
Spiritual + Persona Growth-8..Goal…We became a big part of our church this year an would love to voulenteer more and give back more next year
Work-9…Goal… take away more..i watch a few differnt children as a nanny and would like to pay more attention to me and my other goals and need to cut back.
Recreation-5… Goal more husband and wife time. We usually do alot together even just small getaways.Next year goal is to plan more, do more, have fun more.Step 2
What have i been chasing? This is a couple of different things…my mine thing ive been chasing is becoming a mom. This has been the toughest thing in my life because all i have done is watch children and all i have ever dreamed of was to be a mom and it taking longer than i hope and pray for has been tough on me mentally, emotionaly and physically. Also another chase is going back to school…next year has to be the year no matter what .. time to push and not be scared.Step 3
Some good things from this year was going to the doctor and being put on Clomid to try to conceive. Second was becoming Eucharistic Ministers with my husband for our church. Coming closer and stronger as a marriage. Another plus is getting more family together..always a struggle with everyones schedules.This is great how your doing steps..loving this so far.. wish i had the organizers…still trying to decide on a planner for next year and do these goals is helping a ton 🙂
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on December 27, 2017 at 12:27 pm
Annette Brown
Hi, I’m just getting started and want to add – STEP 1 – My rating is teetering around an average of 7 for the year with each area needing to be cultivated. My soil although was very fertile in the first quarter is very much in need of nutrients in this 4 quarter. STEP 2 – I would have never name perfection, but the analyzation revealed that this was the very thing I was chasing and IT is lonely, exhaustive and something I will never obtain, but the definition changes every second. In realizing this, I am vowing to get of that merry-go-round and choose to be me with all the imperfections as well as freedom and liberation and joy it bring. I choose to live on purpose. STEP 3 My 2017 Good Things – I launched my event planning business in October, I had the opportunity to re-evaluate friendships. I gifted a celebratory event for someone. I am more grateful. Looking forward to the next entry -
on December 27, 2017 at 1:06 pm
Step 1: My ratings came up pretty poor…I think I’m just feeling really discouraged today. I want to especially improve this year in the areas of My Writing (Work), my Spiritual Growth, and My Family.
Step 2: I think I’ve been chasing approval, and I don’t think I will ever find it, so I should just let go of it!
Step 3: I spent the first half of 2017 working at a stressful job, and then I made the good decision to leave it. In the second half of the year, I think I flipped the other way and wasted too much time. (Worked too hard the first half, worked too little the second half. LOL) Now it’s time to find the Balance. Balance. What does Balance mean exactly? Finding the even keel of my ship…as I sail toward my Master. I know He has already plotted my course, I just need to find the way that He wants me to go.
Encouraging someone else: This morning, a friend having surgery texted me, feeling anxious and discouraged. I gave her words of prayer and encouragement, and I believe, by God’s help, I was able to help a little!! -
on December 27, 2017 at 1:12 pm
I finally started filling out my POWER SHEETS!!! EEK! So exciting. Curious – I feel the need to check all of the boxes on page 9. And at first, I was like maybe this is bad because I”m not choosing – but then I thought – I’m more than one thing. We are all more than one thing. And so, if we’re excited or encouraged by more than one thing, that’s OK? Right? 🙂
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on December 27, 2017 at 1:56 pm
SO excited and grateful to be using power sheets for the first time in 2018! Thank you for all the time you spent pulling together this series — excited to listen and be encouraged to dig in! 2017 was such a great year in so many ways – and also SO hard in so many ways. The looking back exercise was hard, but cathartic.
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on December 27, 2017 at 2:52 pm
Health -3, Family-7, Friends-5, Work-7, Spiritual growth 8/9 (super excited to be able to say that this year!), Recreation-5
I have been chasing:
– Approval from other women, moms, business owners
– A clean and perfect home
– “Likes” and acceptance on social media
– Contentment in the wrong thingsGood things from 2017:
Spiritual growth, bible literacy
Marriage – good year of communication
Full wedding season
My daughter’s excitement for the bible
A fun friendcationLessons learned:
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on December 27, 2017 at 3:09 pm
You’re such an inspiration! Thanks for all the uplifting support and ideas!
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on December 27, 2017 at 4:46 pm
One of my biggest lessons was that I can do anything with consistent effort. I trained for my 1st marathon and I learned how important consistent small steps are compared to inconsistent leaps. At times during my training it was the memory of the small runs that got me through the 19 mile runs.
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on December 27, 2017 at 5:27 pm
The PS are so challenging and thought-provoking, which is how I know they are worthwhile!
1. 1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
Most of my areas are in the middle range, although I am most proud of my work in the spouse and finances categories. On the other hand, I need the most improvement in the categories of spiritual and personal growth, work (looking for a new job), and family (I have included home here).2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I am always chasing perfection and it keeps me from even starting most of the time. It gives me decision paralysis, which is frustrating and exhausting. Pushing myself to start where I am is a huge goal for 2018.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
I had so many blessings in 2018:
– We got married!!!
– We took an amazing honeymoon and our first true vacation in years
– We have downsized and upgraded a few things around the apartment (more work is needed, but I am celebrating our little by little progress and the fact that I STARTED knowing it wasn’t all going to be perfect or immediate)
– I led my first Bible study
– I cultivated good friendshipsI have learned that I need to invest more in my personal faith, as well as scheduling. We have been blessed to be entrusted with a lot of responsibility and invited to many amazing celebrations, but we need to calendar ourselves first instead of fitting our goals in the time left over.
2018 is going to be a challenge, but I am ready! Thanks for making such an amazing product and providing such encouragement, Lara!
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on December 27, 2017 at 7:13 pm
Im from Mexico, all these is new form me, these are my steps:
Step 1: How are you? Of the 6 areas I have 3 of them low, in 4, 5 and 6 points in finances, health and friends, I liked to realize that, although what concerns me most are my finances, there are other areas that I also have to pay attention and work in them to grow holistically. Family, work and Spiritual are in 8 points.
Step 2: Choose purpose over perfect. Although for a long time I do not care what people say, if I have chosen to be a perfectionist with myself, not to rest, because time is wasted, when things have to be done by me because if they do not go well, going tumbling but for more work to be done it seems that it does not come to anything, because in reality I have not chosen the purpose, if not the perfect—————Detectar idiomaAfrikáansAlbanésAlemánAmáricoÁrabeArmenioAzerbaiyanoBengalíBielorrusoBirmanoBosnioBúlgaroCanarésCatalánCebuanoChecoChino (Simplificado)Chino (Tradicional)CingalésCoreanoCorsoCriollo haitianoCroataDanésEslovacoEslovenoEspañolEsperantoEstonioEuskeraFinésFrancésFrisón occidentalGaélico escocésGalésGallegoGeorgianoGriegoGuyaratíHausaHawaianoHebreoHindiHmongHúngaroIgboIndonesioInglésIrlandésIslandésItalianoJaponésJavanésJemerKazajoKirguísKurdoLaoLatínLetónLituanoLuxemburguésMacedonioMalayalamMalayoMalgacheMaltésMaoríMaratíMongolNeerlandésNepalíNoruegoNyanjaPanyabíPastúnPersaPolacoPortuguésRumanoRusoSamoanoSerbioSesotho meridionalShonaSindhiSomalíSuajiliSuecoSundanésTagaloTailandésTamilTayikoTeluguTurcoUcranianoUrduUzbekoVietnamitaXhosaYidisYorubaZulúEspañol
Step 3: What good things happened and why am I grateful?
Many good things happened, among them I finished an expert degree in graphology and graphoscopy, I joined a wonderful reading group, I met great friends in these last two activities, I learned new book binding techniques, I ended a relationship in which I was not well, survived an earthquake, another year without pancreatitis. Thankful, for all this, for three beautiful nieces, for I have my parents, friends who are with me in the good times and the bad, my brothers and sisters, for having a house and food. And for be here and start to living with a PRPOSE! -
on December 27, 2017 at 7:55 pm
So excited to start this coming year using Power Sheets. First time! The prep work has uncovered a lot of amazing stuff I had been oblivious to or just didn’t want to address.
1. How am I? Currently doing well but living in fear of not having set goals for a lot of areas in my life. I want to improve on work. It’s hard to find a balance and think long term.
2. What have I been chasing lately? I’ve been chasing approval by anyone. But mostly from myself. It’s felt tiring and draining. I’ve been constantly feeling like I need to do more. Get to perfection. Not “settling” for progress.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
I finished college – learned that I miss having a goal to work towards.
Traveled to see friends – realized that I really crave deep and quality time with other women.
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on December 27, 2017 at 8:51 pm
To start off, I heard about your goal setting challenge from Leah Boden on her Instagram account. She is a charlotte mason homeschool mama who is infused with light and life so since she highly loves you I thought I’d pop over and take a look. At first glance I thought….no! This is not for me. Too much structure. Too many expectations. Too much opportunity for more failure. I listened to your podcast one day, told myself I could not possibly do this. But then I thought back on all the things I wished I would have done years ago and figured if I keep going this way I’ll not ever change. So I’m taking the leap of faith! PLUS, your personality is so upbeat and bubbly it makes me feel happy just listening to you!
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
We live in Anchorage, Alaska. We have homeschooled our three children ages 14, 11, and 7 for eight years now.
Well all life topics are at a 5 right except for growing spiritually which I’d give myself a 6. My health is needing focus in terms of nourishment and adequate rest. Relationships with friends and family need help because I am like a turtle and retreat into hiding way too much. I can feel so frustrated with myself that I become frustrated with everyone else. Homeschooling adds a layer of complexity. Finances are in huge need of reset because I search and buy and search and buy but then I cry that I’ve spent too much time and money on searching where there are no real answers. Work (homeschooling) and recreation are both sabotaged by distraction. And my environment shows that I search and buy too much.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I’ve been chasing a magic bullet. I’ve been chasing feeling approved, a part of something, being acceptable. I feel empty and numb.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
This year we purchased a motorhome and traveled the state with our son who golfs in tournaments. That was so fun. We finished a kitchen remodel that should have been done before we moved into this house 16 years ago but it’s so beautiful now! I’ve decluttered in here and its a treat cooking in here. Journaling is something I really enjoy doing as well as dabbling in art and creative outlets and I’ve taken time in the mornings to do this. I had bunion surgery which was quite overdue. So worth it. It is lovely not to have a pain in the foot anymore. We also went on a golf trip to Seattle this summer and watched our son play in a tournament there. Super fun. Plus we were able to visit friends we had not seen in over 16 years.
I’ve learned that when I finally get around to things it’s really better late than never – but really it isn’t too late. I can make things seem way over complicated by thinking too much instead of acting with faith. And instead of looking around for validation I can feel fully equipped to be who I’m meant to be in every situation.
Thank you Lara for this space and your encouragement. -
on December 27, 2017 at 10:09 pm
I am so excited for 2018. I sat in a coffee shop and listened to the 4 audios (recorded so far) while I made a big old mess in my Power Sheets, This is my 3rd year using them and I feel like they get better each year as I “get” the process more each time I go through it.
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on December 27, 2017 at 10:10 pm
Step 1: I had some very clear highs and very clear lows which showed me that I prioritize Work, Finances and Friends / Family, but neglect Myself. My bottom were Recreation, Spiritual/Personal Growth, and Health (none above 5). I tend to put others first, which while not an issue, becomes a problem if I’m not ALSO taking care of myself.
Step 2:
I’ve been chasing importance and validation for most of my life. I want to matter, not in general, just to those around me. I want people to care about me as much as I care about them, which seems like an unfair expectation give that (as discovered above) I don’t seem to care for myself much.Step 3: It was hard to start the list, but some really great things happened this year. They mostly fall into the category of me finding and building community in a new city after about 8 months of being unhappy and wishing I wasn’t here. This happened through intentional progress and I feel great about it.
What that has taught me is that I’m so much stronger than I give myself credit for. I know that I struggle with confidence, but I think that what feels to me like humbly is actually low self-esteem, and that feels like something to set some goals around 🙂Thanks for this series Lara, I’m so excited!
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on December 27, 2017 at 11:03 pm
I don’t think my comment went through earlier so I’m trying again- although I accidentally deleted what I had written before…. Oops
ONE:
In 2018 I want to focus on four areas actually. I want to cultivate friendships. I moved to a new city by myself two years ago and I have made so many friends, but I need to tend those relationships. I also need to work on my spiritual growth. I want to spend more time with Jesus, and in the Word.
I need to find a hobby! As a music teacher, my hobby revolves around the instruments I play. I’d like to find something non-musical.
Finally, I need to be better at staying within my budget each month.TWO:
I have been chasing perfection and saying “yes”to everything in order to please everyone. It is a way of ensuring affirmation. It has left me tired and burnt out.THREE:
– I have build a good foundation of healthy eating and exercising
– Planning for success this school year has made my time at work more enjoyable and less stressful
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on December 28, 2017 at 12:22 am
Step one: How are you and rate your self?
I am proud of what I have accomplished in my life and this past year but I know that mentally I need some help. I am incredibly depressed and I need to find my grounding in the world. I need to know firmly what I believe in and what I want and need in life so that in the midst of chaos I am firm and calm.
Step 2: What are you chasing?
Perfect mommy status while being a stay at work from home mom.Step 3: What grew well? What good things happened and what went well?
Choosing my word “intentional” created a lot of growth in our family dynamics. I learned that slowing down is the only way that I can be a intentional mother and stopping my business was the best thing for my daughter. I grew in my relationship with the Lord and created a open dialogue with him to be led where he needs me. I accepted that my daughter needed help that was beyond me and I surrendered to accepting help and getting her the speech therapy that she needed. My husband grew his thinking in regards to his job and we decided to open a custom furniture business to help us get out of debt. -
on December 28, 2017 at 5:06 am
Thank you for all your hard work! This is such a useful way of taking stock and setting actionable goals. I wrote quite a bit in a notebook in response to the prompts you provided. Trying this out using the prompts has made me want to try using the PowerSheets. Here are my personal highlights:
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
I am surviving but I could be better! I gave myself mostly 5s and 6s because there is a lot to be grateful for in each area but there is room for improvement in all of them.. I most want to improve how I’m doing with work, finances and personal relationships, and my personal growth is tied in with that.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that , making you feel?
I’ve been chasing escape from all the overwhelm I feel, and instead it’s making me feel the overwhelm more acutely. Not an effective approach. This helps me see that my word for 2018 might want to be ENGAGE.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
Highlights of my list of good things include getting my national certification in my field after years of effort, commissioning a wonderful personalized autoharp and playing great music on it, making strides in my jazz singing, and helping care for my mother-in-law. I’ve also benefitted from asking for help and information and being alert to the good things that often come, and I’ve learned how vital that is. I’ve learned I can complete a long-term & difficult goal, and I can support others in difficult times. It is very rewarding to be of service. I am also reminded that music-making has given me a community of friends, deeply enriched my life and continually refreshes my soul..
I called and encouraged a couple of my relatives today!
Thanks again for the inspiration and encouragement!
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on December 28, 2017 at 11:00 am
Step 1-How am I? I’m so adrift right now, all of my ratings are poor. Positive notes: I’ve lost 20 lbs since the beginning of 2017. I have friends, but want to spend more time growing my relationships. My family still loves me, even though I’ve been dedicated to my work. God will make our finances ok. I still have a job and God will find me, and my husband and son, new jobs. I work hard, and now I need to work hard at finding balance. My husband loves to get out and explore, and I’m grateful because it gets ME out. I want to participate more!
Step 2 – I HAVE been chasing perfection, trying to keep up with what I think I have to be – relentless, dedicated worker; perfect friend; consummate professional; outsanding organizer… and all I feel is pressure and frustration and incompleteness, and overwhelmed. I feel I’ll never get everything done – my home office, craft room, and all of ‘my’ areas will always be a wreck – I won’t have time for family and friends, let alone myself. I am disheartened and sad. And I’m angry, and I’m tired, and I want things to CHANGE.
Step 3 – 2017 has been a whirlwind! My husband retired from the Air Force after 32 years, and so many family and friends came to help us celebrate!! We decided to move without job or home in place – a true leap of faith. We drove from East Coast (MD) to mountains (CO)! We BOUGHT a new home! I still have a job, now done remotely, and became an unlikely Project Manager! My husband and boys did most of the moving in while I was working full time and also spent a month in TX! We’ve celebrated Christmas in our new home and actually sent Christmas cards for the first time in many years!!
I am so ready to make purposeful change in 2018, and I look forward to participating in the rest of the course!
Thank you, Lara, for taking the time to do this… you are helping so many (and me) find release from the bog of pressure and frustration!!
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on December 28, 2017 at 11:27 am
Well I’m here. I hate goal-setting, but I want to do better and be motivated…
How am I? I’m stressed out, worn down, and stuck in a rut. All of the numbers I gave myself are under 5, even if there are areas where I can see some positive things happening. But like you say, it is growing ground, and I’m going to cultivate it.
I’ve been chasing success and happiness and not really finding anything. I wonder if I am running headfirst into goals that are not really what God is planning for me, but then I have no idea what else to be doing.
A few good things that did happen this year- we bought a house and moved out. It’s a beautiful little home, and we were giddy about it when we first moved. Our business also LOOKS better, but it’s still attracting no one…
And lastly.. I’m not sure that I learned much this year- I’ve had the realization lately that I have been quite selfish. I’m learning to LISTEN though, however slow that might be.
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on December 28, 2017 at 12:54 pm
I made it through Part 2!! Hooray!!!
Step 4 – What’s the one thing you most want to cultivate in 2018? I need to get a handle on my health!!! I need to remember to take care of me, because no one else can. I need good sleep and exercise!!!
Step 5. What challenges did you experience in 2017? 1) being impatient and even jealous of things my family was doing, because I felt “stuck” at work – setting up the house after our move, learning my way around our new community – and even feeling guilty on top of it. 2) Allowing work to rul emy time, almost to the exclusion of everything else. 3) Not taking care of myself. 4) Feeling like everything and everyone deserves/demands all of my time.
What lessons did you learn? 1) It takes time to set things up and amke a house our home, to learn my way around, and that’s ok. I still have plenty of opportunities to make my mark on this house, to feel it is MY home, too. 2) I need balance!!! 3) If I’m not healthy, I can’t help others. 4) There has to be a way to balance!!!Part 6. Who helped you cultivate what matters in 2017? My loving husband. He kept things moving at home while I was mired in the bog of work. He lifted me out of my office mess and took me on adventures in our new home state. He feeds us, and feeds us well. My friends, who shared their homes and hospitality during our move, the friends who stay in touch, who have known me for years and ‘get’ me. God. For my faith, though tenuous at times, that reminds me God’s got this – every facet of my life, and that I can, should , and must depend on Him for everything good in my life. It’s up to me to cultivate that faith… it takes my work AND God’s help to make it grow! Heidi, Tom, Connie, Lisa, Velma, Lana, Billy, Candy, Cassie, Mom and Dad, Cheryll, my sons… so many people!
4. And our optional bonus step: get visual and make your 2018 vision board! I’ll be starting my board tonight, and will post a link when I have it finished!!!
Thank you again, Lara!!! I look forward to Part 3!!
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on December 28, 2017 at 2:06 pm
This year I’ve been chasing personal development at the expense of my friendships, my health, and my finances. I’ve grown a LOT, but I need to reassess my priorities because in reflection I feel like I’ve been trying to prove myself…
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on December 28, 2017 at 2:08 pm
Step 1: How am I? I averaged around a 6.5, with highs in spirituality/faith (a goal of mine from last year!) and my work life. This step helped me realize that I need more balance–working at work time, playing at play time, resting at rest time…when I focus too much on any one part of my life, my whole life gets twisted up! This was eye opening this year!
Step 2: What have I been chasing lately? How is that making me feel? I *haven’t* been chasing anything lately, instead, I’ve lived in fear and apathy which has caused my productivity to halt, and I feel anxious and nervous about it.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned. Some good things: taking a sabbath, co-working instead of doing all my work at home alone in an office, gratitude journaling, no tech in bed!!, daily AM prayer, using instacart for groceries. Some lessons: ask for help EARLY, planning means nothing without action, my work matters, we are all made to be (and we work better when we’re) in community with one another.
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on December 28, 2017 at 2:35 pm
I just discovered this blog and the products. I am beyond excited to start on a journey of doing more introspection, doing more purposeful goal setting and growing!
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on December 28, 2017 at 3:00 pm
1. I feel like I’m doing pretty good in most areas. The one area I want to improve the most is health. I want to radically change my eating habits so I crave more of what’s good for me.
2. I have been chasing perfection, and what an exhausting race that has been. It has left me feeling tired, burned out, shame, bitterness, and disappointed. Yuck! Ready to give all that up!
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-Work that matters
– Work that is challenging
– Fun new friendships
– Traveled to some great placesLessons learned – When I’m not distracted by comparison and perfection, I can hone in on my sweet spot and enjoy the journey.
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on December 28, 2017 at 3:13 pm
Love following along and hearing your thought process and your encouragement!
Step 1. How am I? I have ALWAYS had a hard time with rating myself but I know it can be helpful to get a baseline. I’m currently having a hard time with my health – just haven’t paid much attention to it this last year and I want that to change! Health, Spouse and Faith are the 3 areas I am putting the most focus in 2018
Step 2: What Have I been chasing lately: Trying to do everything “okay” instead of the few important things really well! Feel like life has been buzzing lately and I can’t keep up! Im worn down most of the time and that’s not who I want to be for me or my family!
Step 3: Write your list of good things and lessons you learned; Good things: more slow weekends – didn’t pack it all end. Spent time (and money) on therapy to help work through my PPD – this was so necessary to take care of me! Built a community on our block. Spontaneous Trips to see family. Applied for jobs instead of feeling stuck. Lots of laughing with Jon and Claire. Let people help me. Honest conversations.
LESSONS learned: honesty and transparency are so refreshing, I can’t do it all. In my weakness I am strong! I need to tend to my marriage – it won’t just strengthen on its own. My emotions can’t be my anchor. I need slow weekends – not packing the schedule! I need community. -
on December 28, 2017 at 3:21 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve? My average score was 5 and I most want to improve my faith walk and fitness.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel? Perfection, makes me feel like a failure.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned. Read thru the Bible which taught me I have so much more to learn about my faith. Spontaneous trips with my daughter taught me to embrace the moment.
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on December 28, 2017 at 3:29 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
-Surviving in some areas and thriving in others. Some of the areas I’m surviving in I’ve decided to let go and heal those areas. The areas I most want to improve are mostly my strengths. Its difficult to grieve relationships and lost dreams but I need to go through this ‘dirt’ next year.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
-Chasing God. There have been strange things to test me in this area but I’m persisting. It’s been fruitful living for Jesus.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
– Good: Sanctification through marriage. Transparency. Mental Health help for myself after experiencing verbal abuse. Our first home. Love of people who DO show up.
-Lessons: Suicide is so complicated but worth telling people how to get help. You may lose relationships by speaking truth. People have to help themselves. Dont keep CHASING family for a relationship if they dont want to make effort toward one – and its ok thats their choice. Step up and out of your comfort zones. -
on December 28, 2017 at 3:33 pm
I looked at your PowerSheets for a month (months?) before finally taking the dive yesterday. I am 62 (!), and not liking how my home has gotten overrun with my ex-husband’s stuff, my parents’ stuff (now that they’re in heaven), and my children’s stuff. This past year, God gave me this revelation: There is a FINITE amount of stuff in this house. I CAN get rid of what’s bringing me down. Then I will be free to showcase the items that bless me in healthy ways. Thank you, Lara, and God bless you!
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on December 28, 2017 at 3:41 pm
1. How am I? Well, tired. We have a teenager, a preteen, a threenager, and a 1-year-old, so I stay pretty busy. Overwhelmed might be a better descriptor. My husband and I haven’t had a date since before the three year old was born, so we could really use some work there. Or finances really have been good, but I often feel like I spend to much at Christmas. We see my laws at least weekly at church, but I need to put forth more effort in seeing my parents. Friendships have fallen by the wayside….we all have kids and schedules, and we’re scattered now after moves/relocations. My time with God spent praying and reading His Word has suffered this year, and I want to make it a priority again. I think if I nurtured my relationship with Jesus more, all the other areas would improve as well.
2. I do feel like I’ve been chasing perfection. Maybe it’s because Christmas was only a few days ago, but I feel I’ve focused too much on “stuff”…..finding the perfect gifts for all my loved ones, spending time scouring the internet for the best prices on the best gifts, and comparing what we have with what’s “trending.” Wishing my home decor looked like some of the instagram feeds I follow or was cleaner/more organized, and that my kids had all wooden-organic-locally sourced toys. Feeling like a failure for not having all the perfect things is exhausting and depressing.
3. God blessed us this year. We have been able to leave our savings untouched even when I quit work in February 2016 to become a SAHM. the oldest two kids have made excellent grades and are so so smart. I have been truly blessed to watch my 3 year old change from a baby to a toddler, and he’s just as smart and gifted as his older siblings. My youngest, my little caboose, blesses me every day with her sweet self! I am soaking up these last “baby” moments before she lets go of my hands and takes off without me as a full-fledged toddler. I have learned that I need to take care of me this year, not with stuff but with time. An unrushed shower. Taking the time to paint my nails. A few quiet minutes to read a book that’s not a storybook (gosh, it’s been so long, and I adore reading!). And I guess from this I learn I need to ask for more help to do these things so I can take care of myself instead of feeling tired and stressed and undervalued a lot of the time.
Since becoming a stay at home mom, I feel like our days are so unstructured, and I’d like to change that and give us something to work toward little by little each day. There are so many things I need to work on, and regular planners/agendas haven’t been helpful. So I would love to give your method a go, Lara, and see what I could accomplish with your help!
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on December 28, 2017 at 3:45 pm
I’m so excited to get started and make progress on 2018 goals.
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on December 28, 2017 at 4:20 pm
I am so excited to begin planing for 2018! Thank you for all of the motivation!
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on December 28, 2017 at 4:34 pm
I was really down on my 2017 (for silly reasons, it was actually a wonderful year after I practiced your reflections). But I have room to grow a lot in 2018 which is equally wonderful. I just had to share my three lessons this year because I was pretty excited about them after I realized how easy they were to spot. I don’t want to have to learn these again next year:
– Give to God and he REALLY will give you increase. We were dramatically blessed financially.
– You’re not going to pay off your credit cards unless you REALLY PRIORITIZE it.
– It is okay to be uncomfortable. Instead, just pray for God’s purpose to be fulfilled through me whenever I’m on my way to whatever uncomfortable experience — be it a challenging day at work, or a function where I’m unsure of myself. When I focus on fulfilling God’s purpose it takes away anxiety for me to do everything perfectly. And also it opens me up to whatever God is intending through my situation. Be consciously uncomfortable – not just anxiously!
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on December 28, 2017 at 4:45 pm
Looking forward to receiving my Power Sheets and making 2018 an amazing year
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on December 28, 2017 at 5:59 pm
These steps are hard, but fruitful & I believe will be a great help to me as I try to regain some momentum, after a difficult year! And what a generous prize offering!! Step 1 – I ranged from 2 – 7, and it has helped put some things in perspective for me! Step 2 – I haven’t really been chasing, I have been escaping. I have been in retreat & recuperate mode. Which, as I have discovered is OK, for a time! The victim in the Biblical account of the Good Samaritan, needed to rest in order to recuperate and heal. I think I kind of got stuck in the recuperate mode, however, and now it is time to begin to re-use my gifts, talents, health,. all that He has given, in Him, & for Him our Creator God ! Step 3: I have been recounting all the ways I have seen God at work in our situation & how HE has gone before us. HE is always so faithful to us!!! Blessed be His holy name!
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on December 28, 2017 at 6:36 pm
I don’t even know how I found Lara, I was on the launch team for the Cultivate book — somehow. However, I ordered the six month sheets and spent July-December 2017 with them. There were some places I fumbled through, but I didn’t fail. They led me and helped me make progress in several areas. Thanks, Lara and the whole team.
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on December 28, 2017 at 6:37 pm
1. I’m feeling renewed and rested for the first time in a long time (hello newborn life!). I did the life evaluation in my power sheets and the areas that are lowest are spiritual/personal growth, spouse, family, and recreation. I’m including recreation in my goals for spouse and family since we all need more FUN!
2. I don’t think I’ve been chasing anything lately! My word for last year was “content” and my goals all centered around being content in various areas of my life during this season. 2016 was a year of lots of change for us , and I was really missing my life pre-baby/cross country move/becoming a SAHM/having a husband in grad school/etc. I’m happy to report I found that peace and contentment I was searching for in 2017!
3. Good things: authentic friendships, play dates that are really mom dates, 1:1 time with each person in my family, welcoming our second child, setting meaningful goals, documenting special moments (and reviewing them 🙂 ), gospel study, serving my husband in small but significant ways, times I spend money with purpose, listening to my boundaries.
Lessons I learned: small things matter most, time = love, I’m at best and have more (strength, patience, love, hope, peace, desire, fun, fulfillment) when I am close to God, if I water/nourish it = it will grow, my family is my world, we all need a mom tribe, letting go allows great things to happen. -
on December 28, 2017 at 6:38 pm
This is my first year with Powersheets and this first part of the process has been kind of tough for me. It forced me to really take a look at my life, the way it really is and not just how I want it to look to others. That was a little scary! :-/
I definitely live in a world where I’m chasing perfection (a big reason for this process being hard). I’m so ready to be done with the exhaustion and the constant feeling of failure. I want to LIVE my life rather than unsuccessfully chase what others think my life should be.
I’m very excited to set real goals this year and celebrate progress (not perfection)! I’m confident that my goals won’t be forgotten by February this coming year.
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on December 28, 2017 at 7:09 pm
I chuckled when you mentioned searching for the perfect pen to begin writing down my goals. Oh man. That is so me right now. I lost myself this year. The last 18 months have been hard. Death, illness, unexpected challenges, work stress, faith struggles. Most of the time I feel like I am barely keeping my head above water. Exhaustion crept in and with that a shocking level of apathy. I’ve struggled to let go of my fear of failure and to relinquish control. I have had a hard time being patient and want to fix all of the problems right now so that they stop palguqing my mind and preventing me from sleeping. For the first time in my life, I’ve been battling depression and anxiety. I fail to remember my blessings every day, instead getting caught up in what still needs to be done and what I have hanging over my head or tugging on my heart. I miss my children. I miss our connection. I am grateful for this goal writing course – hoping to find “me” again.
1. I feel average in every area of my life. The first area I need to improve is my health – specifically, my mental health. I want to work on fortifying my relationships with my husband and our children. I want to build my own life-giving home (love Sally!).
2. I chase control and crippling perfectionism. If I can’t execute something perfectly, right now, I’d rather not even begin. I’m afraid of failure. This attitude is a prison. A prison for my mind and my spirit that suffocates and refuses to allow growth or connection.
3. I am grateful for my husband – for his patience and for our weekly dates. I am grateful for our strengthened bonds, even in the face of inner self-struggle. I am grateful for my children – they are growing and learning. They are developing new passions and interests. I am grateful that so many of those were facilitated this year. I am grateful for our home. I am grateful for our business and the financial goals we made, and exceeded, this year. I am grateful for my faith. My personal faith crisis has caused me to reflect and reevaluate what I believe and why. I am grateful for the bits that have been forged and hoping to continue making progress in healing my heart and spirit.
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on December 28, 2017 at 7:27 pm
Thank you for always doing this series!! This is the first year i have actually taking the time out to followe along. In 2018 I want to be intentional with things I do. and have a blessed year!! H
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on December 28, 2017 at 7:28 pm
Something precious and powerful I learned this year is by faith, just show up: He’ll do the rest. It’s how I experienced miraculous victory over anxiety when it came to flying, it’s how the Lord enabled me to lead worship when fear wanted to bury me, and it’s how I was able to minister the living words of Jesus while in Africa for the first time in front of a group of people though I had not done that before…He’s there, eagerly and excitedly waiting for us to just step out through the power of faith by love.
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on December 28, 2017 at 7:30 pm
This is my first year using the powersheets. As I reflect back on 2017 there has been so much that has happened.
* I’ve worked hard on my at home business along with working 40 hours plus a week
* I’ve enjoyed many first times with our then one to one and a half year old daughter.
* we started on a new house in August which is still not finished. We hope to be in it late January though.
* I was able to hold weekly meetings for others to learn about holistic health.
* I was able to go on several Retreat where I was able to reflect on my business, my home life, and relationships.
All in all 2017 has been a wonderful year. I can’t wait to see what we will accomplish in 2018 now that we have something to help keep us on track.
Looking back I see that I need to be more present at home and let work stay at work. So this will be one of my goals for 2018 to be more present at home. Weather this is getting in the floor and coloring with my daughter, or teaching my daughter, or even sitting with her on the couch watching a movie. -
on December 28, 2017 at 8:10 pm
I am so excited about 2018 after having a very challenging 2017. I have new goals in new areas and in places that have been important to me for a long time.
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on December 28, 2017 at 10:21 pm
I am so excited to start my powersheets for the second year in a row. I found that I really enjoyed the powersheets in 2017 but in the fall started an internship and lost focus. I have missed using the powersheets and am just starting the prep now. Thank you for your encouragement of progress over perfection.
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on December 28, 2017 at 10:23 pm
Also looking to encourage my friends in praying for them more!
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on December 28, 2017 at 10:49 pm
Okay here goes the hard stuff. When I filled out my prep work, I was in a relationship. Today, I’m not. And obviously, my answers and even some of my goals had to change a little. So #1. I’m heartbroken and feel so empty. I am doing so well with my family and friends, but feel like my finances, my health, and my lack of love are keeping me from living a life I am proud of. And that leads me to the fact that I’ve been chasing love and approval and all I feel is like I’m not enough. But 2017 wasn’t a total loss, even on the days that it feels like it was. I took a lot of risks last year, some that paid off. I learned to give myself grace, something that never existed before now. And I accomplished a large goal of becoming a head cheerleading coach for the team I started with. And all of that taught me big lessons. 1. I HAVE to take risks, as scary as they are. 2. Spending time being still is not a bag thing by any means. And finally, 3. my goals don’t have to change anything but me. So, here’s to establishing myself before trying to establish a relationship.
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on December 29, 2017 at 12:26 am
1. Most of mine range from 4-7. From lack of motivation to big season changes with the loss of my grandmother and father 6 weeks apart. Kids growing up and moving out and friends seasons changing. Huge shift for me. But any progress is better than none at all.
2. What have I been chasing? Purpose? The next thing/season? Future over present ?
3. Looking back: I took time for myself with a few trips. All focusing on me just being quiet and listening.
Lesson learned: I cannot be all things to all people. Any progress is progress.I’ve never really set goals knowing by March I would have failed miserably so why bother. Looking forward to watching progress happen, no matter how small. Even in the midst of imperfect progress.
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on December 29, 2017 at 12:31 am
1. Most range from 4-7. From lack of motivation to loss, seasons changing.
2. What have I been chasing? Purpose? The next big thing/season? Future over present?
3. Looking back to 2017
– took some time for me. Some trips where I could be still and quiet. Some trips that would push and encourage me in the areas where I’m active. From work to women’s ministry at my church.Lessons learned: I can not be all things to all people. And there are seasons of life we cannot avoid. HE is the ONLY one who is with me throughout every season, making all things perfect in its time.
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on December 29, 2017 at 12:39 am
I just spend about an hour journalling through this in depth but I will summarize…
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
Health: 6-7; Friends: 4; Family: 4; Finances: 2. Work: 6-7 but discontentment sometimes creeps in making it more of a 2; Spiritual Growth: an unacceptable 5; School: 7-8; Personal Growth (character, not skills): 3; and Recreation (play and rest): 6.2. This one is hard to articulate…I am single and desire to be married with kids but more than than being bitter or discontent, I am just distracted by the dream of it and furthermore, I am spending my time trying to accumulate all the good wife and motherly skills in the meantime. Im chasing the role as a perfect housewife. Although this may not be a complete waste of my time, it has become an idol for me and a definite distraction in my relationship with Christ. Dreaming of someday is distracting and detracting from the fullness of a relationship with Jesus.
3. My health is such a blessing in comparison to where I was last year at this time. There are still struggles and weak points but overall huge improvements.
God provides for financial circumstances, always. And sometimes He opens a door and you have to roll up your sleeves and do hard things to meet the financial needs. This has been hard to learn. It has forced me to step outside my comfort zone and will continue to push me to grow throughout this next year.
Being known and understood is a powerful thing. Recognizing that has been very enlightening both in my relationships with family and friends but also in my relationship with Christ.
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on December 29, 2017 at 12:44 am
Encouragement is actually something that I want to cultivate in my life. Starting with a simple note to my sister and roommate left on the bathroom mirror.
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on December 29, 2017 at 1:38 am
This will be my first year using the the power sheets (I’ll be using the six month version). I seriously can’t wait!
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on December 29, 2017 at 1:57 am
The identity boxes are perfection! I had someone tell me this summer that I needed to put some things mentally into boxes, put the kids on and let them sail across the ocean but never thought of doing that with the things about ME that need to be changed!
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on December 29, 2017 at 3:00 am
It’s been a stellar year in some categories, at the expense of others. Relationships and community have been amazing, both personally and in making huge progress in my side hustle, where i launched new workshops and broke through some paradigms that were holding me back from ‘selling” and serving my clients well. Really grateful for a convergence in using my gifts well and growing in my sense of call. But all that hustle and putting relationships first came at the expense of my own health and my own habits of deep feeding of my soul and connecting with God. This year I want to correct that balance so that relationships + external fruit through work will come from a deeper rooted foundation. More unfolding and bearing of fruit instead of driven making things happen.
I’ve been chasing significance/approval and comfort/security. Last year i could celebrate my uniqueness in embracing how I was different than others, but this year I got side tracked with comparison and condemning myself for not having achieved more instead of being grateful for the amazing growth given my circumstances.
Continuing to learn just how much I need struggle/challenge/structure/deadlines/accountability to truly grow. And that how much i have community impacts how much i can grow and bear fruit. And that i need much more margin after a peak season of hustling to recover, especially as I get older. NExt year I want to be more ok with listening to God’s priorities for me at any given time, and letting things unfold in his timing, and holding my goals loosely to his greater plan, and being open to him more.
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on December 29, 2017 at 3:41 am
Thank you, Lara. I’m so grateful to God for you and the team as well. This will be my first year doing PowerSheets, but even now between the prep work and reading through Make It Happen I am gaining so much more clarity and I feel purpose and more powerful (in contrast to the helplessness I have constantly felt for so long). So thank you over and again, Lara. As for the questions: 1. I’m struggling and this coming year I’ll be focusing on my health, work, and spiritual + personal growth. 2. Being enough, being all. I feel inadequate, I’m constantly exhausted and depressed except when I’m pretending or compensating. 3. Some good things were spending more time with Jesus, saying ‘no’, and waking early. I learned I need to truly know Jesus (not just have a lot of knowledge about him), to shut up more (I don’t know everything about anything, and that’s ok), and I have never regretted giving anything to God.
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on December 29, 2017 at 8:21 am
This is my first year with PowerSheets and I already know 2018 and myself are going to be better for it. I originally wrote out 10 goals but after reading this I think I am going to cut back to 5 or less. I want to focus on the ones that will make the most impact to myself and my family!
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on December 29, 2017 at 8:36 am
Thank you Lara for this …my words for 2018 or the new season coming are as follows:
1.Joy
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on December 29, 2017 at 8:53 am
Loved reading this start to your posts…a few days late and so grateful I saved them. 🙂 My ONE WORD for 2018 kept popping out on paper as I wrote goals, the good with the “bad” and I became more excited for the new year. I shared the message with friends by sending handwritten notes to each of my 5 best friends to tell them how they are appreciated and bless my life. Thanks for being real. Can’t wait to blog about the experience.
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on December 29, 2017 at 10:04 am
My husband gifted me with Power Sheets for Christmas and I have LOVED digging in. I have made my way through the first few pages and have realized that in the past I set goals, don’t reach them, then feel like a failure and give up. I’m SO EXCITED to celebrate small progress, change my wording, and set my mind on small things that really matter.
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on December 29, 2017 at 10:30 am
I am turing 40 this year and for the past few months I have thought about how to embrace 2018 – so EMBRACE is my word for the year.
Step1: How am I? Well, I quickly responded to the categories you listed and I averaged a 5 overall. Areas of health, recreation and finances were lower and Friends, family and spiritual growth ranked higher (as evidenced as I moved to step 3). Work was right at a 6 – my husband and I are transitioning into ownership of our family business, so this coming year will be a doozy in that area!
Step 2 – When I first read this, I thought “Nothing. I have developed a good balance over the past 39 years.” But I forced myself to “embrace” the true fear of digging deeper and I realized that I am chasing a “Do it all” mentality. There are several things in life I enjoy doing – teaching, crafting, cooking, camping, hosting, leading, etc. I have realized a need to embrace a few life giving activities and let the rest go.
Step 3: The Good of 2017 – it was a year of rest and flexibility for our family, a year of spiritual growth as we became members of a new church, I gained a lot of vision – with the leadership of my husband as to where our family is headed with our home and finances, I developed some strong friendships and I was able to open up and talk with my husband about some hard things. Through all of the good (and some of the bad) I have learned that God is so faithful and has my best interested as His focus. I learned that its ok to put my family above other people, I learned that my husband needs our family to have more “Fun” scheduled in to our calendar and I learned that digging into Gods Word is the most refreshing thing I can do for myself.
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on December 29, 2017 at 10:44 am
I’m incredibly excited about this series. My life is in desperate need of a fresh start. I’m still young, only 27, but I feel so weighed down by the world’s demands! I want to nip this NOW rather than later when the kids come 🙂
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
*This is how I rated myself on each of the boxes in the Cultivated LIfe Evaluation: (I’m letting the dirt be dirt and looking forward!)
-Health- 2* Friends- 6 Spouse- 8 Family- 5 Finances- 3* Spiritual and personal growth- 4* Work- 5* Recreation- 2 (The stars refer to the areas I want to cultivate in this season)2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
*I’ve been chasing perfection, comparision, expectations, complacency, etc. These make me feel TERRIBLE and overwhelmed, inadequate and frustrated. NO MORE!3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
Good things/What worked: planning, increased communication with my husband, not pursuing relationships that frustrate me, investing in my education, resting a litle more, reading the Word, praying, speaking up for myself, starting my blog, cultivating gratitude, managing money a little better. -
on December 29, 2017 at 12:00 pm
Step 1. Health – 5 Physical health needs some love and attention. Better intake for a better output of energy in order to give my whole self to the things that matter the most and to be around longer for my family.
– Friends – 10 The friends in my life are amazing, and I do my best to keep in touch with those that I truly consider family (friends that are family)
– Family (including your significant other, if applicable) – 4 Love my family dearly, but I need to put more effort, determination, and work into my family life as I do my career. A family is something that I have always dreamed of having, and I need to prune, water, and weed this area thoroughly in order to cultivate the blessing I have received.
– Finances – 7 We did a great job with monthly meetings, and we need to continue to communicate effectively in order to reach our family goals.
– Spiritual + Personal Growth – 3 This area needs to grow slowly and authentically. I want to grow a personal connection with my faith that makes it unwavering especially in times of uncertainty and in the valleys of life that I encounter.
– Work – 8 I have learned to count my blessings as I have an amazing work family, and I love my current position. I aspire to receive a promotion, but I need to grow my knowledge in my current position as there is always something new to learn.
– Recreation – 2 – I literally had to look up the definition of recreation because it has been so foreign to me for so long. “An activity done for enjoyment when one is not working.” I am always working wearing multiple hats and trying to please everyone. This is something that I am slowly relearning and RECLAIMING! I am excited to continue to learn what makes Vanessa happy. Journaling, planning, goal setting, and reaching my accomplishments have been fueling my fire, but I’m sure there are more things I will learn about in 2018.
Step 2. I have been chasing money and status and power! I think these things will make me successful in the eyes of those around me. I think these things will make others proud of me and won’t feel like their time invested in me has been wasted. I think these things will make me happy but they really won’t.
Step 3. o. Good things & what I learned
a. Planning family vacations was amazing. I learned that my family values these times that we go on adventures together. We continue to grow closer with each new adventure. Planning for the vacation is great, but don’t plan down to the second; leave some time for spontaneity or relaxation. Sometimes it is worth it to pay for convenience.
b. Finding Cultivate what matters. My balance is not the same as anyone else’s. The things that I deem important are what I need to cultivate. It is perfectly ok to be imperfect and to grow slowly and intentionally. I can give myself lots of grace and love. -
on December 29, 2017 at 1:06 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
Health -6 I am pleased with how I eat, but I NEED TO MOVE MORE!
Friends – 8 This is a blessing of 2017. God has brought such community. I am thankful.
Spouse – 9. We have had a HARD year in 2017. But, this has drawn us closer than I could have imagined.
Family – 7 – I recently quit my job to stay home with my girls. Such a transition. I am thankful to be home with them, but this will be a huge focus of 2018.
Finances – 6 – We are stewarding well, but theres just not a lot of extras.
Spiritual – 8. I am growing!
Work – 6 – My work is my family right now!
Recreation – 3. We need more fun!2. What have you been chasing lately? Perfection! I give up when I dont do things perfectly or meet my. I am re-assessing my goals, making them more attainable, and just seeing small progress!
3. Good things/Lessons learned. I loved having a focus word last year. 2017 was a HARD year, but I am learning that things do not matter. That Jesus sustains me regardless of my circumstances. A daughter joined our family, I came home, and have begun cultivating contentment.
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on December 29, 2017 at 1:49 pm
Lara- at some point I subscribed to your emails. With three small children and little margin, I rarely get to check my non-essential emails. I’m in a car ride from NJ to GA and had some time. Among the hundreds of emails I decided to open yours. This is my first exposure to you, your power sheets, your light-giving gift, you have now exposed me to Sally clarkson and her book about a life giving home…interestingly enough (but not coincidentally) I said earlier, hours before reading a sample from her book once you shared that with your readers, an exact statement she made in her book! Our thoughts were exactly the same on something and tah-dah! Here I am reading it from an established author. Thank you! I’m now deep in to writing down steps 1-3 on scratch paper on this car trip and can’t wait to dig deeper once Home and include my mom and my husband. I will in some ways also include my 8 year old daughter (how would she rank those parts of her life?)…So I’m excited and interested in sharing with you and your readers here my thoughts to the answers to steps 1-3. How am I doing? Well the one that stands out to me the most is FAMILY. My joy has been robbed this year with my husband and I trying to be the best parents we can be to a child we rarely can understand. We have sought Christian counseling on temperaments, prayed, had others pray, cried, screamed, you name it – we are mentally and physically exhausted with these efforts to try to Love this child who seems so difficult to us. She has made me mad at my other kids, my husband, my friends…our family purpose statement at the beginning of 2017 included something we whole-heartedly believe which is to be students of our children so we can parent them the way they need to be parented.this can be soooo hard. So my family category includes a low score with my children, a mediocre score with my husband (despite major intentional efforts made this year to have regular date nights), and mediocre with our other family members who don’t seem to understand how heavy and hard our lives are right now.
That being said, I’m pleased and delighted in other areas and that’s a win! And it’s just simply a win to have taken the time to write it all down and reflect! Thank you, Lara, for that!
What am I chasing? Not perfection- that ship sailed a long time ago and I have not looked back- best decision I ever made! I am chasing joy- we are just surviving right now and my joy is buried under a hardened heart. I pray for wisdom in this area- how can I better parent these kids who to us feel so unbelievably out of control. I feel like we do many of the right things – things we feel really great about…but our kids just drag us down. My prayer is to ask God to soften my heart towards these mundane ordinary blah things and all the disciplining we have to do and lighten up so I can find joy in these ordinary moments…joy in the oh so often moments of doing so so so much work and getting no credit from my family members (other than my husband). Why is this so hard?
Lessons I have learned…an interesting one that God put on our hearts is how my husband made an intentional choice to “cheat” work and be more available for me and the kids this year. He has a sales job (and I stay home) so our income is directly reflected in his sales. This year, with hands up because we just couldn’t figure out how to manage the kids and him being gone traveling for work, he decided to not travel and do the bare minimum at his job. Would you believe God blesses us immensely this year financially (that’s not to say we don’t have debt and still need lots of growth in this area) and even now my husband Ian up for a promotion! This is the most he has ever made in his 43 years of life and it may be the least he has ever worked! We believe God blessed us for my husbands choice to choose family over work because had he not I would have gone insane! I also learned and am so incredibly grateful for my quiet time with the Lord this year resulting in some interesting, fascinating prophetic events. A spiritual gifts test this year revealed intercession and prophecy were my spiritual gifts so I am eager to include more definitive quiet time with the Lord so I can hopefully hear more words to share with others. My “word” for 2017 (written largely on our chalkboard wall in Jan 2017) was ‘encourage’. God blessed me with this word this year and I’m learning it may be a gift he is revealing to me slowly- when I am able to be obedient, quiet and open-hearted.
Additionally, I have learned how important it is for our family to spend quality time together. Whether on vacation, in our yard, at a park, or in our house. I feel like we already have a pretty great head start on a life giving home but I realized this year with a few of the good things I identified just how important that is to me, our kids and my husband. Thank you, Lara for this amazing opportunity to explore these thoughts, feelings and emotions that otherwise may have been passed over! Bravo!-
on December 29, 2017 at 2:26 pm
This all makes me SO grateful, Kelly! I’m so grateful the Lord has connected us here and I’m excited for your year ahead!
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on December 29, 2017 at 2:31 pm
1.1 the first thing that I want to call today in 2018 is Asian chef with my husband. I feel like here lately since we have been so busy trying to accomplish things and working on the house that we forgotten to just have fun with one another.
2. The challenges that I experience in 2017 was that we knew that we needed a bigger home but we also knew that it was not in our finances at the time so we waited for five years including 2017 of course, and finally it was God’s perfect timing for us to get a bigger newer house in August of 2017. I learned that God’s timing is always perfect.
3. The people that helps me cultivate 2017, God is my number one person that has helped me cultivate 2017 without him and the prayers of our church we wouldn’t be where we are today. Of course my husband with his loving support, my mom who helped pitch in from time to time to watch our daughter while I was at work, my in-laws are there ever ending generosity, and my work that helps me to be supported financially. -
on December 29, 2017 at 2:41 pm
Almost every category for me is falling between 3 and 6.
I’ve been chasing just getting through the day and on to the next (especially with the holidays). Feeling like I’m putting bandaids on everything around me and saying “I’ll do better in that tomorrow.”
Good things from 2017, I was able to stay home with my kids and truly have some adventures with them. When I stop and really look them in the eye my cup overflows!
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on December 29, 2017 at 3:16 pm
* I’m doing well and made some progress this year mostly with my health. I climbed some mountains, started some healthy habits and lost ten pounds.
* I most want to improve in regards to my Work which I put as a one on my evaluation. I’ve homeschooled my son since Kindergarten and now only have eighteen months left until I’m out of a job. Feeling restless and bored because he is doing a lot of the school work on his own. Wondering what is next for me besides keeping the house clean.
*I have been chasing worth. I feel like I have no worth sometimes.
*Lesson I have learned is that just because you are having difficulty in one area of life does not mean your whole life is worthless. There might be rocky soil in one part of your garden but flowers in another part. -
on December 29, 2017 at 3:24 pm
Commented on someone post to encourage them. 🙂
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on December 29, 2017 at 3:39 pm
I have been following along each post in this series and taking it all in – finally got a chance to sit down with my Powersheets yesterday and wow! I wrote and wrote and wrote for almost an hour and would have kept going but my kids woke up! 🙂 SO MUCH good stuff.
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
Health – 5, friends – 4, spouse – 7, family – 9/2, finances – 7, spiritual growth – 3, work – 5, recreation – 1/n/a
Most want to improve this year: friendships, spouse relationship, and spiritual growth. Those aren’t my three lowest scores, but my top 3 of big picture importance!
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I have spent a LOT of my life “chasing perfect”. I’ve been trying hard this year to “let good enough be GOOD enough!” So I think lately I’m chasing “better” not so much perfect, and it’s much more freeing!
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
Husband and I started 2017 having been on one date since our first son was born in March 2013. In 2017 we’ve gone on many! Our relationship is SO different now than it was a year ago in SUCH a good way!! We also started a marriage journal together where we sit down each Sunday night and go through 6 questions together. Life-changing! I got pregnant in early August, and all of those things (date nights, marriage journal, etc) went on the back burner because I was so sick and so tired for MONTHS. At the end of November we were in a really bad place again, so disconnected. BUT we acknowledged it and have been able to reconnect over the last month and it’s been amazing. Huge lesson here about how important our time together is for our connection! Especially as we prepare to add a newborn this coming year, we NEED to fiercely protect that time!!
We also came together to tackle some challenges with our oldest son. He’s got coke unique challenges facing him and we learned a lot about what works and what really doesn’t. Lots of good lessons here.
I changed some things about my daily routine – making sure I’m showered and dressed before my husband comes home from work, daily laundry so it never gets built up and overwhelming – and while I’m not perfect about them every single day, I’ve noticed the difference it makes!
We started homeschooling preschool and the structure and flow it has brought to our days is wonderful!
While on vacation in CO this spring, staying with our two kids in our friends’ two-bedroom, third floor condo… we HAD to get the kids outside every morning so as to not wake the entire building at 5am ;). This brought about huge change for us as we continued that routine once we were home – getting out for a 1-2 mile walk/bike ride every morning after breakfast all summer. I’ve noticed a HUGE negative change since we stopped when I got pregnant/sick and the weather got cold.
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on December 29, 2017 at 4:31 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
I’m so thankful for this section of the power sheets. It gives me pause to see ares of growth and where the Lord has done work — our marriage and recreation specifically. It also brings clarity on areas I want to focus in on this next year. The three ares of health, finances and spiritual + personal growth are the areas I would like to see improvement in 2018.2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I have been chasing my own idea of perfection. A picture I made up in my mind of what I should be doing, should be like, should look like, etc. I feel defeated, tired and confused on who I am anymore and who I was created to be.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
Good: my marriage; McCrae — my spirited, silly, smart and wonderful little 2-year-old daughter; getting pregnant with baby number 2; taking a break from at-home design work; growing a community in our small town; starting a women’s night at church
Lessons: when things aren’t going well, go outside; I enjoy little creative projects; it’s important to say ‘yes’ to moments and memories with my growing family; there is a place for me to serve in our church; I don’t know myself very wellThank you for this Lara! I’m a second year power sheets user and I so appreciate all you and your team do daily!
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on December 29, 2017 at 4:47 pm
Just discovered you/your books/this website, and it was just what I needed right now!
1. My average scores were between 5-7, with a 2 thrown in there in recreation – yikes! I just don’t make a lot of time for myself, to pursue my own”play” time. I separate this from taking time to play with my family…which I am getting better at. Overall, though, even though I didn’t score myself too high on anything, I know that I am doing better in these areas than if I’d done this last year.
2. What have I been chasing? Approval and to be liked. I am a people people pleasure through and through. And realized that I try to be whatever I think the person I am with wants me to be…which leads to wearing a lot of different masks. This is something that I really want to work on.
3. A lot of good things happened this year, and I really feel like I am finishing off a good year of personal growth. Biggest lessons learned: stepping back from some of my responsibilities didn’t make people think I was a slacker — in fact, I think I am more focused and do a better job with what’s on my plate than when I was spread too thin. Secondly, I am overweight, but I decided that I would let go of some of my hang-ups — for example, I had a blast at the water park with my family without being self conscious. Finally, I learned that it’s never too late to mend relationships or make new friends. I have worked to strengthen my relationship with my mom (which had hit a very low point a few years ago), and I’ve made some really great new friends this year.
Looking forward to working on the next part of the series this weekend!
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on December 29, 2017 at 4:54 pm
So excited about this series for setting goals for 2018. My word for 2018 is Committed. I will remain committed to everything I set out to accomplish in 2018 to include: GOD, ME, My Health, Family, Spiritual Family, Kingdom Growth, My Business – B.A.L.L.E.R Chics, and my Finances. You’re such a blessing. I appreciate you.
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on December 29, 2017 at 4:56 pm
So grateful for this series and how it is inspiring my 2018 planning. I knew I wanted to make some changes this year, but it was not clear how. These first few steps helped me to see that my health and work are two areas that need some work…inspiring.a new “why”especially since I’ve been chasing purpose, calling and smaller waistline…leaving me exhausted.
What I learned though this year is that my identity is in Christ alone…and he has already given me what I need to be on mission for Him.
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on December 29, 2017 at 5:00 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
Truthfully…frustrated. This has been a crazy year and instead of handling it well, I have just reacted to each situation. I feel like a hot mess right now. Parenting a teenager is hard. My finances are a mess (again…I seriously thought we were past this). Homeschooling hasn’t been the best this past year. Here are my ratings:
– Health: 6 I have gained weight through stress eating and am struggling with sleep.
– Friends: 8 I have a great network and am BEYOND grateful for my friends. This would be a 10 except that I need to do better about making more time to hang out with friends.
– Family: 8 My relationship with my husband has gotten so much better. Yea God! My kids are great. Need to spend more intentional time playing and hanging out.
– Finances: Ick. That’s all.
– Spiritual + Personal Growth: 10 Despite the chaos of the year, this has been a year of amazing growth for me. I HAD to depend on God this year to make it through when I wanted to give up. I have taken several courses that have taught me a lot. I am now helping edit papers from my husband’s master’s program and that has taught me so much to be able to help with his ministry. AND…just in typing this, I realize that maybe this year has had a completely different purpose than I thought.
– Work: 4 I KNOW what I am supposed to be doing. I need to be more intentional to make it happen.
– Recreation:10 🙂2. What have you been chasing lately? I haven’t been really chasing anything lately…except distraction. Getting lost in blogs and social media has been my escape to deal with the hard things.
How is that making you feel? Unproductive, disorganized, and frustrated at myself.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
~ My marriage is better than it has been in many, many years
~ My husband has finally figured God’s plan for his life and it is fun to watch that come together
~ I need to be more intentional about the things I allow in my life. I learned this the hard way by volunteering for something that consumed any extra time I had for months. My word for 2018 is INTENTIONAL. Everythings I do and say needs to be intentional.
~ I have learned to love Kentucky more than I ever expected when we moved here. Except for the cold. I will never love that. hehe
~ The church we joined has been a highlight in my life. The people are amazing and they are so supportive of our ministries. Grateful God sent us there.I think that is it! Excited about moving forward with this series.
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on December 30, 2017 at 9:51 am
Lisa, I’m in Kentucky, too — would love to connect if we’re in the same area. I am also interested in editing academic papers, so I would love to pick your brain. I feel like we might have a lot in common…
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on December 29, 2017 at 6:14 pm
Last year was a year of seeing God’s answers after years of waiting!
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
My top three areas (after doing my Powersheet Prep are:
Health – it’s at an all time low. I have had health challenges and weight gain, anxiety and stress. A big goal is to treat myself well, feel myself good food and move my body.
Finances – seeing the stronghold debt has on us and how the enemy uses areas of our life to feed that debt (contentment, greed, materialism) This one is one I want to fix overnight but it will definitely be a slow progress and i want to celebrate those small victories and really pay attention to little progress, not just big progress
Friends – I crave friendships but don’t do a whole lot to cultivate them. I received the Friendship book with my order and plan to spend time working through that.2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I’ve been chasing slow. I have been focusing on not doing too much, not saying too many yeses, and turning inward towards our family. It makes me feel good and happy and like I’m getting much needed rest and recuperation.
I’ve also been chasing contentment. I want to see what i have in front of me and be thankful and grateful for the blessing He has already given me instead of looking at what I don’t have and being restless and unhappy.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
God is there in wait – many years of waiting and so many answers came in 2017. His protection, provision and guidance were there all along.School – we homeschooled for 2 years and after a move into a “good” school district we tried public in August. We made the decision to pull our oldest (4th grader) out at the Christmas break and homeschool her for the remainder. It was good that we tried it because now we know. It showed us areas we want to focus on and priorities for our family and children.
God provides what we need when we need it – I quit my career job as a graphic designer an communications director in early 2013. On paper it wouldn’t work. There was no way we could survive financially but we knew it was what God was leading us to do. He has provided again and again and again in the ways of bonuses, freelance and steady contract work for me that I can do from home.
Community is important. After about 8 years of not being involved regularly in a small group through church we made the decision to join a group of people 15-20 years older than us. The wisdom, care and love they show us has been just what we needed. We thought we were supposed to lead but realized that we need to be nurtured right now and it’s been like a cool drink in the desert.
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on December 29, 2017 at 7:00 pm
I’ve watched God work things out for me in ways that only He can, so I’m learning that He wants good for me and I can trust Him
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on December 29, 2017 at 9:58 pm
1. I’m ready for a new year!
My health, family and spouse are all in the 7-10 range. I would like to work on making new friends in the new city we moved to. To tackle debt, to grow in my faith in Christ.2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I’ve been chasing pinterest perfect homes as we just built our new house. It has made me feel inadequate. I decided to not look at home ideas anymore and just to buy what I like and can afford.3. GOOD THINGS:
-meal prep and planning outfits and lunches is a game changer!
-resting= better mom and wife
-play with baby while he’s up and do dishes and clean after he goes to sleep!
– pray- it changes things!
-when frustrated either take a drive to clear my mind or take a walk outsideLESSONS LEARNED
-Trust God in a things, be open with him! He is your father 🙂
-Be open with my spouse
– Ask parents for advice if I am ever not sure
-I cannot do anything to earn God’s love, it is truly a gift -
on December 29, 2017 at 10:04 pm
I’m a bit late to the game here… I’ve been kind of casually following you on Facebook, and seeing all the hype over “Power Sheets” and wondering what was the big deal. lol I finally found some time now that Christmas is passed, to look into stuff. Unfortunately, too late to jump on the Power Sheets bandwagon. The 6-month set looks nice too, but I like things to be consistent for the year, (plus not sure I could swing the price right now), but very encouraged that you say that the material isn’t as important as the participation. 🙂
So here I go!
Step 1 – How am I? Well in general, quite stressed out, filled with anxieties, and a little depressed. But I’ll save my life story for another day. :-p In the realms of:
– Health: I’d have to score myself a 4. Just starting to get over some crud I picked up while traveling at Thanksgiving (yes a whole month! blech). Also, I’m fighting diabetes and weight. Not eating super healthy the past couple of months (thanks a lot, holidays), and trying to find a good place to slip exercise into my routine. Would love to find a place to get some counseling on some of the stress and anxiety and such.
– Friends: Maybe a 6. Only because I’m starting a new friendship. I don’t maintain a large friend base. I can only think of 1 “good friend,” and two acquaintances with the potential to be good friends. Quality over quantity for me, but I’ve never been a very good friend. I’m not terribly social and I’m not good at keeping in touch. I’d like to change some of that, though.
– Family (including your significant other, if applicable): I have good relationships with family members, so I would go for a 9 there, maybe. But a grandfather recently died, so my mom, aunt, and 2 uncles are struggling with the aftermath of that. It’s hard to watch people be territorial over material possessions. Also my dad is in bad health, so I’m trying to spend more time with him and ensure we have a good relationship.
– Finances: 8. By the grace of God, we are in the best financial shape of our marriage. About to pay off the last of our credit card debt! PTL!
– Spiritual + Personal Growth: 2. Needs serious work.
– Work: 5. Best job I’ve ever had, but it’s annoying and boring at the same time. I need an attitude change or to figure out if God is leading me elsewhere.
– Recreation: 5. I take some, but I feel guilty when I do. I still don’t use it to rest.Step 2 – I’ve been chasing contentment. Unfortunately, in completely the wrong way. I’ve been trying to find contentment in things that don’t bring contentment. I want to curb my material appetite and cultivate gratitude and TRUE contentment. Chasing contentment in the wrong ways makes me feel like nothing I am or have is good enough. Knowing that I’m hung up on these things makes me feel ashamed of myself because I know better.
Step 3 – What good things happened in 2017? My husband and I got a much better grip on our budget and finances – and we both got raises. We have started to find a potential solution for our dog’s itchy skin condition, which has been a major source of stress and a major drain on the budget. We got to visit St. Louis for our anniversary (the first trip we’ve taken with just the two of us in 7 years). I started a new blog, which has been helpful for me to express some thoughts. Lots of little things.
What are you grateful for from the last twelve months? That my dad is still alive, my sister is following her dream, my husband’s hard work is being appreciated at his job, our church has hired a new pastor (I was on the search committee), and the Lord continues to provide and bless. -
on December 30, 2017 at 7:12 am
After wanting them for 3 years, I finally received Powersheets for Christmas! The funny thing is, after beginning to work through the planner, I realized I’ve already made yearly and monthly habits that are very similar. 🙂 Probably from reading and following all things Lara Casey for son long. 🙂 BUT it’s fun to have a pretty book to write them in (with stickers) and will save lots of time! And there’s lots of great extras I’m excited to incorporate.
After all the wonderful Christmas crazy, I’m so so happy to be sitting in my pajamas by the Christmas tree in an empty house ALL DAY and work through the goal planning series. It was fun to do the evaluation and see that it has been a sweet year full of grace where God has done a lot of work in my life. I was happy to mark all the boxes above a 6 except for one (work).
I realized I’ve been chasing perfect in decision making and in personal life situations. It’s caused me to be paralyzed – unable to decide anything – and unhappy / frustrated – because I’m letting the condition of my heart be dictated by other’s responses to different things. So this will have something to do with my word of the year and my goals for 2018. Excited to continue on in my goal planning… -
on December 30, 2017 at 9:50 am
I feel like the things I’ve been chasing are the things that are going to propel me into 2018 with purpose: intentionality in taking back positivity for our home, encouraging my husband to take BIG and SCARY steps career-wise, self-discovery and ultimately, authenticity.
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on December 30, 2017 at 10:54 am
Hi! I’m excited to kick this year off to a great start with this series and my powersheets!
The questions.. I suppose they were mostly answered in the prep work
1. I have been very disappointed in myself for 2017 mostly because it’s easy for me to make huge lists of things I want to do and then never do them all because it’s impossible and I lose sight of being satisfied with the few things I do accomplish. Mostly I want to improve in my spiritual and personal growth this next year.
2. I chase expectations and pleasing others frequently. Mostly letting others drive my calendar and the fear of missing out or letting people down. It’s exhausting. I didn’t totally realize that was something I was doing until the meet your fears page in prep work. (So thank you for that 😊)
3. A big lesson I learned this year is my environment matters to me more than I think. So I want to cultivate my home to be a place I feel comfortable and relaxed in. Also, I love coffee dates and they result in the majority of my highlights so I want to plan them more!Well that was longer than I meant. Haha! Thanks for listening.
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on December 30, 2017 at 11:34 am
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve? Scared but I know i have to be open to joy that life can bring. 2017 was a wake up call on how life can can so quickly. Currently I have one area that needs way more focus than others: Spiritual + Personal Growth
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel? Happiness. Stressed and anxious.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
I have built my happiness on the outside world and I realized in 2017 that it needs to comes from within myself. -
on December 30, 2017 at 1:52 pm
1) 1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
Most of the categories I would rate myself with 5 to 7. In the area of health, work, and recreation, they rate very low. One improvement needed is in my health. I have really slacked this past year in my eating habits, and have not exercised.2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I have been chasing “keeping up with the Joneses”. It has caused a lot of frustration, worry, and envy. It also has increased my spending.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
*The gratitude pages in the 2017 Powersheets to remember blessings.
*Read through Luke and Acts with my church.
*My son bought a house so we were able to let go of a lot in our house “stuff-itus”.
*Finally releasing anger i had stuffed through the years, because of God’s prompting. To find calm and kindness.
*Learning the language of my mother and being able to visit her family and understand some of what they were saying.
Lessons learned: It’s ok to go (grow) slow. It doesn’t or will not be perfect “quickly” on our budget. Breathe and let go of anger. Learning takes practice, practice, practice…continual daily practice.Thank you for this series.
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on December 30, 2017 at 4:18 pm
1. How are you?
Health 4 – I have had several years of sports related injuries that have resulted in excuses for not moving. I still have a foundation but want more of a regimen.
Friends 6 – I am blessed with a number of great friends and am so grateful I would like to be more intentional with them and not be so distracted by commitments that I would rather not be doing.
Spouse 8/9 – Great place but always room for tweaks.
Family – Immediate 9 The rest 3. This has been a hard year filled with much sadness
Finances 4 – I am intentionally uninformed. I have a great job, contribute to finances, but would like to leave a financial footprint/road map for kids to follow.
Work 7/8 – Love my job but would like BALANCE
Spiritual/Personal Growth -6/7 Love my church. Love our small group, want to dig more into the word. Have a life coach and need to be more devoted to that aspect of concentration.
Recreation 5 – We simply don’t play enough. Too much idle time spent on the couch2. What have you been chasing lately? Other people’s dreams and expectations. I have lost sight of myself.
This makes me feel stretched beyond belief as I try to be everything for everybody.3. Write list of good things and lessons you have learned.
– Do not lean on your own understanding. I have really tried to let God lead me this year instead of me giving Him the choices I think I need.
– Marriage is stronger than ever.
– We took a leap of faith with our daughter and joined a group of people and helped start a church. One of the greatest things ever for us.
– Let go of a long-term commitment realizing that I was replaceable and being OKAY with that!
– Have been able to step into a leadership position with my company and have loved teaching others and coming along them in their growth journeys.
– Forged a stronger bond than ever with my sister-in-law and am very grateful for this.So excited for Part Two
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on December 30, 2017 at 6:27 pm
thank you so much for this amazing opportunity! 🙂
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on December 30, 2017 at 7:25 pm
Wow! 2017 was a year of growth – both great stretching and stretching that hurt …
1) How I am: I’m feeling confident in the work the Lord is doing in my heart to continue to give me grace as he proves time and time again that HE is the only one that can satisfy my longing for deep intimacy and a relationship in which I am fully known and fully loved. I am learning and starting to LOVE to learn that His promises guarantee my humility, but don’t always mean my comfort is a guarantee. Praise the Lord for placing a desire in my heart to get to know Him and His promises more! He has been faithful this year to provide a place in which I love to work, a community at work that has turned co-workers into friends. Although I love work, I am not content in how I am balancing life and work.
2)What I have been chasing lately: I have been chasing knowledge in God’s character and His promises but not as much as I hope to prioritize in 2018 (shoutout to the PowerSheets for helping me work through that!!). I have also been chasing the affirmation from others and what they think of my work. Although I hate to admit it, this has led to putting too much emphasis on others’ opinions in my life and has led to a “work-a-holic” lifestyle as my work and people’s opinions/judgements of success of my work have become too much of an idol in my life.
3) My list of good things/lessons learned:
– super thankful for my work family – praising the Lord for relationships strengthened there!
– seasons change, and friendships do too, which make me extra thankful for friendships that last (& grow) through the seasonal changes of life
– traveled to new places this past year, and now have a desire to want to know the world more
– there’s grace in every failure & shortcoming — shoutout to my college roomie @KayleeHobbs that introduced me to PowerSheets & the CultivateWhatMatters movement to help me fail forward as I goal-set for 2018!
– perspective is reality and everyone’s perspective matters
– all of God’s promises find their “yes” in Jesus
– vulnerability leads to growth! -
on December 30, 2017 at 7:31 pm
I LOVE sending thank you notes that are so random – “thanks for being a friend,” “thanks for being YOU!,” etc. I recently sent a thank-you note to a friend for being consistent over the span of a crazy couple years of transition… sometimes it’s just nice to be thanked for what you do day in and day out!
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on December 30, 2017 at 9:26 pm
1.writing down how I am doing in each area was really helpful as it let this (recovering) perfectionist see both the good steps I have already made and the steps I need to change or take. My main focus this year is just intentionality over all, this is new for me this goal setting. If I had to pick two main areas they would be personal growth and finances. As a mom of a 3 and 4 year old personal growth has been off my radar replaced by just surviving. Finances are just going to change this year with a move we are making so adjusting to that is a big priority.
2. I have been chasing perfectionism and have uncovered resulting burnout of being unable to catch this perfect image I have. It has made me feel not enough yet can’t stop for fear of failing more.
3.Over this past year I learned my limitations and learned that in order to stay within them I need to set boundaries and say no. I did learn that I need to make morning time for me and for God’s word once I got that routine down it dramatically helped my spiritual life. I also learned that I don’t have to have everything always new and fabulous for dinner. I learned to take my health into my own hands and listen to my body if I don’t feel 100%. I learned my husband puts up with a lot with me and is so willing to work with me to get to a good place whether in my own personal life or in our marriage. I learned that sometimes you have to ask for help. I learned I have a lot I can learn from professionals (speech and behavioral therapy) especially in regards to helping my kids. I learned I have a desire to teach my children personally. I learned my kids love each other deeply. I learned my son prefers time at home, physical touch, competition, one or two really close friends and reading. I learned my daughter loves adventure, horses, copying her brother, has a zeal and perseverance that blows me away and loves few but loves them deeply. -
on December 30, 2017 at 11:12 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
This surprised me! I’m doing worst in my work life, but I realized that because of the next question, I actually need to refrain from focusing on it right now!
Health 4
Spouse 8
Friends 6
Family 8
Finances 4
Work 1
Spiritual 6
Recreation 9I chose to focus on growing my health, family, and spiritual growth this year!
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
Last year I tried to start my own business and it just didn’t work. I felt like a failure. I was chasing validation and importance, and really those aren’t things that owning my own business needs to fill… that’s something that I need to wrestle through in my relationship with God.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
I had too many good things to fit in my PowerSheets! But the highlights are LOTS of great adventures with my growing kiddos. Learning to arrange flowers based on the perennials growing in my yard. I got really good at making sugar free treats for my family!
I learned a lot about how my body works best and the importance of taking supplements and balancing my blood sugar. I learned a lot about accepting gifts and humility. I learned to pay more attention to my own emotions, even when I’m not sure why I’m feeling the way I am, it’s good to stop, dig deep, ask God about it, and listen.
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on December 31, 2017 at 4:11 am
I bought Powersheets for the first time this fall. I am excited to get started. What I’m currently doing isn’t working; isn’t that the supposed definition of insanity? – doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result? Hah! Time to make goals and get my life back!
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on December 31, 2017 at 4:22 am
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
I am not very good, to be honest! Anxiety has been weighing me down. I have OCD and panic disorder with agoraphobia and unfortunately, both are severe right now. I want to improve in this. Many of my other categories would improve if I improved my emotonal and mental health. However, I’d also like to focus on improving my environment. I am a total mess and would like to be more organized. I’ll clean, only to have it all fall apart within a few weeks. I’d love to have a more orderly environment and I think this would clean up my brain too!2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I chase perfection, certainty, and comfort. Uncertainty, even of the smallest kind, makes me so uncomfortable. I let my OCD rule me so I will feel “comfortable”, but I am miserable. I’ll wash my face excessively and end my day with sore, dry lips just so I can ease the disorder. I am not taking risks or living life the way I WANT to.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
2017 had some great moments. My favorite moments were going to local stores for the first time in years. Simply making it inside of Trader Joe’s and rewarding myself with flowers was amazing for me. Visiting the used book store and chatting with the woman I used to volunteer with was one of my best days. I made so much progress in OCD for most of the year, I was cooking large meals for my family and trying fun, new recipes. I created memories with my best friends. I got a job after being unemployed for two years in a field I always wanted to work in! This was the best accomplishment of 2017. I learned I can do more than I think I can, progress is slow but still progress and I am needed in this world. -
on December 31, 2017 at 11:25 am
Step 1) How are you is a very heavy question for me. The typical answer is “fine” or my favorite is “it doesn’t pay to complain”. While on the surface this is all true…it’s not MY truth. I did my average of my scores and its a whooping 3! I know the areas that are pulling the average down and it’s time to get to work. When writing each area I was able to find positivity that will truly cultivate growth in each of the areas.
Step 2) I’ve been chasing perfection and control the last few years. It’s left me lonely in a room full of people, in the hospital and anxious. I’m truly excited about leaving perfection in 2017. It may sound simple but I’ve already started by writing my notes and in my powersheets with my least favorite color! 🙂
3. A few of my good things include:
– Starting therapy. My family has never really gone down this route but I decided I needed something different. So I started seeing a therapist this summer and it’s been worth every penny.
– In 2017 I began to see how much I’m not truly in control. There are things that are out of my hands…AND it’s OK!
– I found an amazing job! In the spring I went from traveling non-stop and a high stress level job to a place where there’s no travel, there’s instant feedback and there’s compassion. -
on December 31, 2017 at 1:42 pm
I’m finally getting a chance to sit down with my Powersheets and work on goals and dreams for 2018. I’ve always been great at making daily and weekly to-do lists but have struggled with long-term goals, mainly out of fear of failure. I’m ready to kick that fear to the curb and start living a more intentional life! My word for the year is EXPECTANT, and I want to dream big dreams and EXPECT God to bring about amazing results in the year ahead!
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on December 31, 2017 at 2:22 pm
Lara, I am so thankful to God for you and your staff! I so appreciate your transparency and being real. Not being a former goal setter, I would have not attempted it, but hearing/watching your process and knowing that some of you have not been traditional goal setters, and hearing the term “intential grace-filled goals” gave me the excitment and courage to order my Power Sheets and start the process. One of the things I did not expect to get from it already was the overwhelming sense of gratefulness to God for what he has done in and through my life during the last year. I LOVED that process!!! And it encourages me more and gives me hope and an expected excitement for what He will do in the coming year! Thank you for all you all do!!! May Christ reign down blessings on you and your staff in the coming year, as you continually bless us!
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on December 31, 2017 at 4:47 pm
Really loved diving into this and processing everything!
1. Here are my areas and their ratings. Looking forward to tackling some of these in 2018. Health 7, Friends 8, Family 5, Finances 1, Work 8, Spiritual 7, Recreation 92. I have been chasing the need to be what everyone wants me to be. In an effort to be all things to all people that I spend time with, I think I lost a little bit of myself.
3. So many good things surrounded the hard of 2017. I got to travel more, which added a lot of life to my routine. I got intentional about my morning routine and meditated more. It was a foundational year in a lot of ways, and I’m grateful for the hard things that taught me more about myself and the people around me.
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on December 31, 2017 at 5:13 pm
Thanks for investing SO much of yourself into this blog series, Lara! You and your team are on my “People I’m Grateful For” list. All the useful tools, inspiring words, and free content you share have helped me make progress in 2017.
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on December 31, 2017 at 5:28 pm
After a long involved moved this year I have many areas to get back on track in the coming year….friends! recreation! spiritual! and work (though I don’t work outside the house), and my personal categories…photography and crafting. I’m not sure I’ve been chasing anything other than moving and getting settled. But the process took its toll on many areas. My top things this year were a transatlantic cruise!! Camping at the beaches of Normandy! Making a very special new friend in the most unexpected place! And finding a new house. All things involving adventure. Things that I had to commit to rather quickly that worked out beautifully.
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on December 31, 2017 at 6:01 pm
I’m going through Powersheets for the first time this year. Feeling slightly intimidated and a lot excited at the same time. Thanks for your optimism and your cheerleading!
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on January 1, 2018 at 12:08 am
Hey is the coupon code still working?? I’d love to get the power sheets
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on January 1, 2018 at 2:39 am
This is my first time doing this and it’s already been so eye-opening just from step one! My numbers were not very high, but I did have a great list of good things, and lessons from that. I’m excited because this also goes right along with a series we’re starting at church. Thank you, thank you!!
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on January 1, 2018 at 12:25 pm
Step One: How am I? How am I doing in each area of life? Which areas do I want the most improvement in?
Health- 4
Friends- 6
Marriage- 8
Parenting- 5
Finances- 4
Spiritual/Personal Growth- 6
Homeschool- 4
Personal Care/Recreation- 5I’m wanting the most improvement in homeschool, parenting and health right now! That’s what I’ll be focused on for the first part of the year.
Step Two: What Have I been chasing? How does that make me feel?
I’ve been chasing perfection and that’s not okay, however, I’ve learned a lot over the past year using my powersheets. I feel good about progress I’ve made in areas and am at the same time a little overwhelmed by the growth I wanted to see, but couldn’t make happen. I need to let go what I think my life should look like and embrace what it really is and seek what God would have for me and my family.Step Three: What good things happened in 2017? What grew well? What are you grateful for from the last twelve months? What lessons did I learn in 2017?
Good things I’m grateful for: journaling consistently, getting on the same page financially with my husband, homeschooling successes, moving cities, making alone time a priority for my husband and I and giving each other space to observe it, my son’s sports team, getting involved at church, sticking to and finding successs using Tone It Up, and establishing weekly date nights. Lessons I’m grateful for: I learned I need to let go of goals that are motivated from a place of guilt or should. I also got a reality check on the whole “you can’t do it all and do it well” part. I leaned that I need community and that not making room for sabbath is detrimental. -
on January 1, 2018 at 7:14 pm
I’ve found that my life at the end of the year can be so confusing when I lose sight of real purpose in life and get sidetracked by all the things that people around me are doing. Comparison, jealously, aimless wandering are all side trails I’ve experience this year. So I started simple with getting back to basics by spending more time in the Word and want to continue that on in the new year. Year after year I relearn that trusting and following God is what makes all of life worthwhile! The ups and downs, ALL of it!
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on January 1, 2018 at 8:42 pm
Hi Lara,
I just ordered your books, trying to find out if i can get on a waiting list for the 12 month power sheets.
Thanks,
Marie -
on January 2, 2018 at 4:20 am
I’m not doing well. I’m surviving in some areas of my life and failing in others. Improvement is most urgently needed in Spiritual/Personal Growth, Work, and Health.
2. I have chased being perfect for so many years that now I’m spent and burnt out. I feel defeated and exhausted.
3. 2017 was a hard year, and my list of good things is short. Despite our challenges, my children are flourishing academically, which is awesome. I learned that inertia is destructive, time is precious, and taking care of your health is paramount.
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on January 2, 2018 at 11:17 am
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
Health – 3
Friends – 8
Significant Other – 8
Family – 7
Finances – 5
Spiritual Growth – 8
Work – 5
Recreation – 8I want to cultivate my health, finances, and work this year. I just graduated college in December and I want to follow God’s leading for the next step of my life. I’m not sure where I want to work, but I am taking one step at a time.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
Lately I have been chasing comfort and pleasing people. This makes me worn out, lazy, and tired. I want to cultivate joy and contentment in this new year.
3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
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Cultivating gratitude
-Building meaningful friendships
-Playing and bonding with all the kids in my life
-Completing whole30
-Finishing the One Year Bible
-Listing the names and attributes of God
-Accepting feedback and growing from it
-Sweet times with the Lord can come from hard times.
-Just start, even when you don’t feel like it. Just get back up and keep trying.
-The Lord is my constant and steady rock when life feels hard and unknown.
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on January 2, 2018 at 11:20 am
This is the first year that I am doing powersheets and I am loving them already! I got the workbook a little before December so I officially started my powersheet process in December haha. I know I am supposed to start in 2018 but why wait?! So I set my goals in December and started then and had such an intentional and fruitful December too! Thank you-thank you! And excited to keep going with this all year around too!
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on January 2, 2018 at 12:06 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
After doing the cultivated life evaluation I realized I have been doing well with my spouse (we just got married in June and are loving it), my health, and in the recreation area (I didn’t even know I was succeeding here until I saw it as a category!).I have been struggling in the area of friendships and family. The phrase “living by accident” really spoke to me here. I have recently been met with rejection and striving for approval from others in these areas, but I also have not done a great job in being purposeful in those relationships.
2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I have been chasing significance. I deeply want to be liked by others and I have been left feeling not enough. Chasing the approval of others always does.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
A few good things – WEDDING!, we traveled a lot this year, I read more in 2017 than in years past, we paid off all of our credit card debt (yahoo!!), and because of the wedding I felt a lot of love and thankfulness for the people that care about Matt and I.
Lesson learned – being consistent is essential and trying too many things at once can make you flakey (even if they are good things).I’ve started the goal setting series along with my PowerSheets this week because I still have a week before I go back to work (thank you, Lord, for time to rest and plan). I am looking forward to this journey and giving myself the grace to not officially be done until a week after the first of the year. Even though my brain is screaming to just fly through this to get it done because it’s already Jan 2 and I ‘should have’ had this done by Dec 31, and blah blah blah. God can do good things any day of year, I am quieting that perfection part of my brain to embrace this process – if you are also just now starting your planning, cheers to you, I’m right there with you.
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on January 2, 2018 at 2:05 pm
Step 1: I did this in. blank journal and it was sobering. I realized several areas I’m not doing as well in as I thought. Well, I hadn’t thought much about it. But the exercise helped me do so. I would like to improve in exercise by choosing activity daily, whether it’s yoga, T-Tapp, walking, or cleaning the house where more physical exertion is needed.
2. I’ve been chasing many goals and not accomplishing the most important. I’ve chased smaller tasks instead of sticking with the largest one I know I need to do. It leaves me continually feeling like the big thing is going to burst out of me. I’ve decided to choose the big task as my main goal for the next 3 months.
3. In 2017 God began chipping away at a BIG mountain. It’s still, big, but God is bigger. I struggle to remember this at times, but I’m grateful for exercises like this that remind me. What grew well (or better than before) and I’ve learned better is what to let go of, processing my anxiety of not wanting to let go of if, and living in limits.
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on January 2, 2018 at 2:11 pm
I am so excited for a purpose-filled 2018!!
How am I? 2017 was a beautiful Year full of ups and downs and I wouldn’t change it for the world. God grew me SO much through many unexpected blessings and suffering.As far as the new year goes, I am taking time to slow down and trying to renew my body, mind, and spirit for all the wonderful things to come
In 2017 I was chasing perfection, and significance. God brought me to my knees and showed me how I had been trying to do everything and do it all in my own strength instead of relying on His. Asking for help has never been my strong suit and God has really humbled me to remember it’s ok to say no or to ask for help with things.
This year I want to pursue Joy, Gratitude, Contentment, and peace.
GOOD THINGS!
-I traveled to a photography workshop in Charleston SC and it was the best business investment I have made all year. Because I went there, and all the encouragement I received from the wonderful women who attended, I had the courage to launch my Photography website! Despite how imperfect it may or may not have been…
-I moved out of my parents house
-Ran 5 Marine Corpse races!
-My car died unexpectantly and while it was hard asking for financial help from my parents to put a down payment, God used it to show me How BIG he is and how He will provide for my needs (even if it’s not in the way I would have planned 😉
-I booked my first 2018 wedding!
– I grew closer to the Lord and learned that starting your day in the word makes ALL the difference in how the direction of your day will go.
-That Jesus is King no matter what direction your life takes.
-It is OK not to have it all together. It’s totally ok to be messy and real and let others (especially Jesus) see who you really are. Vulnerability is good. -
on January 2, 2018 at 6:48 pm
This is the first year that I’m using your power sheets and can I just say, Wow! I am using these this year to help me focus on my calling as an author. God has written my story, but He’s called me to finally share it. I love the intentional and purposeful way that you have designed the power sheets to draw out the thought processes. I’m eager to get started!
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on January 2, 2018 at 10:06 pm
I’m open and excited for this process, but I’m fearful of falling back into my familiar traps of perfectionism and control. My greatest areas to focus on are faith and family/marriage. I’m a fledgling believer and I’m craving mentorship and wisdom to learn how to move forward. My good things were building godly friendships in our small group and graduating Summa Cum Laude with a new career path that I LOVE!
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on January 3, 2018 at 1:12 am
Most of my goals from 2018 were the same as 2017, but I got discouraged and distracted from what I want until a whole year had gone by. Hoping that the powersheets help me stick to my goals this year so I can look back at 2018 as progress !
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on January 3, 2018 at 9:37 am
This was a good first step…to own the feeling I have felt all of 2017…like I was striving for a lot but getting no where. Though my circumstances have not been as difficult as many around me…2017 has sucked the life out of so many of the areas listed. I have been chasing perfect…even though I know perfect is un-achievable. I think my struggle is I don’t even know what things I should be pursuing. I have tried your power sheets before and I love the ideas/concepts…but I struggle maintaining habits and goals past Feb. I didn’t purchase them this year because I feel I keep buying the newest goal setting thing and they aren’t fixing my issues…so with your post-it love I thought…I am going to do it on the pile of post-its I have laying around…the product isn’t what changes us…it is the Lord…and maybe 2018 will be the year…
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on January 3, 2018 at 10:51 am
This has been such a timely process for me, Lara. Thank you! I have many notes already from this first step.
My average was a 4! Which surprised me. We’re starting out fresh as a family in many ways though, which is encouraging. I battled and was healed from a serious illness in 2017. That is a good thing! And we laughed a lot…also good. We received loving help from friends and family. Three lessons I learned:
1. God is good.
2. I can be intentional about my daily life and choices.
3. My family’s and my own health are important and worth caring for.Looking forward to the next goal steps!
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on January 4, 2018 at 10:49 am
the end of 2016 and the start of 2017 were tough (personally). Looking for to starting 2018 fresh and with purpose and gratitude – this is a great big first step for me. Thank you for encourage all women to live their best life!
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on January 4, 2018 at 6:04 pm
I started grad school in 2017 and while it was challenging, it showed me that I was on the right track for my career. I’m not sure what my specific goals will be, but they will be centered around balancing school, personal time, and time with my s.o. <3 Bring on 2018!
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on January 5, 2018 at 6:36 pm
Step 1: I was surprised how high I rated most areas, there is work to be done but I see so much positive in the ups and downs of 2017. I got married (more joyful than I had hoped) and I was challenged as I began to learn to be married. Grateful for the Lord and faithful, patient husband.
50’s housewife and it just ain’t the way of freedom.
Step 3: I am grateful to be living in Colorado and that my dream to be married has come true. God’s blessings this past year have been as thick as the mosquitoes in NC’s (where I grew up) summers.This is my first year of doing Powersheets, I learned about them last July. I am so excited to do 2018 differently than I ever have before.
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on January 5, 2018 at 6:41 pm
*Step 2 I have been chasing approval as a newly married woman trying to be an ideal 50s housewife and it just ain’t the way of freedom.
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on January 5, 2018 at 8:27 pm
I’m so grateful I came across this website. I plan on making my 2018 different. This just feel so empowering this year. Overall I think that my life is a reflection of what I allow. I’m not where I should be and it would be because of the choices I make. I know that there are many things that I can do better but I have to make the commitment to do it.
I rate the following:
Health (4): I started eating better but still dependent on sugar
Friends (6): fortunate to have a few good ones but I don’t spend enough time with them
Family (7): blessed to have them but wish we had more traditions.
Finances (2): have a good job/income but I have no budget and no saving.
Spiritual (8): Jesus loves me but I need to be stronger in scripture.
Recreation (3): lots of ideas but I don’t know where to start
Personal Growth (2): I know what I want to change but I seek approval from others.
I have been chasing approval from others. I don’t want to continue in that track because its not what God wants from me. I also think that I’m not good enough and that makes me crazy. Every time I think that I’m delivered from such a thing I go back and pick it up. Drives me crazy!!!
My good 2017: My oldest son graduated from college, I enjoyed a summer without spending money, I did the Whole30 and was successful, I started the Putting Me together challenge and it gave me confidence to try and dress myself without negative self talk, I graduated the first ever Spanish Nurturing Program in a school setting (where we helped parents to learn how to parent without physical abuse).
Lessons Learned: If I like what I’m wearing then it doesn’t matter what others think, I can choose what I eat and it can be healthy, being in the sun is important to me and I should find time to be in it without feeling bad, if I don’t spend time with a budget I will forever be in debt, I have to spend time with those people that matter to me, my marriage is important and telling others just the bad isn’t fair to him. -
on January 5, 2018 at 9:14 pm
After going through this entire series and journaling/processing on my own, I’m returning to listen to the whole thing again and post my responses. Thank you, Lara, for this incredibly valuable, inspiring tool!!
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
2017 was an intensely challenging year. The areas of family (extended) and spiritual life endured big hits – some important relationships were nearly lost, and in the wake, my faith passed through the fire. But thankfully, God drew near, and I can now say that, overall, I am well.
– Health: 7 Happy with trajectory, but lots of good work left
– Friends: 9 So blessed!
– Family: 9 So blessed!
– Finances: 7 Great, except I am often willfully ignorant in this area
– Spiritual + Personal Growth: 7 So much growth last year, looking forward to more!
– Work: 8 Happy in my role as stay-at-home mom and MOPS coordinator 🙂
– Recreation: 9 Love our family’s rhythms of rest and play!2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
I feel like I constantly battle the desire for control, which has been particularly exacerbated by becoming a mom. It’s exhausting, and when it’s really heightened, I feel like I’m suffocating the life out of our home.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
Good things:
– Reconciliation with my parents, still in progress
– Improvement of my back pain (crossfit and trail running)
– Better grip on my life as a fulltime mom
– Quality time away with my husband (Hawaii!)
– Spiritual upheaval giving way to growth and freedom
My 3 Lessons Learned:
1. Risking vulnerability is worth it
2. My family is a gift
3. I CAN do hard things (emotionally, physically)-
on January 8, 2018 at 4:18 pm
I’m so grateful this was helpful for you!! Hooray!!! I love all you wrote!
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on January 6, 2018 at 7:17 am
Loving the encouragement #Cultivatewhatmatters is giving me and paying it forward. Texted scripture image to a friend about to go to difficult family function. One of my goals is to cultivate meaningful friendships and I am loving how it’s starting.
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on January 6, 2018 at 11:20 pm
Lara-
I ordered your 2018 SIX-MONTH UNDATED POWERSHEETS INTENTIONAL GOAL PLANNER and have just started to work through it. My “soul sister” also ordered one after I sent her a pic of it. We will be working through this together. Thank you for all you do! You are a blessing to many!
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on January 8, 2018 at 4:16 pm
Hooray! I’m so excited for you both!!
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on January 7, 2018 at 1:08 am
So excited to start my Power Sheets journey for 2018!
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on January 7, 2018 at 11:12 am
So happy I saw a friend post this. I really need something like this in my life. I have the Gratitude and Spirituality sobriety brings me. Yet the rest of my life is empty. Yet Setting Goals, Being Happy, Finding Fun Etc I can’t find. Thank you
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on January 7, 2018 at 3:38 pm
Can’t wait to get started!
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on January 7, 2018 at 9:48 pm
Excited to begin this journey!!!
1. How are you? Averaging around a 4.5. There are some part of my life that feel so strong like relationships, but others that I know need some intentional attention.
2. What have you been chasing? I hate to admit it, but I have been chasing perfection and being everything to everyone. Those two things make for a tiring combination.
3. Good things! I got married to my best friend in 2017 and our relationship has only gotten stronger. I’ve made big strides in deepening friendships. I’m finding the strength within myself to begin a new chapter of my life!
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on January 8, 2018 at 3:49 pm
I am very excited to see where this takes me!
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on January 8, 2018 at 5:27 pm
I’ve never written these kinds of evaluations before, but they’re so helpful. Thank for modeling how these different steps look, too!
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on January 8, 2018 at 8:26 pm
Goal setting has always given me the heeby-jeebies as well. I am not a type A person and never pursued perfection. So goal setting always seemed unneeded – reflection – yes, listening to God – YES, but trying to plot my course seemed trivial when it always blew up in my face. Your commitment to Purpose and Progress over Perfection brought and kept me here.
#1 My average score is a 7. Having categories really helps. I can see that I have really focused on friendship and work this pst year and both are thriving. Personal at home relationships and health need some radical change.
#2 keeping up and surviving. This year I was diagnosed with depression and finding a med that works and dealing with side-effects caused a lot of the feeling of survival. Keeping up was just getting on with what needed getting on.
#3 (going to talk to my hubby tonight but I would say) being more intentional with my friends. Recognizing my need for help. My job – I am doing what I have been created to do after years of saying yes to whatever God called me to. -
on January 9, 2018 at 7:06 am
I found your goal setting series back in 2013 and have loved setting intentional goals with you and all of your readers ever since! I’m not the best at following through with my power sheets each month during the year, but reading over past years goals and realizing how much growth and change has happened is really empowering to keep digging deeper!
What good things happened this year? Summary: motherhood, travel, trial that forced my husband and I to lean harder on God than ever before, self improvement, creative projects
What lessons did I learn from the good things? 1. God is BAE. Individually. Jointly. In all arenas. Forever / 2. Changing my small daily habits is the only way to get the BIG changes I want / 3. I shouldn’t stop exploring but sinking into the simple things can give me just as much purpose in life
Thanks Lara for another years worth of inspiration to focus on what matters!! Looking forward to the rest of the series even though I’m a little late to the game!
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on January 9, 2018 at 10:34 am
This is my first year using a planner like this … I’m so excited! I’m late to adding comments to the blog, but I’ve already started filling out my Powersheets. I found out about Powersheets through my sister-law. I’ve always had a goal to start journaling, but I always fall off because I can’t think of things to write about. Powersheets has such great prompting, mind-bending questions that it allows me to write more than I’ve ever written before. Thanks Lara and team for creating a great product.
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on January 9, 2018 at 9:50 pm
A little behind but catching up! Thanks for sharing the story Lara!
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on January 11, 2018 at 5:44 am
**sorry for multiple comments but I realized after reading the fine print again that you had to have commented for EVERY step. I’m doing my best to enter the amazing giveaway before the end of January so here goes (again) :
Step One: How Am I?
Health (3) no working out, poor food choices, no sleep routine / Friends (6) stay open to new relationships, check in more often, give / Family (6) demonstrate love, express gratitude / Spouse (9) Grateful, keep God at center / Finances (5)on track but not timely / Spiritual (4) off and on, thankful for growth, want to give more of myself / Work (7) happy, want to invest more organization and time / Recreation (8) SO happy, just want different for my downtime / Home (6) spark joy was epic this year, need to stay on top of cleaning / Intellectual (6) started audio books and miracle morning, craving more!Step Two: What have I been chasing recently?
My thoughts and actions have been pretty dominated recently by the adorable 18 month old I get to chase around, and the pending arrival of our second son in February. I don’t think I’ve chased much of anything (survival mode) which may be a downfall in and of itself. When I strive for something I grow, and I want to keep growing!Step Three: What good things happened in 2017 and what lessons did I learn from them?
Motherhood / Travel / Trial that forced my husband and I to lean harder on God than ever before / Self improvement / Creative projects
1. God is BAE. Individually. Jointly. In all arenas. Forever / 2. Changing my small daily habits is the only way to get the BIG changes I want / 3. I shouldn’t stop exploring but sinking into the simple things can give me just as much purpose in life
On to part two!! Thanks again 😀
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on January 11, 2018 at 3:38 pm
In ref to my encouraging text: My good friend moved far away from me last summer. Recently I snapped a picture of the bird tea cup I always filled up with her favorite tea when she came to visit at my house. I sent the picture via text and said, “she’s waiting on you…” Yes, I decided the bird cup was a she and I KNOW she’s missing her, because I am, too!
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on January 11, 2018 at 9:54 pm
1. How are you? How are you doing in each area of your life and which areas do you most want to improve?
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I have a difficult time rating things on a number scale, but this challenge was beneficial to work through! Here’s how it stacked up:
Health 5
Friends 8
Spouse 1 (I’m unmarried)
Family 6
Finances 3
Spiritual/Personal Growth 1, with an arrow upward!
(I’m very thankful in this area for God’s goodness, it’s just that when reading your rating criteria – yes, I’m ready for radical change and growth here, with His help!!)
Work 4
Recreation 2
I chose Spiritual Growth, Family and Work as “my three.”2. What have you been chasing lately? How is that making you feel?
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Last year I chased “what I need to be doing right now” alot. So much, I got depressed. I praise God I can report that He’s done awesome things in my heart during the time I prayed and worked through this prep work: that His work for me is right in front of me… It’s time to let go of self (MY expectations, etc.) and simply follow His leading.3. Write your list of good things and lessons you learned.
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I have quite a list, so I’ll only share a sampling:
My dad has such a wonderful job – a direct answer to our prayers!
My sister and I began an exercise program together!
He lead me to this planner!Thank you so much for this series!
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on January 12, 2018 at 2:37 pm
I did my Powersheets Prep in December but am finally getting the chance to answer the questions here, because you know I love a good giveaway!
1. How Are You?
Health: 5 — after having three kids in three years, and then trying to survive this past year since my third was born, I have really neglected my own health, which I see constantly affects my mood and parenting reactions in a negative way. I also know I cannot teach my kids healthy habits if I am constantly choosing things like staying up too late, endless social media scrolling, not enjoying the outdoors, etc.
Friends 1 — just feeling burnt out and hurt here, but also already seeing how God is redirecting my focus from having to have all.the.friends to cultivating a few friendships well.
Spouse 5 — 2014-2017 were really hard years in our marriage, and we have a lot of ground to work on. 2018 is going to be a GREAT year!
Family 6/7 — I think we are doing okay here, but I often feel so stressed out with three little kids that i have neglected embracing and enjoying this season. More of this in 2018!
Finances 8 — we have done really well financially in the past few years after being completely broke, and i am proud of us! But now I would like to focus more on being generous.
Spiritual 10 — it seems prideful to count this as a 10, since I know there is always room for growth. And there is. But 2017 was such a great year, because I was really honest with God and I started to see fruit I had been striving for for a decade, as I surrendered. So for that reason, I am claiming 10 and pressing into a powerful, life-changing year with God in 2018.
Work 6 — when i wrote this down, it was a 6, because I was lacking inspiration and vision, but since then, I have really been thinking and praying, and God has shown me new steps for the new year in my business.
Recreation 2– This is also something I have really struggled with since having kids, but again, moving in the right track on this already, as i have been putting down the social media after the kids go to bed, and I have already read two books this year and picked up watercolor painting for the first time in 15 years.2. What Have You Been Chasing?
In 2017, and for many years before, I was chasing perfect, chasing security, having it all together, fixing all the problems, doing it all. In November, after several really hard months in our marriage and several very powerful months personally through my Powersheets and meeting God, I have a breakthrough realizing that I have been Martha, trying to do it all, because I feel like I have to create my own security; whereas Mary trusted in the security she had in Christ, so she had the time and quietness to sit with Jesus rather than rush around and fix.it.all. I am already seeing SO MUCH FREEDOM, and it’s only mid January!! Praise!3. Good things & Lessons Learned.
Practicing Writing the Word
Unsubcribing from so.many.emails!
Taking pictures of my kids to remember!
Being honest with God, myself, my husband, and close friends
Embracing Skype for all of my family who lives out of town.
Expressing needs or desires instead of diminishing them
Shedding FEAR
Less social media
Stepping back from work to give time for my kids and homeschooling
Surrendering the burden of control
Thanking God for making me who I am
The birth of our third (surprise!) baby on 1/1/2017 — changed my whole YEAR and HEART!Lessons Learned —
I can’t make my husband stay, or my friends stay, or anyone stay; experiencing so much grace and gratitude!
God IS NOT ANGRY WITH ME
THIS LIFE IS WORTH IT
I AM ENOUGH
Rush and efficiency are not the Saviour
“Let the peace of the Messiah control your hearts.” – Col. 3:16
Trust
Control is a BURDEN
I DON’T HAVE TO FIX EVERYTHING
Martha vs. Mary
TURN OFF THE NOISE
I AM ME AND THAT IS OKAY
BE MORE/DO MORE is the message I have been operating out of for the last 2 decades, and 2018 is the time for change!!! -
on January 12, 2018 at 11:22 pm
Appreciate Lara and this series so much!
Step 1: Health – 4, Spouse – 8, Friends – 5, Family – 6, Finances – 6, Spiritual/Personal Growth – 5, Work – 4, Recreation – 4
Want to improve most this year in my physical and emotional health.
Step 2: Chasing escape, different outcome, purpose in/for the pain. Makes me feel stuck, distracted.
Step 3: Good things -More giving to.ministries and others, husband and sons beginning 7th year of Bible study, I spent less time on social media, built a beautiful library, read more books, and tended my Mom Heart group. Also, my adult children and 8 g-babies are thriving.
Lessons I’m learning: Growing slow is still growing. The Lord works all through the “night.” He does show us treasures in the dark. -
on January 13, 2018 at 12:54 am
I “stumbled” on the power sheets thinking it was a planner!!! Lol! I got one and the bundle with the books. And, of course, God brought me here. I’m reading ‘Make it Happen’ right now and going through this series. 2017 was so hard, and most of my evaluation numbers are very low, and that means I get to have great fun with cultivated goals and grow this year. Thank you Laura for sharing your life. See you at part 2!!
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on January 13, 2018 at 6:51 am
A friend told me about this way she was setting goals and I wrote the name to remind me to take a look. It’s early on a Saturday before anyone is up and here I am. I don’t have paper to write goals but at least know my first step. I have never set goals more wants than thought driven ideas. I am thankful for so many aspects of my life but feel up until recently I took advantage of opportunities that happen rather than something I was intentional about. 2017 I took a huge step in doing something that was intentional and awakened a feeling to dream and own for myself, my family. Goal setting feels like I’m standing in a blank room desperately trying to think what I want or if I do think about 1-2 things – how to maintain momentum to achieve. It may take a few days to get to write my “how are you “ down but I embrace this self reflection.
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on January 13, 2018 at 5:11 pm
I look forward to the Goal Setting Series and am excited to use your
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on January 13, 2018 at 5:13 pm
…am excited to use the PowerSheets for this first time. Such a wonderful give away. Thank you.
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on January 14, 2018 at 3:06 pm
Working hard on uncovering GOOD goals!
health – 8 (this was last year’s focus and WOTY, so I did little by little progress that added up a lot)
friends – 6
finances – 7
spouse – 6
family – 6/7
work – 8/9
spiritual/personal growth – 8/9
recreation – ?
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on January 15, 2018 at 11:10 am
Health- 3 need self discipline
Friends-7
Spouse-7
Family-8
Finances-5
Spiritual /personal growth-8
Work-7
Recreation- 4I feel like I have been chasing time and it makes me feel exhausted and always behind
Good things that happened last year- I (along with my team) launched the only trade school in Texas geared toward providing sustainable lifestyles for survivors of sex trafficking in the U.S. I learned that the Lord loves his daughters and he does not bring us this far to fail. I learned that HIS timing is perfect and I only need to present my five loves and two fish to witness his miracles!
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on January 17, 2018 at 12:05 pm
So I’m late to the game but giving myself some major grace. Honestly the Instagram post that there is nothing special about January 1 has been my daily reminder that it was okay to start when life let me have time. I am so exited to work through the power sheets and set some goals that help me live life fearlessly in 2018.
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on January 18, 2018 at 9:00 am
Step 1: I feel stretched thin. A lot of areas of my life are really great except for health and spiritual growth.
Step 2: I have been in pursuit in a lot of things to keep myself busy. If I stop and sit then I pause and realize I need to fill my own cup with God’s grace more so I can pour from that and not just from my toil.
Step 3: Great things happened, I traveled with friends, my husband and I went on more dates than any other year. We built local community by hosting work events and book clubs for our kids. I said yes to volunteering at our homeschool learning center. I ran every day of 2017.
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on January 18, 2018 at 2:57 pm
I hope I’m not too late getting started with 2018 goal settings-it just shows how crazy life is and how much I need this!
I have always loved the idea of goals, but found it so overwhelming to stick to them. However, with how much change I’ve been through in 2017, I really desire to get into good rhythms.
Step 1:
Health: I feel okay, but stress and anxiety due to all of the change has started to get to me. I’m not getting enough sleep and missing my habits of exercising and rest.
Friends: I have met some great new friends where we are now, but do miss my old ones because of the familiarity of them.
Family: We live 32 hours away from our families, so that is hard since we are all so close. I miss them a lot!
Finances: Since my husband is in seminary, I’m the one working for us but the Lord is so faithful.
Spiritual: Still haven’t found good rhythms yet with waking up and getting into the Word like I used to.
Work: I enjoy my work, but I’m too easily stressed and carry that stress a lot.
Recreation: I want to find hobbies that bring life. We have a garden plot on our campus and I’m excited to start that in the spring.Step 2.:
I feel like I’ve been chasing stability/perfection last year not giving myself enough grace for all of the change I’ve gone through.Step 3:
In 2017, I got married, moved half way across the country to a place where I knew only my husband for him to be in seminary, and started a new job, to name a few things. I’m also starting to pursue a Masters for myself which is wonderful, but adds another change.Though 2017 was a big year of change, it was also a year of joy. Being married is an incredible gift and I am so thankful for my dear husband. Our wedding was incredible because it was all of our favorite people together.
Moving, getting a new job, getting married, all have caused me to grow in ways I never thought I would. It’s a gift, though hard at times.I’m learning that I need grace upon grace and that apart from the Lord, I can do nothing. It’s incredible that even though life goes through changes, the Lord is so faithful and constant. He never leaves us and for that I am thankful. 2017 was an incredible year, and I am so excited about 2018.
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on January 19, 2018 at 11:55 am
Step 1 – How am I? On average, I’m slightly better that a 5 for all the areas. Two of my best areas are health and friendship and I’d really like to improve the family and spirituality this year.
Step 2 – What have I been chasing lately? I’ve been chasing perfection but not in the normal way – I chase it by not trying – if I can’t be perfect why try at all. So this year is my year to get messy – I’ve started working on the power sheets prep and continue to make progress trying not to beat myself up for not having my goals set on January 1.
Step 3 – Good things and things I learned – giving up diet soda, making new friends, trips with my husband and family, bible study……I am responsible for my own happiness and no one else is; your life is what you put into it – you must do the work; you can be kind but that doesn’t mean you must be a doormat; faith requires daily action
I can’t wait to get my good goals set and see the progress not perfection.
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on January 23, 2018 at 4:36 pm
I keep seeing PowerSheets everywhere online, and they seem like such a useful tool!
How am I? Feeling guilty over the lack of progress on my dissertation, and apprehensively looking forward to all of the big changes 2018 has in store for our family.
What have I been chasing? Quite literally, our new puppy. She’s the best and most exhausting thing.
Good things? 2017 taught me that major life goals happen when we plan and actively work toward them. I married in a meaningful ceremony at my childhood home, we adopted our puppy, and my husband started a career in his chosen field. 2018 promises to be a year of amazing growth as well.
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on January 23, 2018 at 10:23 pm
Day 1
Step 1-How am I?
Health-6-Could be better if I was exercising and eating fiber.
Spouse-8-Doing good-need to work on budget together and exercising together. Plan dates.
Finances-4-Need to do much better. My brother has offered to be our financial advisor so we are starting Dec 31.
Work-5-I’m making it but don’t love it. Burned out with patient car and all the flu and respiratory patients. Need to study more and maybe go to a conference to get some excitement again.
Friends-7-Good. Have has some quality time with Eliane, Annik, Kelly, Sanders. Need to spend time with Christy.
Spiritual-7-Have done excellent Precept Bible Studies thins year. Need to get more consistent praying times and Bible Reading between studies. Working on a daily Bible reading plan for 2018.
Recreation-4-Miss it. I want to be more active, consistent with exercise and outdoors more.Step2-What have I been chasing?
A clean house, time with Chris, time with friends and family, a financial cushion.Step 3-What good things happened in 2017 and what lessons did I learn? We finally finished our house and moved in! 2 babies were born in our family, our baby Cayden survived heart surgery, finished 2 amazing Bible studies, and we made it through the ups and downs. I learned God still doesn’t miracles. He isn’t faithful. I can make it.
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on January 24, 2018 at 10:04 am
Step 1:How am I? I was tempted to just rate myself poorly on all categories (except family, I have a very good relationship with my family) BUT I took a step back and realized that not everything deserved a zero. Once I decided to be honest with myself I realized I actually was probably doing better than I thought on some areas. Lowest probably being health, finances, and spiritual &personal growth. I didn’t really choose to focus on finances this year, though that is subject to change.
Step 2: Watched the video and nearly teared up because chasing perfect is pretty much me my entire life.
Step 3: Listing good things was difficult. Because I was chasing perfect I was basically looking at the whole year like a failed year. But I talked to my husband and we came up with a pretty nice list actually. I won’t list them all because there are many, but we were able to visit our families a lot despite a stricter budget (it was literally a miracle), I hit nearly all of my weightlifting goals, I read 120 books, we traveled to Guatemala, and we were able to host our church’s youth group a couple of times. -
on January 28, 2018 at 3:49 pm
Step 1: Health-4, Friends-4, Spouse-4, Family-7, Finances-7, Spiritual and personal growth-7, Work-7, Recreation-2. As I wrote these out, I feel hopeful about the growth that is possible! I most want to work on my relationship with my husband and learning how to recreate! I also want to work on my spiritual growth because although it is one of my highest rated areas, it has the biggest impact on the rest of my life.
Step 2: I have been chasing perfection for my entire life in the name of trying my best, but it has turned into an identity and into the way I seek approval and affection from anyone. Being perfect is impossible because I am a sinner, and chasing it with harder and harder work is exhausting and defeating, and I am ready to stop chasing it and rest in the gospel.
Step 3: I quit my full-time teaching job to stay home with my son because I knew I couldn’t do everything and do it well. I am grateful for God’s provision in allowing me to do so and for the place of freedom with my time and energy that He has brought me to, but I want to steward it well, which is why I’m so excited to use Powersheets to help me. It seems silly, but I have learned that scrolling through social media does nothing to fill me up. I learned to pray and that I need to be patient. I learned that I need to do fun things for my sanity and emotional health and for my marriage. -
on January 29, 2018 at 12:40 pm
Step #1:
-Health – 4, need to work on my physical stamina. I had 2 C sections my first 2 pregnancies and really need to exercise.
– Friends – 7L Thankful for a great church we are part with and helping me cultivate meaningful relationships.
– Family (including your significant other, if applicable): 7, still has a lot to work on but one of the main thing is for my husband and I to schedule family meetings weekly and monthly date night.
– Finances: 7, My husband is soo good and keeping up with our finances but one main thing I am working on is to stay within our grocery budget monthly.
– Spiritual + Personal Growth: 6, working on reading the whole bible and studying topical studies throughout the year.
– Work: 5, I am a stay at home mom with 4 boys under seven years old. This is mainly my “work” but working on making my home a peaceful one by creating routines that works for us.
– Recreation 5: not sure what recreation would be considered but we love camping and outdoors. My husband and I need to more equipped to having outdoor survival skills, CPR/First Aid and car mechanic stuff. -
on January 29, 2018 at 12:49 pm
Step 2: What have I been chasing recently? I’m been chasing organization lately. I would love all part s of my home to be organized but it seemed impossible. I feel like I’m just surviving daily and putting off fires.
Step 3: We were able to travel quite a lot 2017. We ventured on overlanding and explored lots of State Parks mostly in Virginia. We also got to see the dentist after a very very long time not seeing the dentist. We were able to replace our heating system, updating our hvac and all which costs us about $10,000. We paid it in cash. Thankful that we have been debt free for probably 5 years now and still is to this day. We also bought a pop up tent with a trailer which was a big purchase . It was our Christmas gift for our family as we venture to more adventures in 2018. So many to be thankful for but mostly thankful for the Lord’s grace. He has provided all of our needs and continues to provide.
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on January 29, 2018 at 2:40 pm
Step 1: health: exercise – 7 & eating – 4; friendships: 2; family: 5; finances – 7; spiritual/personal growth: sprititual-8 & personal-4; work – 5; recreation: 2.
Step 2: I don’t feel like I am actually chasing anything. Rather, I am just getting by, doing what has to be done, existing, winging it. The impact of this inertia is that I feel unproductive, unpurposeful, adrift, overwhelmed, and in a holding pattern like an airplane circling the airport waiting to land. Step 3: Good things: 1st grandchild born out of wedlock which initially was devastating news, but I have seen God work powerfully to b ring healing & restoration to the baby’s parents. Their wedding is March 3; my 21 year old daughter got married in October to an amazing godly man; the amazing financial provision for the details of my daughter’s wedding; my 11 year old son became a believer; healing of relationship between my 2 daughters; getaway with one of my best friends in October; new carpet upstairs. What grew well? The new additions to our family: grandchild, son-in-law & future daughter-in-law; consistent bible study and prayer through the first5 app and Val Marie prayer journal. -
on January 29, 2018 at 4:42 pm
1. I’m good. Not great, but good which is a big improvement for me actually after a tumultuous year or two. A lot of my life areas reflect that middle of the road good, although my family and friends scores are higher and my spiritual growth is the highest its been in a long time so I am very grateful for that. My finances need the most work and will definitely be a continued focus this year. I also want to work on my health and continue to make my family and time with my spouse thrive.
2. I’ve been chasing a lot of “What Ifs” in a not so good way and that’s been fueling some unneeded anxieties.
3.I discovered so many of these in my prep work, but highlights of things I learned: I’m not alone, little by little adds up, God provides- sometimes in quite unexpected ways, you can live with less, and new life is the ultimate hope (my daughter’s birth set the tone for a lot of the good things last year!)
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on January 29, 2018 at 5:05 pm
This is such an amazing giveaway! The winner will truly be blessed!
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on January 29, 2018 at 5:22 pm
Love your IG post that there is nothing magical about January 1st. I started my PS at the end of November, then sickness happened, then the holiday’s, and of course life with toddlers. I finally worked through the prep work and got my goals down mid- January and am just now finishing my action plans. 2 months of thinking about and working through it all, my goals are good. Really good. 🙂 And I’m pretty excited about them Love the Powersheets and all your encouragement.
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on January 29, 2018 at 5:23 pm
I especially love the action plan pages and full year action plan updated from the 2017 version. Great changes!
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on January 29, 2018 at 6:21 pm
Gosh I’m so excited I found you and through you Emily Ley! Excited about making changes in my life this year! My goals are to simplify and be more intentional with the things in my home, my wardrobe, and schedule.
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on January 29, 2018 at 7:08 pm
This will be brief because I am doing this for the 2nd time today. My first post disappeared! I am doing okay with exercise, finances, spiritual growth, but need improvement with healthy eating, friendships, recreation, personal growth. 2 – I don’t feel like I have been chasing much of anything, rather just getting by with low energy and drive. 3 – blessings: birth of 1st grandchild, 11 year old son becoming a believer, a daugher’s wedding, husband’s promotion at work.
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on January 29, 2018 at 7:08 pm
This will be brief because I am doing this for the 2nd time today. My first post disappeared! I am doing okay with exercise, finances, spiritual growth, but need improvement with healthy eating, friendships, recreation, personal growth. 2 – I don’t feel like I have been chasing much of anything, rather just getting by with low energy and drive. 3 – blessings: birth of 1st grandchild, 11 year old son becoming a believer, a daugher’s wedding, husband’s promotion at work.
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on January 29, 2018 at 7:32 pm
Love how thorough this is! And love all of Lara’s posts – so encouraging!!
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on January 29, 2018 at 7:54 pm
I’d love to share that I’ve been chasing control… and it makes me feel weak. I can only control so much and I need to surrender to the idea that God controls so much more than I can even fathom! The strength is in the surrender.
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on January 29, 2018 at 8:11 pm
THANK YOU for being so encouraging, vulnerable, and inspirational!
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on January 29, 2018 at 9:32 pm
I can’t wait to back through all of these steps in detail. I have the power sheets and really need to dive into them! I have some personal and business goals that I can’t wait to achieve this year and your guidance and encouragement along with your tools will no doubt help me reach those goals! Thanks for all the time, effort and energy you pour into others! xo
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on January 29, 2018 at 9:36 pm
Thanks for blazing the trail and leading a tribe of encouragers!! I need to go back through these steps in depth! xo
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on January 29, 2018 at 10:06 pm
Hi, friend. : ) I’m chiming in at the 11th hour!
1. I gave the highest score on my Cultivated Life Evaluation to Recreation and the lowest to Finances. I feel like there is always a lot of room for me to grow here! Most important to me in the upcoming year are Significant Other/Spiritual Growth (spiritual growth together as a couple, so I’m counting this as one), Finances, and Recreation – guess I can’t get enough?!
2. I’m on a mini-sabbatical in January and February (amazing), but I’ve been chasing a perfect plan for these couple of months and just don’t have it in place!
3. Good things: Planning (and others’ participation in it) facilitated a lot of fun things with the people I love. Lots of delayed gratification after years of diligent work in graduate school. Being completely at peace with delaying re-entry into medical school until the next academic year. Celebrated a lot of other people for so many different reasons! Maintained margin with my one free weeknight rule and social media-free weekends. Supported Matt into a fulfilling promotion at work and another MBA year down. Finally, I set myself up well for this mini-sabbatical, stepped out of my comfort zone, and got creative with my time so I could spend time with the people who are most important to me.
I think the biggest lesson that I will take with me into 2018 is that it’s great to plan ahead so that you can do the things you most want to do with the people you want to do them with, but I be careful about filling up the calendar too quickly and think hard about whether it’s something I REALLY want to do.
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on January 29, 2018 at 11:08 pm
I am so excited about this series and my new Power Sheets that arrived! Areas I want to improve– organization, intentional one on one time with each of my four children, dating my husband more regularly and finishing our album. I’ve been chasing fast solutions and living in survival mode, racing to get things done each day but never taking moments to organize my thoughts and methodically work through what matters most first. I’m ready to cultivate what matters and stop beating myself up over having to meet those goals slowly…it is ok to go slow! We have so many good things from 2017 to thank God for…continued health in our 3 year old who battled cancer when she was 1, slowly but surely paying off the medical bills from her treatment, our two eldest children sharing their love for Jesus through baptism, finishing our songs and working towards finalizing our music album…as far as lessons go, God is ever teaching me to let go of worry and stop comparing my decisions, home and pace of life to others…I am so thankful for our precious family and excited to listen to His voice as I plan my goals for this year!
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on January 29, 2018 at 11:10 pm
I am so excited about this series and my new Power Sheets that arrived!
Step One- Areas I want to improve are organization, intentional one on one time with each of my four children, dating my husband more regularly and finishing our album. I’ve been chasing fast solutions and living in survival mode, racing to get things done each day but never taking moments to organize my thoughts and methodically work through what matters most first. I’m ready to cultivate what matters and stop beating myself up over having to meet those goals slowly…it is ok to go slow!Step Two: We have so many good things from 2017 to thank God for…continued health in our 3 year old who battled cancer when she was 1, slowly but surely paying off the medical bills from her treatment, our two eldest children sharing their love for Jesus through baptism, finishing our songs and working towards finalizing our music album.
Step Three: As far as lessons go, God is ever teaching me to let go of worry and stop comparing my decisions, home and pace of life to others…I am so thankful for our precious family and excited to listen to His voice as I plan my goals for this year!
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on April 30, 2018 at 7:02 am
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on November 7, 2018 at 7:59 pm
“Uncovering really good goals means learning from the past in order to cultivate what’s next. The past has a lot to teach us!”
This is so very true! Often our goals are closely tied to our emotions, and the emotional attachments we associate with them consciously or unconsciously. So going back and looking at why we wanted things then, what happened to prevent us from achieving them etc is super helpful in making sure you don’t make the same mistakes again.
Thanks for a great post! I love your power sheets by the way. I experiment with lots of techniques to raise confidence, and improve myself and talk about my journey on my own blog. So this is really timely 🙂